Nothing really matters more than having an objective good personality. Everyone likes other people's different personality types. The key is to build a personality that makes you feel proud and confident. Of course, you want a personality that will appeal to the type of person you like.
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Method 1 of 4: Developing Interest
Step 1. Find out who you are
Take a deep look at yourself and reflect on who you are. This is the most difficult thing to do, but also very important. Try to separate the difference between the way you act and your true personality.
Step 2. Meditate on the things that matter to you
Remember, it's harder to figure out what matters to you if you're not sure who you really are. Don't choose the things that matter to you just because other people think they are. Find out by heart.
Maybe you've always loved playing soccer because your dad loved it. Or maybe you always support a certain political party because your friends support that party. Try to find out what you really like
Step 3. Develop a hobby
Having hobbies is a big part of having a good personality. Be fun, not boring. Try to involve yourself in the things you enjoy doing. No need to be proficient – just enjoy it.
Step 4. Have your own opinion
Having opinions is an important part of having a good personality. You can't just be the one who agrees. You should have your own opinion, but sometimes people ignore theirs to avoid conflict. Your opinion should not hurt others; what matters is well conveyed and you are willing to change your mind. Don't be afraid to ask other people's views and share your opinion.
Step 5. Spend time doing things that matter to you
Whether it's playing the guitar, reading the news, or learning how to fly a plane, if you like it, spending time doing these things means a lot. The more time you spend doing these things, the smarter you will be. Do this for yourself, not to make others think you look cool playing guitar.
Method 2 of 4: Building Confidence in Personality
Step 1. Think positively, both about yourself and others in general
All the thoughts we think are immediately transformed into the words spoken and actions taken. Having good thoughts about yourself gives rise to self-confidence and self-respect: a sign of a good personality. When you realize it with your own mind, then the process to guide it in the right direction with positive thoughts will become easy.
Step 2. Show the real you
We often get opportunities in life to express our personality. Do it! Try not to always be the same as everyone else. Having a good personality doesn't mean you're like everyone else. For example, if you are talking to a group of people or a person, try not to constantly agree with what they are saying. Include your opinions and stories in a polite and pleasant way.
Always act like yourself. People are attracted to other people who act real. If you fake it, it will be easy to spot
Step 3. Focus on the good parts of your personality
It's easy to degrade aspects of your personality. Try to avoid it. Pay attention to the aspects of your personality that other people might find interesting and try to point them out.
Step 4. Work on improving the parts of your personality that you don't like
You may think that you talk too much about yourself, or that you are often impatient. It's important to recognize these things, but not hate yourself for them. Take a look at how you act. Other times when you start to act impatient, you can notice it, and try to respond differently in the situation.
Method 3 of 4: Developing Good Personality Characteristics
Step 1. Make yourself always happy and cheerful
Try to see the joy in the world. Laugh with other people, but don't laugh at them. Everyone appreciates other people being happy and cheerful. Always smiling and laughing is a big part of having a good personality.
Step 2. Try to stay calm in stressful situations
Many people seem to have good personalities until you see them in an emergency or stressful situation. They are no longer calm. Don't be this kind of person! If you are in a stressful situation, try to stay calm and see what you can do to resolve the situation.
For example, your car breaks down on the highway and you will be late for work. Don't start screaming-it doesn't solve the problem. Think clearly and start making plans to solve the problem
Step 3. Keep an open mind
Part of having a good personality is being willing to change your view of the world. Listen to others and always be willing to change your mind. Don't judge others just because they don't act like you. Keeping an open mind will make it easier for you to make new friends and perhaps a much more enjoyable life. There's no need to stop things from happening in the world.
Step 4. Develop humility
You can be the most extraordinary and talented person in the world, but if you don't have a humble nature, then you probably don't have a great personality. Keep yourself level and balanced at all times. Nobody likes people with big egos.
Method 4 of 4: Caring for Others
Step 1. Learn to love others
Many bad personalities develop because people don't want to forgive each other and don't realize they are filled with hatred and anger. Try to find love for everyone.
Step 2. Ask questions
Being curious is part of caring about other people, and it will also make you a more attractive person. Try to find out what makes other people interesting and important. You will learn a lot and help them feel valuable.
Step 3. Be loyal
Don't betray those close to you. The people you love will appreciate you more if you are loyal. Stay with the people you love in good times and bad. You can get through a tough time in a relationship if you stay true to the person.
Step 4. Offer support and guidance
Don't try to act like you know everything, but try to always offer to help others when possible. This could be something as simple as helping a friend who is moving house or more in-depth help like guidance in life. Offer whatever is available but don't try to be too controlling in any particular way. Respect the decisions and opinions of others.
Tips
- Smile and be happy. People prefer to be around smiling faces. You don't have to be serious all the time.
- Being born with a certain personality is an accident, but trying to have a good personality is an achievement.
- Make simple changes whenever you feel the need to improve and enjoy.
- Be relaxed. Trying to be cute too can be considered hypocrisy.
- Update yourself and teach others how to do it. It is necessary to face tomorrow.
- Always look at the good in others instead of seeing the bad.
- Don't try to hurt other people for your pleasure.
- Be generous and have beneficial behavior.
- Never do something just to impress other people or create a certain appearance. This is not a good thing and often causes problems. Never depend on others for silly reasons.
- Give help to others in need. One day they will remember.
