Getting a girl to notice you is hard, let alone getting her to like you. But, driving him crazy? This is practically Mount Everest of the many challenges of love. Nonetheless, it can be done, and the rewards are well worth it. If you want to make a girl fall in love with you in particular, consider these tips.
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Step 1. Be the hero
Whenever he's in trouble or worried about something, don't just sit by his side. Admit that you don't always know the answer to his problem, and you may not know exactly what he's going through, but try to make things better for him.
- Ask him how you can help him, but don't force him to let you help. Be patient with everything he goes through and be supportive. If you can make a difference, do it without reluctance, but with care because you don't want to hurt it anyway.
- If he already likes you, put more effort into it than he expected. Do something he never expected you to do, like make breakfast and then wash the dishes afterwards, and he'll fall in love with you even more. This way you show him your strengths.
- If he doesn't like you yet, or you don't know how he feels, stay calm. If you're the type of guy who sweats and gets nervous around girls, try to calm yourself down. Think of him as if he were just your friend who just happened to look different. If you can't calm down, don't worry! Girls think that nervous and shy guys are cute. You will make him laugh in a positive sense!
Step 2. Don't sink too deep into the friend zone
Give a friendly attitude without having to be there all the time. Girls like guys who are a little mysterious, so try instilling a little mystery. Don't always pick up the phone from him, tell him where you're going, and so on. Be honest, but don't be too open with him.
Step 3. Pay attention to your appearance
Your guy friends might not care if you hang around wearing the same clothes you wore to mow the lawn, but the girl of your dreams probably won't be impressed. Here are simple things you can start doing that will help:
- Don't forget to shower and shave every day. If you're not old enough to shave your beard, don't worry about this. You will soon need to. Wear fragrances and look clean by bathing regularly.
- Wear clothes that fit. Not your sister's clothes; neither are your father's clothes. Wear your own clothes, and clothes that can highlight the advantages of your body shape. It doesn't matter how much money you have. Every man needs the right pair of jeans, a fitted t-shirt, a simple but elegant collared shirt, and shoes that fit the occasion.
- Exercise. Get rid of excess fat and turn it into muscle. Some women like men who have underdeveloped muscles that look scary. Find a local sports league that interests you and train there. You might even impress your crush with your new skills.
Step 4. Be charming
You must have at least a special charm to attract women. Many men are charming in different ways, but here are captivating ideas to consider:
- Be manly. Examples are opening doors, paying on dates, keeping promises, and so on. Women love it when a manly man cares for them.
- Be a funny guy. Girls like guys who can keep the conversation flowing, and who can turn anything into a joke. Learn how to laugh at yourself elegantly.
- Be a smart man. You should try your best to read a lot, absorb information on current issues, and be curious. Women like men who are smart, but the conversation can still be followed.
Step 5. Be a reliable man
Every woman wants a reliable man – who can depend not because she has to, but because she wants to be that person. Being reliable means showing that he can feel safe with you. Try to be the most reliable of the men you know.
- Do what you said you would do. When you say something, put it into action. Women don't like men who say they will do something, but then never do it.
- Be punctual. Even though some women are often late for a date, women hate it when they have to wait for a man. To them, it's saying, "I don't care enough for you to bother being on time." If you must be late, let him know beforehand.
- Have a good reputation. Be a man who deserves to be defended by other men. You never know if he, or one of his friends, is asking around about you. And if he hears how you cheated on your ex, your reputation will drop and you'll have to rebuild it.
Step 6. Try to be funny
This will make women relax. A person will be more responsive and receptive when relaxed. This is similar to being witty, but with a higher importance. This will help you connect with him emotionally/intellectually. He should be enjoying your company and not getting bored.
Step 7. Don't be too pushy
He will feel numb if you are always around him and touch him and tease him irritably even though he is not interested and never shows any interest at all. Learn to give him control, even if this control is just an illusion.
If a girl doesn't want to kiss, for example, or have sex, don't try to force her. This is not the way to make him crazy about you. Listen to his desires, understand why he has them, and respect them. You will catch more bees with honey than with vinegar
Step 8. Be financially independent
Most women don't care how much you earn, or who your parents are, as long as you can provide for them. This is good because some men are not blessed with wealth. Remember the following things about money around women:
- Women, like men, want to be pampered every once in a while. They don't need to be fancy, but they love to be pampered. Save enough money to pamper him once in a while.
