If there's a guy you're crazy about, it's only natural that you want him to be crazy about you too. Every guy is different, but you can try some common tricks and techniques that might help you achieve your goals.
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Method 1 of 3: Part One: Spreading Your Charm
Step 1. Make eye contact
It sounds simple, but making and holding eye contact with a guy can give him enough of a boost to be attracted to you.
- When talking to him, make sure you maintain eye contact. Try not to let your eyes wander, especially towards other men.
- You can even use eye contact to drive him crazy when you're standing on opposite sides of the room. Make eye contact with him, and after holding it for a while, lower your gaze. Slowly bring your eyes back to meet hers, smiling a shy or seductive smile.
Step 2. Dress yourself up
It's true that it's the inner beauty that matters, but it's the outer appearance that people see first. When you're trying to make a guy go crazy at first, wear makeup, clothes, and accessories that bring out your best features.
- This doesn't mean you have to wear very revealing or tight clothing. A revealing outfit will catch a guy's attention for a while, but likely won't keep him infatuated for long.
- A short dress that shows a few legs or a body-hugging blouse in the right places can work wonders, but your appearance should be more "attractive" than "sexy."
- The idea is that your body and face appear in the best possible shape. If the clothes you're wearing look objectively stunning even when you're not trying to win over a guy, they're likely to serve this purpose.
Step 3. Choose more casual clothes later
Now that you've gotten to know the guy, it's time to let your guard down and dress casually. This tells him that he has successfully penetrated the fortress and has managed to find an opening to enter your life.
- Of course the clothes you wear must be clean. Casual jeans and a t-shirt will make for a cute casual look, but a T-shirt three sizes larger with a large mustard stain may not be the best choice.
- Once you've developed the habit of casually dressing, you'll still need to dress up more every now and then to rekindle the spark she used to feel when she first saw you.
Step 4. Wear a fragrance with your signature scent
Spray a little perfume behind the ear or apply lotion after showering. If you are charming, a man will want to move closer to you.
The key is not to overdo it. Your scent should be strong enough to waft gently through the air. Perfumes that are too strong can overpower his sense of smell and make him want to distance himself from you
Step 5. Shake
Many men are crazy about women who feel good about themselves to rock in a random dance.
- You can do this at a party or a club, but it's even more effective if you start rocking to the radio while in the kitchen or in the car.
- Try getting him to rock with you. Watching you is fun, but being invited to join can also drive him crazy.
Step 6. Play with your hair
If you know he's looking, play with your hair between your fingers as you talk or toss your hair casually while you're working on something. Make the action as natural as possible.
If your hair is short or in a ponytail, you can run your hands down the nape of your neck or bare shoulders. This movement is just as sensual
Method 2 of 3: Part Two: Keeping His Interests
Step 1. Balance independence and dependence
You need to show him that you are capable of being independent, but at the same time, you have to make sure he knows that there is a place for him in your life.
- If he's going to be busy on the weekends, don't beg him to spare some time for you. Instead, just accept it, make your own plans and tell him.
- However, do not distance yourself. If you're alone, it's not appropriate to start checking text messages or talking about other friends.
Step 2. Show confidence
Let him see a side of you as a woman who is sure of herself and her place. Even if your life isn't fully settled right now, there are usually some aspects that you can be proud of and believe in.
- Maybe you're aware of the fact that your career isn't going as far as you'd like, or the fact that you're relatively inexperienced in romance and romance. On the other hand, you may be very confident in your intelligence, the relationships you have with friends and family, or some other accomplishment.
- If you're not very confident in one aspect of your life, highlight the aspects you're really proud of instead of fixating on what you think are flaws.
Step 3. Respect yourself
Appreciate your body, free will, and life. Treating yourself badly will send a signal that you don't deserve anyone's attention, even if it's not true.
Step 4. Show a different side of yourself
Once he gets to know you a little bit, show him a side of you he's never seen before. The surprise will make him realize that there's a lot more to you than outward impressions, making you seem even more mysterious.
