Is there a man that is currently attracting your attention? If you want to interact further with him, the first step you need to do is find out his cellphone number. Basically, these wishes can easily come true as long as you are willing to be bold and forthright. Don't worry too much; Let's just say that right now you're just trying to build a casual relationship with him. To find out more detailed information, read this article carefully!
Step
Method 1 of 4: Approaching her
Step 1. Gather your courage
When your ideal man is seen alone (or standing some distance from his friends), muster up your courage and approach him.
Step 2. Show your confidence
No need to make up excuses to get his cell phone number. Trust me, he will appreciate your honesty and trust more if you are able to clearly convey your goals.
Some people prefer to use implicit tactics; for example, ask for his cell phone number under the pretext of asking him for help with an assignment or to talk about something formal. If you're really shy, this tactic can work pretty well; however, it is feared that your courage will sink back once your "false intentions" are conveyed. After all, sooner or later he'll find out that it was just your tactic; As a result, he will realize that you are easy to lie. Trust me, the situation is not a good start to start a relationship
Method 2 of 4: Asking for His Mobile Number
Step 1. Ask for his mobile number
Don't be busy making small talk, sound convoluted, or sound unserious. Instead, make your point clear and concise. Moreover, men tend to more easily understand something that is clearly conveyed; In addition, in the modern era like today, women who like to give subtle codes or implicit signals are no longer old. So make sure you get your point across clearly!
Step 2. Be casual when asking for his cell phone number
There's no need to be too direct, but make sure your request is clearly understood by him. The more casual you are, the more likely you are to get his cell phone number.
- For example, you could ask, "Can I have your number so I can text you sometime?" After that, say thank you and walk away from him. More than likely, you'll get his phone number and make him wait for your messages.
- If you want, you also don't need to make your request explicit. For example, you could say, "I think it would be very helpful if you could be contacted via text,"; or "I'd like to make it easier for me to contact you about a small party at the hostel next week."
- If he asks you why, give a simple answer. For example, try saying, “I want to maintain a relationship with you. You look like a lot of fun, don't you think?" "Because your advice always suits me," or "You're really nice to talk to."
Step 3. Be a coward
If you're really having a hard time asking for the number in person, try some tactics to get the number. For example, ask if you can ask for his cell phone number to discuss a lesson problem; trust me, he will most likely be willing to give it to you.
- You can also approach him casually, then show him your contact list on your phone. After that, say, “Eh, my friends and I are betting; who has the most number of contacts at the end of the month wins. Can I have your phone number, please?” Make sure you don't sound pushy, overly excited, or make a similar impression when you do it; act as if you are communicating the same thing to your parents.
- The problem is, he will most likely think you only need to contact him regarding the matter. As a result, he won't be impressed if you start talking about things he doesn't think are relevant.
Method 3 of 4: Dealing with Rejection
Step 1. Don't get frustrated if he refuses to give you his cell phone number
After all, there are many reasons that could potentially drive his decision; for example, he may wonder why you suddenly asked for his cell number or feel hesitant to give his number to someone else. Alternatively, he may not know you very well and feel awkward when you suddenly ask for his number.
- Get to know him better before asking for his cell number again. Don't worry, the door of opportunity isn't completely closed for you yet!
- Thank you for understanding. End the situation by saying, “It's okay, really. I'm just trying, who knows. I get it, if you don't want to give your cell phone number to a stranger. Maybe next time, yeah."
Step 2. Ask a close friend for help
Be careful, this method has the potential to upset the man of your dreams; especially since he would think that his closest friend had betrayed him by giving out his cell phone number to someone else. However, if you're able to manage the situation carefully and don't use the phone number negatively, it's probably nothing to worry about.
If the guy asks the source of your information, don't mention his friend's name right away! Instead, be implicit by saying "someone" gave you the number. If there's a possibility that her phone number is publicly accessible (for example, because she's listed her number on a gym membership list), say that you got the number from there. However, make sure you always remember that lying (for whatever reason) is not a good way to start a relationship
Method 4 of 4: Using Numbers Wisely
Step 1. Use the number as needed
Don't make him regret the decision to give you his cell phone number; Most importantly, don't let him change his phone number just because he wants to avoid your calls and text messages! Remember, having his cell phone number is only one small step in the long stage you have to go through to build a relationship; so spend more time on other, more important aspects like getting to know him better through face-to-face interactions and traveling more often with him. Use the cell phone number only as your tool for making appointments, not your only interaction space with them.
Don't send messages too often. If you managed to get the phone number, congratulations! However, don't make him regret the decision. Have fun, but make sure you stay mature
Tips
- End the conversation by saying, “Uh, I don't want to disturb you right now. Can I call again sometime?"
- If he asks why his phone number is so important to you (or if he's just asking your reasons), make sure you give an honest answer. Remember, don't start your relationship with a lie; Trust me, those lies can backfire like a boomerang that will haunt the rest of your life.
- Don't be afraid to ask for his cell number. If he refuses to give it to you, at least you'll know that asking for a guy's cell phone number won't kill you. Do not worry; other opportunities will always be open to you!
- The first text you send should be silly and catchy like, “Hi! Guess who this is?” If you call her, try greeting her by saying, “Order pizza! Hahaha, kidding. It's _" and laugh. Afterward, observe his response. If he responds negatively, try reconsidering your attraction to him. However, if he responds to your casual attitude with lighthearted jokes, he's probably the type of person to talk to.
- Always remember that you only live once. In other words, no matter how much you fear, keep trying! Trust me, eventually you will realize that excessive fear is meaningless. After all, if he rejects you, you can always make the decision to keep your distance from him. If he really rejects you, show that it's not a big deal for you; shrug your shoulders, say "okay, thanks.", smile, and walk away confidently.
Warning
- Don't sound pushy, greedy, annoying, overly excited, or create similar impressions that make him uncomfortable and move away from you.
- Don't force his friend to help you get his cell number. Be grateful if they want to help you, but don't push if they don't want to.
- If you get the number from one of his friends, beware; Worst case scenario, that person will tell it to the man of your dreams.
