You may be nervous about asking someone out, but don't be afraid. With a little humor, you can make him laugh and (hopefully) accept. We've rounded up some fun ways to ask out on a date with light, casual questions.
Step
Method 1 of 11: Send a message
Step 1. Try the method of elementary school children who like to give short messages to their friends
The difference is, here the message is an expression of feelings. For example, write “You like me? Circle Yes or No.” If he circles Yes, you can plan a date.
These kinds of invitations don't put pressure on the recipient. If he doesn't want to, he can simply circle No and you can both get on with your day as usual
Method 2 of 11: Write an Invitation with Chalk in Front of His House
Step 1. Borrow your sister's colored chalk or buy it at a stationery store
Write, “Want to go on a date with me?” in large letters outside his house, then asked him to come out. He will be shocked, and will probably accept.
- It's even better if you add a cute picture next to the question.
- If you don't want to go to his house, you can write this question in front of your own house and ask him to come.
Method 3 of 11: Ask with Cake Toppers
Step 1. Buy a large cake or cake
Write “Want to go on a date with me?” topped with sugar butter, then give it to him. This is a great option if she likes cakes.
- If he doesn't like sweets, it's best to try another way.
- If you can bake a cake, make your own cakes and decorations instead of buying a ready-made cake.
Method 4 of 11: Sing a song
Step 1. Create a song that expresses how you feel
End with the lyrics, “Would you like to go on a date with me?” Record as you sing it, then send the video via text or DM. If he says yes, you can keep the video forever as a memory.
- If you don't want to compose a song, you can always sing a classic love song and add a date at the end.
- If you don't like singing, try dancing or lip syncing.
Method 5 of 11: Give him some dating activity options
Step 1. Provide two or three choices of activities for the date
Write it down and hand it over to him, and ask him to circle a favorite option. Once he hands it back to you, set a plan!
You can give him options such as going to a museum, cooking together, eating out at a restaurant, gazing at the stars, or taking a walk in nature
Method 6 of 11: Send a GIF
Step 1. If you can't meet him in person, try asking via text
Include a cute-g.webp
- If he says yes, you can plan a date. Choose a time and place to meet.
- Asking out texts isn't ideal, but it's great if you live far apart or can't see each other for a while.
Method 7 of 11: Try rags
Step 1. Make him laugh with your date
Try rhymes or word games. You could try a swarm like this:
- "I like black coffee, drink it while looking at you."
- “You have a bandage? My knee hurt from falling after you.”
- “Are you of Australian descent? Because you fulfill all my koala-fications."
Method 8 of 11: Write on pizza
Step 1. This is best if he likes pizza
Order pizza, then write "Want to go on a date with me, or am I too piaza?" in the inner box cover before you give it to him. When he opened it, he would smile to himself.
If he accepts, your first date is to enjoy the pizza
Method 9 of 11: Have someone sing your message
Step 1. Pay people to come to his house and sing a song about him
End the song with the lyrics, “Would you like to go on a date with _?” If he accepted, the question he would never forget.
Choose a time when you are with him, such as when you go to his house or at a restaurant
Method 10 of 11: Write on the gum wrapper
Step 1. If he often asks you for chewing gum, this is the perfect opportunity
Open the package, then write "Want to go on a date with me?" on the inside. Wrap it again, then give it to him the next time you see him.
If you're worried that he might take another piece of gum, make sure that's all that's left
Method 11 of 11: Give him a challenge
Step 1. If you and he are both competitive, take advantage of it
Say, "Bet you can't think of a date idea as fun as mine." When he comes up with his date idea, say, “Okay, you won. What time will I pick you up?”
