Now that you've found the right guy to kiss, it's important that you know how to do it and what you really need to do. Kissing well is very important, but fortunately it's easy to do if you have good habits. Follow the steps below and you will soon be a pro!
Step
Part 1 of 3: Before Kissing
Step 1. Make sure your breath is fresh
Fresh breath is important in kissing because you will give the guy a reason to keep kissing you. Use a breath freshener or mint and always brush your teeth before you see him. Remember, bad breath is not the end of the world, but avoid it if you can.
Don't eat onion-scented, strong, or spicy foods until you see them. If you can't avoid these foods, what can you do, but try to avoid them completely
Step 2. Make sure you look beautiful
You can't plan when and where you're going to kiss a guy, but try to be prepared. If you are wearing clothes that are beautiful and make you comfortable, then this is a good start. You'll feel more confident, and greater confidence means the guy might kiss you again at a later date.
- Don't use lip-gloss on purpose, and don't use lipstick that's too thick. Both of these things will stick to your partner and make them look ridiculously shiny, depending on which one you use. Opt for a lip balm if you really need it.
- Don't use too many accessories like hats, or set your hair in a way that gets in your way. After all, men love natural beauty. Kiss the guy when your hair is up, so he can focus solely on you and the kiss, not on the hair that tickles his face.
Step 3. Find the right place to kiss
Public places are usually not a good idea for a first kiss, as people will stare or even yell at you. Find a public place that is personal enough to share your first kiss.
Step 4. Do something to relieve your nervousness, with physical flirting
This will let him know you like him, but also give him time to adjust, so you don't jump from 0 to 60 in a second.
- Hold her hand or put your arm on her shoulder. Begin to move your body so that it is closer to you; it would be very awkward if you had to move from afar to kiss him.
- Touch her hair or face to show your interest. Touch his nose with your index finger and smile at him.
- You can also try hugging him first, and, while you're still at it, lean back and start kissing. This will create a connection between the two of you, which starts from the moment you hug.
Step 5. Make sure that you are both ready to kiss, both physically and emotionally
Kissing is saying "I like you more than a friend," and sometimes it can be difficult to maintain a friendship once you're in a relationship. If you don't know whether you're doing the right thing or not, wait until you do.
Look into his eyes. When he looks back, slowly move his gaze to his lips, then back to his eyes again. If he does the same, then he is ready to kiss. If he looks awkward and avoids your eyes, give him time
Part 2 of 3: When Kissing
Step 1. Move your lips towards hers, and close your eyes at the last second
You need to be able to see to see where his lips are, but you don't want to keep your eyes open while kissing, so close your eyes before your lips touch his.
- Keep your eyes closed as you kiss. Once the kiss is over, you can open your eyes and slowly walk away.
- Adjust the kiss angle. This means that if the man's face is in an upright position, tilt your head slightly to the left or right - find a position that is more comfortable for you. This will help keep your noses from bumping into each other during the kiss.
Step 2. Use most of your lower lip when kissing
Don't purse your lips like you've just eaten Sour Patch Kids sour candy, or are about to kiss your grandma. Let your lips relax and open naturally.
- Give a long kiss. You don't have to do anything excessive as a form of attention the first time you kiss him.
- Your main goal is to get him to kiss you again for a few seconds. Give him enough kisses to keep him interested, but not so long that he gets bored. Try to have your first kiss in under 20 seconds if possible.
- Breathe with your nose. Do not exhale into his throat or on his lips.
- Don't French kiss your first kiss. The French kiss is a further kiss, so only do it when you want to make him feel infatuated.
Step 3. When kissing, do it in a position with the lips open naturally
This means that you should open your lips moderately, and maybe kiss the bottom lip with both parts of your lips. Don't let the kiss last too long - do it for about 5 seconds - and be prepared to walk away from it immediately.
Step 4. During the kiss, place your arms around his back and lean toward him
This way, you are diving while drinking water! If he puts his hands around your back or waist, it means he is very protective of you and you can thank him!
- If he plays with your hair or gently touches your cheek, it means that he really cares about his feelings, and he really likes you.
- Remember to try to keep your eyes closed. Don't peek! Your attention should be completely focused on his lips and the act of kissing.
Part 3 of 3: After Kissing
Step 1. As you walk away from him, open your eyes
Now is the time to take a look at the guy you just kissed. If you do well, he will blush, look excited, and smile.
