Everyone likes, needs, and deserves some romance in bed. This is great for a relationship, as it brings you closer to each other, and opens up opportunities for you and your partner to get to know each other better too. Being more romantic isn't hard either and great results can come by just adding a few basic moves.
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Method 1 of 3: Start from the Basics
Step 1. Embrace your partner to help strengthen the bond
Cuddling is a great romantic activity and doesn't require a lot of extra skill, preparation, or effort. It's also a great way to transition to any bedroom activity, from warming up to serious talk. Go slow at this stage. Embrace for a long time, at least 20 minutes, before moving on to other activities. Take the time to talk and gently caress her body, stroke her hair and run your fingers down her collarbone.
- When you cuddle is also a good time to talk about your relationship and your future, it's especially romantic for a couple who's been together for almost a year or more.
- That's right, you can talk about whatever you want to talk about. But talking about having to go to the grocery store on a Saturday isn't very romantic. Keep in mind.
- Don't schedule romance in bed or be direct if you want to have sex. Being romantic means being subtle, so you need to either wait until you're in bed normally or find some other way to get him in bed and set the tone for romance. Try flirting and then take her hand and lead her to the bed.
Step 2. Kiss or make out
If you think you've mastered kissing and there's no room for improvement, think again. Everyone can always try to be better with their technique and execution can be everything. Don't neglect kissing and making out: these two can be very romantic. Do something different in the context of the kisses you give your current partner to support something new and exciting.
Get creative with your kisses. Kiss every freckle and mole. Apply lipstick and “draw” a heart with a kiss. There are many ways to make a kiss more romantic, sexier, and more memorable
Step 3. Give your partner a massage
Giving your partner a massage is old but golden when it comes to romance. Massage is very relaxing and a good way to lead to other romantic activities. You don't even have to be very strong. A light touch in the right places will feel just as good.
Try putting a bottle of massage oil (or baby oil, if that's easier to find) in a bowl of warm water and warm your hands before applying the oil to her skin. The warm sensation will make the massage a success
Step 4. Surprise him with what he can find under your shirt
The vast wonderland hiding under our go-to clothes is a space generally rented out exclusively for ourselves and our partners. When you give him treats that can be found under your clothes, you need to really surprise him, especially if you're not the kind of person who usually does that sort of thing.
- You can wear sexy underwear, write love notes in permanent ink, or get creative with your shaving routine (turning pubic or chest hair into a heart shape, for example, but admit it's not for everyone).
- This means you will have to put more effort into your clothes and underwear as well. Skip the old stuff with holes and smudges and find something that fits the mood.
Step 5. Take part in some couple-focused warm-ups
If you haven't taken part in the warm-up up to this point, now is the best time to start. If your warm-up is a little… one-sided, now is the time to turn things around. By throwing all your attention to the satisfaction of your partner, you will really grab his attention. And thanks him.
- For help with women, try this article. A good form of foreplay for women is oral sex, as this is the most effective form of stimulation for their anatomy.
- For help with men, try this article. A great option to stimulate your guy is to wear sexy underwear and let him find it slowly, like opening a Christmas present.
Method 2 of 3: Learn What to Say
Step 1. Be open about your feelings
The best place to start is by simply telling your partner how you feel. You don't have to worry about being really fluent or getting stale. As long as you speak from the heart and are honest with your feelings, your partner will be deeply touched. Tell him what he means to you and what your life is like when he is in it. This will make him feel good and help set a truly romantic atmosphere.
For example, you could say things like, "When I'm with you it feels like coming home after being completely lost. When I'm with you, I feel like I have my compass, I'll never get lost again."
Step 2. Borrow someone else's words
You can also try the traditional route and use romantic songs, poems, and quotes to make her feel lukewarm. This works best if you use the words of something that means a lot to him. Quoting one of his favorite romantic moments from his movie, remembering his favorite poem, or singing his favorite love song are all great ways to light up your romance. Just be careful not to sound trite!
