Making a guy crazy about you is not difficult if you know the strategy. Just show your interest implicitly and don't go too far out of orbit; I'm sure he'll love you as much as he loves video games, chocolate cake or his cell phone! But remember, no matter how much you like him, make sure you are still able to control yourself. Want to know more detailed information? Read on for this article!
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Part 1 of 4: Getting to Know Him Closer
Step 1. Introduce yourself
As silly as it sounds, this step is actually very important. First of all, make sure he's the perfect guy you want him to be (not just a guy with a handsome face that's not clear on his qualities). Also make sure he is aware of your existence! Are you ready to do it? Take a deep breath and approach him confidently!
Just say, “Hi, I…”. Introduce yourself as reasonably as possible; treat him like anyone else you want to be friends with. At this stage, don't rush into thinking about how to seduce or get him to like you
Step 2. Get to know him better
Before trapping his interest, make sure you get to know him better; for example, find out what he likes, what his job is, what his hobbies are, etc. The more information you have, the more "weapons" you have to win her heart.
- Once you find out what he likes, try to make him realize that you both have common interests (for example, by discussing them during a conversation). That way, he'll realize that you both have common interests and may even ask you to do something together.
- For example, if he likes to play golf, try telling him that you and your dad played golf last week.
- In addition, he will also feel more relaxed and positive if given the opportunity to share his passions and interests with you. That positive feeling is what he will always associate with your existence.
Step 3. Talk about yourself
A great way to get to know someone better is to tell them about yourself and watch their reactions. But make sure you don't immediately say things that are too personal or risk making her back off in fear.
You can also ask him to talk about general topics like sports, movies, music, politics, etc.; most importantly, have a conversation with him so you can get to know him better
Step 4. Take advantage of social media
Follow him on Instagram or other social media. Start by liking some of the photos; Once you've both followed each other, try liking some of her selfies to show that you like how she looks. Make sure you also like photos that relate to their hobbies or interests.
If he starts liking or commenting on your statuses more often, it's a sign that you're doing well! At this point, try to take a break for a moment so he'll question why you don't appear on his social media pages so often. Every now and then, like or comment on the status; but don't do it too often
Part 2 of 4: Getting Used to Your Existence
Step 1. Try to see him more often
Okay, now he knows who you are. If your first conversation with him didn't go well, don't worry. After all, now you have more time to build interactions with him. There's nothing wrong with starting to visit places he frequents as long as it will familiarize him with your presence.
- Think logically: can you be attracted to people whose existence you are barely even aware of? That's roughly how he feels about you right now.
- Repeated exposure will increase his attraction to you. If he's already attracted to you, this method is guaranteed to trap his attraction even more.
- Want to spend more time around it? Try to visit more frequently the places he frequents (bars, restaurants, bookstores, etc.). You can also try to get invited to social events that he often attends.
Step 2. Give your best appearance
Physical appearance is not everything; but it cannot be denied, the truth of the saying "from the eyes down to the heart" is undeniable. For that, make sure you always give the best appearance in front of him. Even if you meet her at a very casual event, try wearing a little makeup to bring out the natural beauty of your face. Also make sure you always smell good so that your image in his mind remains positive.
Remember, everyone appreciates a genuine smile. Therefore, make sure you always give the best smile every time you meet him
Step 3. Take advantage of your connection
If you both have mutual friends (friends, not random acquaintances to make it less suspicious), try interacting with these people more often. If he suddenly shows up at the same time, try talking to him. Respond to his every word, but don't overdo it. Try to show that you are someone worthy of further recognition.
On the other hand, don't give up if you don't have mutual friends! Change your strategy. For example, if you see him having lunch alone, try asking him to join you. If you accidentally run into her in the school corridors, try saying hello and having a chat with her
Step 4. Don't scare him
Don't follow him wherever he goes or take part in all his extracurricular activities. Be cheerful and friendly when you're around him, but make sure you're sincere. Trust me, he'll get scared and even further away if he suddenly sees you everywhere! Finding a balance is indeed the most difficult process, but you can definitely do it.
- Don't turn into a stalker; stick to the role of an open and friendly friend. If he feels comfortable with you, he will likely be moved to get to know you better. This is a move worth trying to capture his interest!
- Avoid typical stalker behaviors like frequenting the same places as her, not stopping calling or texting her, constantly commenting on her social media pages, or visiting her office too often.
- Remember, time cannot be rushed. Trust me, he'll draw closer to you if you're willing to keep your "friend" attraction.
Part 3 of 4: Make Him Think of You
Step 1. Include him in your circle of friends
Once your relationship with him is more than just “two people who know each other”, the next step is to develop a closer friendship with him. Many people think this method is wrong. Oftentimes, though, it's actually an effective way to build more intense relationships with other people. Surely you don't want to make him fall in love with the untrue you, do you? In fact, you can definitely be yourself in front of your friends; and if you want to make him crazy about you, make sure you can treat him as a friend and be yourself to him.