- Smile back at him. He may be nervous about the kiss, so you may have to reassure him that he kisses well. You can show this through a smile.
- If your arm is still wrapped around his body, let it sit for a few seconds before you pull it away. It can be awkward if you let go of your hand immediately after kissing.
Step 2. Say something nice about him if you want
Sometimes, a kiss is a pretty strong statement. Other times, you might be able to say something after the kiss, for example:
- "You're a good kisser."
- "I've been wanting to do this for a long time."
Step 3. Listen to your heart
So you've finally kissed the guy you've been wanting for the past six months. Then, what should you do now? You have several options:
- Wait for him to take the next step. If you're the one doing this, maybe you can hope that the next kiss will be her turn to start. Be yourself, do what you normally do, but be friendly and cheerful around him. He will try to kiss you again.
- Kiss him whenever you want. Maybe you don't really care about who kisses whom, as long as a kiss happens. This is not a problem, just make sure that he will like it too. Kissing often usually results in the creation of a relationship.
- Stop kissing. Maybe he's not good at kissing, or he's touching you in the wrong place, or you just don't feel right. It does not matter. Try to remain friendly, but don't allow yourself to be in a situation (such as being in a private situation and you're alone with him) that would allow him to kiss you again.
Step 4. Remember the etiquette of kissing
There are some unwritten rules you should know about kissing. Pay attention to these things and try to follow them if you think they all make sense and you can afford them.
- Don't tell about your kiss. We know - this is very easy to break, but that's not to say it's true. What happens between you and the person you like is a private matter. Don't gossip too much about it.
- Don't kiss when you're sick and that could spread germs. Kissing is very intimate, but that doesn't mean your partner wants to feel every part of you, including your flu. Try to avoid kissing when you're not feeling well.
- Kiss only one person, not everyone. Kissing is fun, but that doesn't mean you can go and kiss everyone you want. Focus on only one person you really like, try to work on your relationship with them, then move on to someone else if your efforts don't work. You'll be rewarded better, and you'll probably be happier.
Tips
- Close your eyes: open eyes give the impression that you are surprised or uncomfortable! Close it for a long first kiss.
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Different signs when kissing also have different meanings. Learn these signs! When a guy touches you in different places, here's what he's trying to tell you:
- Hands on your waist - he is crazy about you and wants to protect you.
- Hands around your back - he wants you and doesn't want to let you go. He feels comfortable around you.
- Hands on your arms - he likes to hold on to you and enjoys the feeling of your touch.
- Hands around your neck - he wants something more.
- Hands touch your face - he is completely infatuated with you and cannot admire you enough.
- Hands in your hair - he is trying to be a real man.
- Hold it where you feel most confident. Make sure you don't kiss too long, as this will cause him to want something more next time.
- Always pay attention to the nonverbal signals you send to your man. Let things take their course, and you will have good results.
- Make sure you are not in a place that is too crowded and comfortable with your surroundings.
- Never say he touched you wrong even if he did.
Warning
- Always make sure that the guy you're kissing for the first time doesn't misunderstand what you expect from him. Touching him in the wrong places can make him think you want to do more than you can accept.
- Enjoy. The first kiss is a special moment. Don't think too much, relax and let him hold you.
- If this is your first kiss, make sure it's just the two of you, because kissing in front of a friend can be uncomfortable. You certainly don't want your friends to watch the kiss.
- Remember, if you feel uncomfortable at any time, you have the right to withdraw. Don't do something you don't want to do!
- Make sure your partner is ready, don't do it all of a sudden. You both should pay attention to each other's actions before you kiss him,
- Make sure you don't do it just because you're desperate; make sure it's the person you really want. Don't be someone who likes to kiss men she doesn't know and let all men kiss her, this is not a good reputation to have.
- If you wear braces, make sure there aren't any sharp edges, or your partner could injure his lips or tongue!
- When you kiss him, let him take the lead, but don't let him be too free to do it. Guys love it when they feel they have control, and you'll also feel comfortable being hugged by someone, but make sure you control the kiss too, if something feels wrong, back off.
- Don't chew gum; this thing will accumulate saliva. Saliva is an antibacterial agent, so in moderation, saliva is useful. However, no one wants to feel that they are kissing a dog.
- If you use accessories on your mouth, remove them, or your supposedly perfect kiss will fall apart.