- If you're usually the serious and loud type, let him watch you laugh uncontrollably while watching your favorite comedy or relaxing after a hard day.
- On the other hand, if you're usually the laid-back type, be serious at one point in time and share some of your dreams and fears.
Step 5. Learn to laugh at yourself
There must be times when you make small mistakes in front of him. Instead of being annoyed, just ignore it and laugh at yourself.
Step 6. Show your intelligence
A stupid and innocent woman may keep a man interested for one night, but a smart woman will challenge his mind and keep him infatuated for a much longer period of time.
You don't have to pretend to know about things you've never heard of before. Valuing intelligence means letting your natural intelligence show. Don't try to make yourself appear empty-brained
Step 7. Encourage him to chase you
Most men prefer to seduce, than to be seduced. He needs to know that you're interested, but you shouldn't let him think that you're so desperate to be with him.
Make him try to approach you. “Close” here means physical and emotional closeness. Let him get close emotionally by only expressing your deepest thoughts and feelings little by little. Instead of asking her over to your apartment the first night, leave her with nothing but a kiss-that's enough of it-and make her have to prove herself before it gets any more than that
Step 8. Make him miss you
Even if you don't want to be away from him, you can actually retain his attention better if you're away long enough and often enough that he misses your presence.
- From time to time, make yourself hard to find. Instead of accepting each invitation right away, skip one, especially if he made it at the last minute. Make sure you accompany the rejection with the words that you'd love to do something next time.
- Make him a little jealous, but do it with care. Go out with some girl friends, and talk about the many fun things you plan to do. But avoid doing this with male friends, as that will give him reason to doubt your sincerity towards him.
Method 3 of 3: Part Three: Making Him Feel Happy
Step 1. Let him be himself
Don't ask him to change for you. Nobody's perfect, and if you're in a relationship with a guy, there will be things you both have to work on and compromise on. However, don't let anything necessitate a dramatic change in his personality or beliefs.
Step 2. Love the people he loves
Make friends with his friends and ask about his family. By showing interest in the people he cares about, you show that you really want to be a part of his life.
- You don't have to be friends with their friends, but it helps if you can tolerate them spending time together when needed. Try not to get too close to any of them, as this could spark unwanted jealousy and suspicion.
- If he's not on good terms with his family and isn't interested in talking about them, don't push the topic. Talk about it every now and then, but wait until he's ready to start talking before you go into anything in depth.
Step 3. Show interest in the hobby
Nobody's saying that you have to like all the hobbies he likes, but at least you have to be interested enough to try or let him talk to you about it.
If he invites you to try his hobby, try it, even if you know nothing about it. You can choose not to continue after the first try, but at least you know enough to understand it the next time he starts talking about it
Step 4. Praise him sincerely
Make positive, teasing comments about his prowess when he least expects it. Flattery can be a powerful tool. However, make sure your compliment is sincere, and not sarcastic.
- Compliments on her appearance can be just as effective as compliments on her personality or abilities.
- Give random but interesting compliments. When you meet him after work, you can lean in and whisper that you can't stop thinking about his sexy eyes. The following week, you can casually say that you don't know anyone who can tell jokes or stories as well as he does.
Step 5. Let him show off his masculinity
When you're alone, let him be a real man. This doesn't mean you have to be completely submissive, but it does mean letting him take the lead and show the character associated with his traditional male role.
For example, if he opens the door for you or lends you a jacket on a cold night, you should accept it
Step 6. Support him but don't choke him
Be a safe place when he falls. When things don't go the way they should, let them know that you will always be there to support them emotionally and non-judgmentally.
On the other hand, you should also give him space. You may find that he needs more personal space than you. If he needs time to be detached or time to deal with his problems on his own, let him be without making a big deal out of it
Step 7. Pay attention to it
A man is likely to be more infatuated with a woman which shows that he is also infatuated with her. Pay attention to what he says and does, then bring that information out later to prove that you are listening.
- For example, if he told you about his pet dog when he was 12, you can mention that in a later conversation.
- A simple way to show that you care about him is to remember a few basic facts: birthday, sibling names, etc.