- Apart from that, this method also helps both of you to find common ground. Trust me, a natural relationship is easier to build if you are willing to be warm and friendly in front of him.
- How do you build friendships with the people around you? If it works for someone else, you can be sure it will work for him too!
Step 2. Make him feel special
After successfully making friends with him, try to show that his status in your eyes is more than just "an ordinary guy friend". Implicitly, make the position look a little more prominent. For example, you could start acting silly in front of him; it shows that you feel close to him. But at this stage, don't be in a rush to tell him your biggest secret! Most likely he would feel frightened and retreat slowly.
If you're one of those people who don't open up easily, try saying to him, "I'm feeling a little down today.". If you know his favorite brand of chocolate, try buying it for him once in a while (and for you too!)
Step 3. Be implicit
Remember, you want to make him realize that you two have a lot in common. How to? Without being too obvious, show that you trust him and care about him more than anyone else; sooner or later, he will realize that something is going on between you two.
- Don't be too explicit. For example, don't say, “Ow I'm so depressed! This feeling is terrible,” if not to frighten her. How not, you suddenly talk a lot about yourself without giving him an explanation he can understand. Make everything run naturally and not forced.
- Before telling something to your friends, tell the story to them first. Trust me, this behavior will also make him feel more special than the rest of your friends. You can also give him a slightly more intense touch. For example, touch his arm when you are having a conversation or hug him when you pass by on the street.
Step 4. Don't discuss your plans with anyone else
At least you won't feel embarrassed if it turns out that you don't really like the guy. Plus, you can avoid awkward situations like hearing your friend yell "Oh, is this the one?" when the man passes in front of you. You can also avoid the various favors your friends offer you. Make no mistake! Even though their intentions are good, sometimes the results are not that good.
Only tell other people if it's impossible for them to meet a guy you like, or if any of the methods above don't work without their help. But if that's not the case, be prepared to fight alone
Part 4 of 4: The Fascinating Approach
Step 1. Clarify your intentions
After spending some time in the “medium zone”, move on to the next zone. The time you need really depends on the guy you're after; move whenever the time feels right. Basically, the right time generally comes when he has started paying extra attention to you. Are you ready to enter the “seduction zone”?
Say sweet sentences like, “I miss you,” or “I saw/meet…and immediately thought of you.”
Step 2. Touch him more often
For example, feel free to lean on his shoulder whenever you feel tired. At this stage, you and he should be confident enough to narrow personal boundaries between you two.
- Physical intimacy is a very important factor; when you do, you indirectly make him question his feelings. But remember, don't overdo it! After all, he's still your friend, right? Every now and then, make reasonable and polite physical contact.
- Always include a reasonable excuse such as being tired, sad, or needing a hug. Again, make sure you don't scare him!
Step 3. Make him want you even more
Don't show your love clearly. Remember, men love to fight; so feel free to make it chase you a bit. Show your interest, but don't give the impression that you don't have anything else to do.
- Don't immediately respond to his text messages, don't always answer his phone, don't always say yes every time he asks you out.
- Sometimes, ignore him. Don't do it too often or you risk destroying the relationship with him. If you ignore him once in a while, he will question your true feelings and become even more curious about you!
- Once you've both made it past the "friend zone," make sure you don't always look like you're out. This will make him question your busyness and miss you more. Show him that he is not the only subject that fills your daily life; surely, he will care about and love you more afterward.
Step 4. Ask her out on a date
If he did it first, congratulations! It's a sign that you've won his heart. But if he doesn't, don't panic. Remember, some guys have a hard time asking girls out too. If he doesn't, it doesn't mean he doesn't like you; maybe he just feels confident and afraid to accept rejection.
Give a signal through statements such as, “I want to see this movie, okay? The problem is that all my friends watched last week.". If after that he also doesn't ask you out, it's a sign you need to take the initiative to do it! Believe me, today's modern era is no longer taboo for women to do such things
Tips
- Be patient. This process is not easy, not short, and will not be smooth. But whenever you're tempted to quit, hold your chin back and remind yourself that the whole process is worth the effort.
- If the methods above don't work for you to be with the guy you like, don't be discouraged! Remember, you did your best. If in the end the effort does not produce results, the sign is not your fault. Believe me, you are a beautiful and charming woman in your own way; one day, you will surely find someone who can fully appreciate your qualities. Even if this situation doesn't end the way you expected, at least you've made some new friends, right?
- Show a friendly attitude, but maintain a healthy distance.
- Remember, men and women have different basic characters. If he can't pick up on your signal, don't despair; the situation is very normal. In fact, at times, you might even feel that he doesn't understand the language you're speaking!
