Libras love to love, but you can scare a Libra man if you get too sentimental. If you want to capture her attention and win her love, try to target her longing for balance and her appreciation for beauty. Approach him with confidence, but let him feel comfortable around you at his own pace.
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Part 1 of 4: Getting His Attention
Step 1. Join lots of people
Libra likes an extrovert who enjoys socializing and hanging out with other people. You'll often find Libra men in groups, standing out as the stars of the party. If you want to captivate her, the best way is to meet her as often as possible in her most natural environment: in a crowd.
Step 2. Stand out
Since most Libra men have a tendency to be friendly to just about anyone in a crowd, you can't just be there. Instead of just standing behind and out of sight, you need to be the center of attention even if it's only for a few moments.
Step 3. Win the competition
Libras are friendly people, sometimes even a little too friendly. The Libra man will probably flirt with a lot of women for nothing. Some women may not like it, but others take it very seriously. If there's any hope of winning his attention, you should be the second group. Be patient there until all of his admirers lose patience with his seductive habits.
Remember that Libras rarely favor one person. While you may attract him in no time, he may also be attracted to several other women in his social circle. In order for his attraction to you to outweigh his attraction to other women, you have to hold on as long as possible
Step 4. Be feminine and elegant, not tacky
Visually, a woman with a feminine appearance is more likely to catch the eye of a Libra man on a physical level. Your style should be classic, clean, and elegant. Avoid very bold or cute fashions.
- Avoid flashy colors, bold patterns, or temporary trends that are popular today and gone tomorrow. Options that are too sweet, like lace and ribbon, also put a Libra man off the hook.
- Opt for classic and simple styles in a traditional color palette. Look elegant, not trendy.
- This theme of elegance must also be followed by makeup and accessories. Use makeup to highlight your natural beauty and avoid heavy makeup or creating a dramatic look. The jewelry you wear should beautify your appearance, not compete for attention.
Part 2 of 4: Getting to Know Him
Step 1. Show a pleasant and balanced personality
In the zodiac, Libra is described as a scale, and there's a reason. Libras tend to balance situations and people. So the first time you talk to him, be pleasant and well mannered, and emit a balanced aura.
Similarly, when you invite the Libra man over to your own place, such as the office, car, or apartment, make sure he is greeted with a gentle and balanced manner
Step 2. Let him talk about himself
Libra is not a narcissistic person, but has an open personality, he has a tendency to talk about himself and the things that interest him. If you want to impress him, let him talk to his heart's content and engage in genuine conversation.
Step 3. Engage in light debate
Most Libra men will run away from conflict or direct confrontation, but at the same time also look at things from different points of view. Bring up topics that might open up debate, and discuss both sides of the argument together. Remember, the conversation should remain intellectual, not emotional.
Step 4. Give praise
The Libra man is usually very confident and has a positive opinion of himself. A sincere compliment or words of appreciation at the right time will pave your way to his heart. When choosing compliments, focus on the Libra's areas of interest, such as taste, style, or fairness.
No one trusts flatterers too much. While she may be able to forgive flashy compliments about her pride aspect more than any other sign, compliments that are clearly untruthful or forced just don't have the harmony and justice that Libras like. Thus, the compliment you give should be meaningful and honest
Step 5. Bring up topics of conversation that have an eclectic mix
Attract the Libra guy you like by talking about a variety of subjects. Libras love to talk and they love to express ideas and exchange opinions about many things. If you can stimulate his intellectual side, he will see that you have a more interesting and fun personality.
By nature, Libras have open personalities so they will be more inspired if allowed to move from one thing to another. Just discussing one topic can bore a Libra man
Part 3 of 4: Getting Him To Know You
Step 1. Demonstrate honesty and fairness
Libras thirst for balance, and that balance doesn't just exist in their personal lives. In general, Libras have a great dedication to fairness and honesty. If you want to be attractive in his eyes, make sure he sees you as someone who is equally dedicated to justice.
Step 2. Don't get carried away with emotions
While Libras enjoy mingling with people, most Libra men have a tendency to be emotionally uninvolved. If the introduction is still young, don't shower it with emotions, positive or negative.
