Willing to admit mistakes and take responsibility for them is a sign of one's maturity. If you're still having trouble doing this, try reading this article to learn some easy tips. Are you ready to be a better person?
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Part 1 of 3: Realizing Mistakes
Step 1. Realize your mistake
Before admitting it, realize first that you have made a mistake. Reflect on your words and/or actions that hurt the other person, understand the situation as clearly as possible, and identify the reasons behind your mistakes.
- Admitting mistakes doesn't mean you're weak. In fact, being willing to admit mistakes is an act that requires courage and self-awareness; in other words, doing so shows that you are a mature person.
- For example, if you forget to pick up the laundry, don't make up excuses. Simply admit that you are guilty of not keeping your word.
Step 2. Don't blame others
Even if the blame isn't entirely yours, focus on your part. Just because you're willing to admit you were wrong doesn't mean you have the right to blame someone else afterwards.
- Sometimes, other people are still not willing to admit their mistakes even though you have the courage to do so. Even if the situation is such, don't be angry or feel like the situation is unfair. Remember, you did the right thing. After all, all you can control is your actions, not the actions of others.
- For example, if you take part in the failure of a group project, admit your mistakes. Do not be busy blaming other people, even if they also take part in it.
Step 3. Get the person to talk as soon as possible
Staying silent until the situation worsens is not a good idea. Therefore, make sure you admit your mistakes right away and take responsibility for them before the situation gets worse. The sooner the problem is resolved, the smaller the consequences will be.
If someone is upset by your words and/or actions, talk to them immediately. For example, you could say, "I'm so sorry, I didn't come to your event yesterday."
Part 2 of 3: Admit Mistakes and Apologize
Step 1. Admit your mistakes
Admitting mistakes shows that you are aware of your imperfections as a human being. Even if it's difficult, try to show that you are willing to take responsibility for your words and/or actions that hurt the other person's feelings.
For example, try saying, “I'm sorry, yesterday I was too angry. Even if I'm upset, I shouldn't have shouted."
Step 2. Make an apology
If necessary, apologize sincerely. Admit your mistake and make it clear that you regret any words or actions that hurt him. Never be afraid to sincerely admit mistakes!
For example, try saying, “Sorry, our project got messed up because of me. I promise to fix it."
Step 3. Validate her feelings
If he's feeling angry or upset, try to understand his perspective. Validate the emotions he is feeling and show that you understand his feelings. One way to do this is to summarize the emotions he may be feeling in your own words.
For example, you could say, “You seem disappointed. I would too, if I were you."
Part 3 of 3: Accountable for Mistakes
Step 1. Offer a solution
After admitting a mistake, the most important thing you need to do is offer a solution to fix your error. This means that you may need to do something or promise not to repeat the same mistake in the future. No matter what you're trying to do, show that you're willing to do whatever it takes to improve the situation. Undoubtedly, doing so is effective in bringing things back to their original state.
- If you make a mistake at work, offer to work overtime to correct the mistake.
- If you make a mistake in a family or friendship relationship, say it honestly and sincerely that you won't do it again.
Step 2. Accept the consequences
Taking responsibility for mistakes is not easy, especially when you realize there are consequences that must be borne behind it. However, dare yourself to do it; believe me, after everything is over you will definitely feel more relieved. In addition to maintaining your integrity as a human being, you also have the opportunity to learn from mistakes and avoid them from happening again in the future.
There are no pleasant consequences. By admitting your fault, you may have to deal with an upset school, university, relative, or partner. However, realize that admitting mistakes is the right thing to do
Step 3. Reflect on your behavior
Realize your mistakes and reflect. What made you do it? Have you been feeling stressed lately and need to take it out on others? Or did you draw the wrong conclusion from a situation? Whatever the reason, try to reflect and make the necessary changes.
For example, if you often forget things because you're in a rush, try to be more patient and not act rashly in the future
Step 4. Be someone you can rely on
If necessary, ask someone else to remind you if your words and/or actions have the potential to offend others. Trust me, having a friend to talk to about responsibilities and maturity can help you change into a better person in less time.
For example, try asking your friends to meet up once a week. On this occasion, the two of you can discuss the positive and negative things that have happened in each other's lives over the past week. If one party makes a mistake that must be accounted for, the other party has the duty to remind
Step 5. Don't constantly bemoan your mistakes
Remember, everyone makes mistakes. Don't keep apologizing, feeling guilty, or lamenting what you did wrong. After admitting your mistake, do your best to get over the situation. Accept the past, learn from your mistakes, and move forward in a better direction.
- After doing everything that needs to be done to improve the situation, try to forget about it. There's no point living in the past.
- If guilt makes you too stressed or frustrated, try asking a mental health professional such as a therapist or professional counselor for help.
Tips
- There's no need to overdo anything. If your mistake isn't that big of a deal, simply say, "Oh, it's my fault. I'm sorry."
- Don't assume that everyone will give you a negative view if you make a mistake. In fact, they will appreciate you more if you dare to admit your mistakes and take responsibility for them.
- If you're too embarrassed to apologize in person, try apologizing through a text message, a short letter, or even by giving a simple gift as a symbol of your apology.
