Have you ever really liked a girl, but thought she was out of your reach? The bad news is that it can happen. The good news is that it doesn't have to be! If you're ready to make that girl yours, this article will teach you how, regardless of who you are or how you look! To make girls crazy about you, follow the instructions below.
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Method 1 of 3: Understanding Girls
Step 1. Learn how to behave around girls
Before you try to attract a girl's attention, it's a good idea to understand how to behave around girls. In fact, the more girls you like, the more likely you are to make one of them notice.
- There are a lot of myths out there about things girls don't like, like: being a "nice guy," being sensitive, etc. Believing that myth can reduce your score.
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Treat a girlfriend (as opposed to a boyfriend), the way you would treat a guy friend: be friendly, talk about common interests, tell jokes, and listen. Give her more courtesy and attention and you're being the humble, polite guy she wants to be.
Step 2. Become a likable person
But don't be belittled. It's okay to be virtuous, even kind and sensitive, but don't overdo it, so that you become like a big brother. It's a kiss of death to any hope you might have, so take your conversation into territory an older sibling never enters.
For example, saying something like "Julia, you look great," might be true, and she would probably love to hear that, but it's something her sister might say, but try saying "Julia, you look hot today. those jeans fit your body perfectly!" Think about it if her sister would say that? Probably not. But you're not his brother, and you don't want to give him reason to think otherwise
Step 3. Appreciate the person as a whole
People tend to give according to what they receive and get according to what they give. If he thinks you value him only for his thoughts, then chances are he will respect you for your thoughts too. but not your body.
Appreciate all her thoughts, her spirit, and her body. Let him know that you think he's beautiful, or sexy, or both
Step 4. Pay attention to girls who aren't used to getting attention
Many good beauties are pushed aside because they're quiet, shy, or don't belong to a fashionable social group.
- The next time you sit next to one of those girls in class, have a conversation with her; If you see a girl standing at a party or club, ask her to dance. Even if it's clear that there's no romantic attraction, he won't forget it-and he won't see you the same way again.
- Learning how to interact with girls on a social level, wanting nothing more than their presence, is a great lesson to learn. The more comfortable you are around girls, the more comfortable you will be when you meet someone you really like.
Method 2 of 3: Representing Yourself
Step 1. Change your profile photo
If your current profile photo shows the best smile facing the camera, delete it immediately; The results showed that although boys were more interested in seeing photos of smiling girls, girls were less interested in photos of smiling men. However, they prefer to see photos of boys who look proud or sad.
The results also show that the left side of the face tends to be considered more attractive. Take a recent photo of yourself turning your head or looking to the right, with a brooding expression, a down glance, an Edward Cullen look or a smug look, a Jacob Black look and see how many “likes” and “favorites” comments come in
Step 2. Don't try too hard
If your photos look like they're looking for attention, you'll be laughed at. Take photos if necessary and choose one that looks natural and shows who you are. Ask your female friends to take photos, if you can. He will know what girls like, and may be able to take the right picture.
Step 3. Look loose
Send the message that you can stay calm in any situation, even if you secretly want to run screaming. It's called self-confidence.
- If you approach a girl like a beggar afraid of rejection, their instincts will know that, and they will prove you right.
- Don't act like you're too cool to care. Be enthusiastic and calm, and if something goes wrong, laugh about it and move on without getting hurt.
Step 4. Learn how to flirt
To flirt takes practice, confidence, and the ability to get over your nervousness; After all, how can you possibly get to know other people if you're too busy wiping sweat off your palms or staring at your own feet? Prepare yourself by reading How to Flirt. To continue the game, learn the following:
- How to have a great conversation
- How to have a funny conversation
- How to read body language
- How to touch a girl-great if you're looking for a way to break down touch barriers
Method 3 of 3: Performing an Action
Step 1. Ask her out
If you meet a really interesting person, don't be afraid to get started. Most girls will appreciate it if you take the initiative to ask them out (even if they don't say yes). On top of that, you'll feel proud of yourself for doing that so clearly (Again, even if they don't say yes). Read on how to ask a girl out to give you every advantage.
- There are many stories about a beautiful girl who was never asked out because everyone believed she was busy or too beautiful for them, so they were never asked.
- So a persistent person. If the girl you like doesn't say it the first time you're asked, try again another time. This doesn't mean being clingy or acting like a stalker, it just means smiling and saying “Okay-I'll try it next week”, and taking care of your needs in the meantime. If you talk to him that week, don't stop, but don't press on about the date.
- Give him time to think about how cool you are and the confidence you have and the next time you ask him, you might be surprised at the difference in how he responds.
Step 2. Live the expectations you have set
So finally you can get the girl you've been dreaming of. Now what are you going to do with him?
- If you are already in the kissing stage, make sure your breath is clean and fresh.
- If you're in a relationship stage, make sure you know how to be a good boyfriend.
- If things get more serious, make sure you know how to have a healthy relationship.
- Going through the trouble of getting a girl to be infatuated with you only to disappoint her when things start to get more interesting is enough to drive a simple girl crazy!
Tips
- Make sure to keep him feeling special.
- Be yourself-you can change the way you behave, but changing yourself just to satisfy other people is stupid.
- Listen-don't just pay attention to what he says, but pay attention to how he says it. You can learn as much about other people by what they don't say as much as what they say.
- Watch for changes. If she gets a haircut or changes her hair color, say it looks good-if it does. If he accidentally turns his hair bright purple, and you tell him you like him, he'll either think you're an idiot or step closer to the sibling zone.