- Try to understand why he feels uncomfortable with emotions. Feelings are chaotic, especially when they are deep and complicated. In general, Libras avoid emotions in order to maintain the harmony and balance that they love so much.
- If you want to be with him for a long time, of course you and he have to face and talk about emotions together. When that time comes, do it calmly and rationally. However, if the relationship is still in the introductory stage, it's best to avoid heavy emotions as much as possible.
Step 3. Release the pressure
Libra's tendency to avoid emotions has to do with their aversion to conflict. Although he likes arguments, he will not be interested in arguments that involve emotions. So, show a calm and relaxed attitude when dealing with Libra so he doesn't run away.
Step 4. Give it a little mystery
You do have to be open and talkative when it comes to your dealings with Libras, but carefully weaving the mystery threads can pique the curiosity of this inquisitive zodiac sign and make him want to know more. If you can trigger the desire, you can attract attention more easily.
His first impression on you should be "mysterious beauty". Of course, the longer you're with him, the more the mystery fades. However, to lure him firmly in the beginning, try to be an elusive and almost unattainable target
Step 5. Do volunteer work
Most Libras have a generous spirit so they get involved with some volunteer work. Even if the Libra guy you're after doesn't actively participate in a charity or organization, he's likely to find people who donate their time to worthy causes very attractive.
If you're actively participating in a social activity, consider inviting her along, especially if it's an activity she also supports. In this way, you will be the one to help satisfy his desire to do good deeds
Step 6. Have a variety of hobbies
Libras have a hard time focusing on one thing and may find you unattractive if they believe that you are fixated on only one aspect of your life. In order for him to see you as a balanced and complete person, you should try a few different hobbies to talk to him about.
Part 4 of 4: Captivating her
Step 1. Capture a love for beauty, art, or music
Most Libra men are very appreciative of beauty and culture. So if you want to make her heart stop beating, take her to an art museum or give her a photo book of beautiful landscapes. There are many advantages you can get by showing that you understand his love.
When taking her somewhere, choose a location she's likely to like, such as an art gallery, arts and crafts exhibition, or museum. You can attract a Libra man more if you invite him on a special time. For example, take him to a one-day exhibition, not just a museum in his "free time."
Step 2. Indulge her taste for luxury
Arts and culture aside, Libra men are usually the type to value luxury a lot. When you ask her out, choose a memorable location, like a trendy cafe or four-star restaurant. When giving gifts, consider choosing something tasteful from the designer.
If your financial situation doesn't allow you to follow his tastes, don't worry! Libra men are attracted to elegance, but that elegance doesn't always have to come at a cost. Try taking her to a fancy restaurant for just dessert so you can save money, or somewhere with an elegant atmosphere for an average price
Step 3. Give him space
As social creatures, Libra men love freedom and don't want to be restricted in order to be happy. You can shower him with affection when you're together, but don't suffocate him by forcing his way into aspects of his life that he hasn't opened up to you.
Remember that Libras are active men. So once he likes you, you'll know. Meanwhile, you have to be patient and don't force your feelings before he's ready
Step 4. Show appreciation
Libra men love to love and love to be loved. Small tokens of appreciation can underscore how you feel and make you appear more attractive to his eyes. Try giving them a small gift or greeting card for no particular reason, or offer to give them a massage at the end of a long day or week.
- Luxurious and tasteful gifts tend to be more successful than gifts filled with a lot of sentimentality. If you can't afford a designer watch or expensive cufflinks, you can give yourself a small designer accessory or something that's not designer, but good.
- If you want an alternative, try writing a beautiful message. Again, Libras don't like heavy emotional expressions, but a letter with a few scribbled lines will make a big impact as long as the verse focuses on the beauty of something, not the depth of your feelings.
Step 5. Live love simply
As noted above, the Libra man is sometimes averse to getting emotionally involved when he's just getting to know him, and as such, he tends to steer clear of women who seem manipulative or drama queens. When you approach him, avoid anything too serious in the beginning. Keep things light, and win her love with traditional love gestures, like candlelit dinner, moonlight walks, and so on.