- Some women don't like men who show off their money. If you have money, don't flaunt it. You'll even scare him.
Step 9. Don't flirt with other girls too much
A girl can really like you, but seeing you dancing or talking to other girls can be a drag. Make sure he knows you're only interested in him.
- At the same time, have girl friends. If you hang out with a friend who is also a girl, she will feel more secure around you because other girls are comfortable with you. If you've never hung out with women, this could be a sign that you're inexperienced with women.
- Sometimes, women get involved in competition – just like men! Therefore, it really helps if you are another woman around you, as long as you don't get involved with them or flirt with them.
Step 10. Praise him
Give him a good compliment. Don't praise his ability to do everything perfectly, or you'll appear overbearing or obsessive yourself. A well-placed compliment can make a girl remember you forever.
- Be sincere when you hit. Find out what you like most about him, what you think makes him the most unique, and tell him. If this corresponds to reality, it will automatically sound sincere.
- Reinforce his view of himself. If he thinks he is an athlete, strengthen his competitive spirit or athletic skills. If he considers himself a thinker, praise his intelligence. Whatever his perception of himself is, praise that aspect of him.
- Focus on his personality more than his appearance. If you have to compliment her looks, stay away from the more feminine areas and don't stray from the following:
- Smile
- Hair
- Eye
- Lip
- Clothing (style, appearance, etc.)
Step 11. Give him a reason to remember you
Sing or hum a song, talk about movies, talk about favorite places. Something that, when he hears it again, reminds him of you.
Step 12. Balance your sensitive side with masculine side
Women like men who can be gentle without being like women. This means that you have to understand his mind, but be manly at the same time. Take lessons from the following:
- It's okay to cry while watching a movie… if the movie is about sports. Even though some women don't like sports, it will be a sign of your manhood to her. Be prepared to continue to enjoy the sport and also make time for it.
- It's okay to dress well… but not too well. As discussed above, women like men who are well-dressed. However, once the man dresses more neatly than her, it can turn him away.
Step 13. Most importantly, don't take a guide like this literally
You shouldn't build a relationship with the help of texts. The most important thing to do when looking for a meaningful relationship is to relax around him, and let your true personality shine through. Don't force yourself to conform to certain stereotypes. You're better off waiting until you can find a girl who likes you, not a guy who has a "cool" stereotype. A relationship where you can be yourself is much more meaningful than a relationship where you have to pretend to be someone else.
Step 14. Women sometimes don't know what they want
Be yourself and be manly. Let him do what he wants and show that you care about him.
Tips
- Wear fragrance!
- Don't talk for hours. Give him a chance to talk.
- Show that you are confident by displaying good posture. Master the art of approaching women. While you're talking, you shouldn't be overly excited, nor should you throw all kinds of questions or give him detailed answers. Let him be curious enough to want you and get to know you better. Girls love mystery.
- Never insult him, especially if he's shy, even if you're joking, unless you know he'll know it's a joke.
- If he wants you to kiss him, and you know, kiss him when the time is right. Otherwise, he'll get bored and think you're not interested in being more than a friend, then move on to someone who is, even if that person isn't as cool, smart, or handsome as you.
- Once you become good friends, it's a good idea to bring her flowers on Valentine's Day or a gift that says you like her.
- Don't compliment her unless you really think she looks incredibly beautiful, or has just done something really good.
Warning
- Try not to talk to him all the time, every day. He'll prefer a two-day break in your conversation, but if you keep talking to him and trying to force the conversation, you'll only be interrupting him. Give him space every now and then to show that you're not being too pushy, which can be annoying in general. Let it come to you.
- Never go too far when flirting with a girl. Calling him fat or mocking his appearance is rude and unpleasant.
- Don't talk about women in front of other women. Try not to gossip.
- Some women were offended by the "prince's attitude." Make sure you know the type of woman you are dealing with. Some can find it sexist, too nice, or it can look like you're trying to inject a bit of superiority.
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If a woman says she's not interested, back off. No means no.