Great classics to cover include Shakespeare's "Sonnet 116" or E. E. Cummings "somewhere i have never traveled, gladly beyond"
Step 3. Talk about what you want for your partner
Talking about the nice things you want for your partner gives you a great way to express your love in a way that really puts the focus on him. It is very romantic and will warm her heart with feelings of love and affection.
- You can talk about how much you want him to achieve his dreams, how much you want him not to worry about the things he's struggling with right now, or how much you want him to
- For example, you could say something like, "I really want you to be able to travel the world and see all the things you always tell me about…and I'll do whatever it takes to make sure you get that chance."
Step 4. Tell her how sexy she is
Telling your partner how sexy he is can be very romantic. This is especially important if your partner doesn't really see himself as a sexual being or someone who is so desirable, because when you show him that you think this way about him he starts to feel better about himself. By showing him how sexy you think he is, he'll be more comfortable and have a much better time in the bedroom.
Say something like, "You look so hot like that. I feel like a teenager again…"
Step 5. Talk sexy and dirty
We tend to smear sexy talk as highly unromantic but it certainly can. Dirty and sexy talk opens boundaries and brings the two of you closer by giving you an easy way to talk about what you like and what you want. This can be the key to making a relationship more fulfilling and lasting.
Say things like, "I love it when you do that with your tongue…"
Method 3 of 3: Be Creative
Step 1. Turn your bedroom into a vacation
You can really surprise your partner by turning your bedroom into a romantic getaway. This is a great choice for celebrations and birthdays, but also as a "yes that's how it is" body language. Display flower petals, scented candles for a traditional look or you can use props and decorations to create a theme.
- For example, you can get perfumes, fabrics, pillows and maybe a quick coat of paint to give your room an Indian renovation before you show your partner how much you both can learn from the Kama Sutra. You can also set the track of the song. Try something by Ravi Shankar or try Anoushka Shankar if you want something a little more modern and sexy.
- You can also purchase plush fabrics to decorate and hang from ceilings and walls, turning unromantic rooms into expensive love nests.
Step 2. Get some brown body paint
Brown body paint is a great way to be romantic (and delicious) with your partner. This body paint, easily available from sex shops or online retailers, will let you write love notes and play games using your skin and tongue!
You can even make your own chocolate body paint at home
Step 3. Feed your partner
Set up a sexy picnic in your bed with lots of fun food to feed your partner. You can pamper him with peeled grapes, chocolate covered strawberries, or hot chocolate. Take turns feeding each other while you listen to sexy music. Before you know it, you'll be ready to eat each other.
Step 4. Set up a mini cinema
Going to the movies is romantic but going to the movies alone is even more romantic. However, not everyone can rent an entire movie theater for one date. Skip the price tag and set up a cinema in your bed instead. Drag the TV into your room or use your computer or laptop as your movie screen. Organize it all with popcorn and candy stands, so your partner feels as though he or she is going to a real movie.
It's a good idea to try watching a movie that has meaning for both of you. For example, try to catch up on the first movie the two of you watched together
Step 5. Set up photo shoot
A unique way to be romantic in the bedroom is couple photography or couple erotic photography. This is where your photo is taken in the bedroom, in a romantic setting. This may include both of you naked or even fully clothed. It depends on you but sexy, romantic photos of each other are good to try. It also creates associations in your mind, between being in your bed and the feeling and excitement of the photo shoot.
You can find a photographer who specializes in this kind of photography or you can do it yourself. Of course, it would be hard to get a photo of the two of you together in that way but you can take lots of sexy photos of each other without feeling uncomfortable having someone else in the room
Tips
- Embrace after that.
- Kiss your partner while he or she is talking.
- Clean the bedroom and make the bed. Also, dim the lights.
- Make a nice snack and cuddle before the action.
- Put on some romantic music.
- Bring something nice to bed - chocolate, strawberries, grapes, or even a block of ice.
