If you're hoping to get your first kiss after a great date or want to find a kissable location that's safe from your parents and friends, a car can be an ideal place to do so. Seduce your partner to kiss, or find a quieter place and adjust the car seat position so that your intimacy feels warmer. Make sure the car is clean and neat before using it as a place to make out. Get rid of trash or distracting things, then put on some fun music to create a comfortable and relaxing atmosphere.
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Method 1 of 3: Getting the First Kiss
Step 1. Seduce your partner to make sure he's interested
Start by throwing a joke or flirting gently to warm things up. Signaling your interest in your partner will give him the space to respond favorably if he likes you, and will help you gauge how likely it is to get a first kiss.
- Look your partner in the eye when the car stops. Once the car is parked, lean toward it to show concern and interest.
- Ask. Everyone likes to talk about themselves. Finding out more about your partner's life, hobbies, or thoughts shows that you are attracted to him or her.
- Say something positive about your partner or talk about the time you two spent together, for example, “It's great to be spending time with you tonight. Let's go out another time!” If he responds positively and has similar desires––for example, he says he wants to see each other again––it is a sign that he has the same feelings.
Step 2. Pay attention to his positive body language
If your partner seems relaxed, leans toward you, and makes eye contact, it's a sign that he's interested. Also pay attention to negative signals from your partner, such as crossing your arms, looking restless, or glancing at your watch repeatedly. If he does, don't expect you to get a kiss-–wait for the right time or place, or just accept that he's not interested in you.
Notice if he is facing you in an open, relaxed posture. This indicates that he is comfortable with you
Step 3. Touch your partner's arm or hand while joking
Initiating physical contact with your partner can clear up any awkwardness between the two of you, allow you to gauge his attraction, and help both of you feel more comfortable. Limit your touch so it doesn't look scary and threatening.
Examples of nonsexual touch are tapping your partner on the shoulder for attention, nudging his arm when you are talking, or placing your hand near his. Touching your partner on other parts of the body can be considered to show sexual desire so that he feels uncomfortable
Step 4. Make sure both of your seat belts are removed
You can't smell it if one of you is still fastening your seat belt in the car! After parking, immediately remove the seat belt. Your partner should do it too. If not, however, wait until he unbuckles his seatbelt before starting the action.
Step 5. Ask for a verbal kiss if you dare
Some people think that asking for a verbal kiss is the most polite way and your partner will probably appreciate it. Tell him that you're interested in or happy to spend time with him, then say "Would a kiss make you comfortable?" or “May I kiss you?”
Don't try to kiss someone on the spur of the moment without warning. You have to build the moment gradually
Step 6. Ask for a kiss through body language
Signal him by increasing the intensity of the touch, for example by embracing or hugging him, then kissing his cheek or forehead. If this is done correctly, you can try kissing his lips.
- If you don't get verbal permission from your partner, make sure you read their body language correctly. Signs that he agrees are a smile, a leaning toward you, and the same way you touch him.
- If your partner refuses or seems disinterested, respect his will. Pushing yourself will only make her feel uncomfortable, make you look scary, and ruin any chance to kiss her.
Step 7. Lean over to kiss her
Face your partner, purse your lips slightly, then kiss his lips. Don't open your mouth until your lips touch!
- Place one hand on your side or on your thigh, then touch your partner's cheek or hair with the other.
- Follow the wishes of your partner. If he is relaxed and unhurried, do the same. Don't push your partner to move faster. Enjoy the moment and continue to read your partner's body movements so that he feels comfortable and relaxed. Also, remember that you can stop at any time, even if you started it. Don't feel pressured to do something more intimate if you're not ready.
Method 2 of 3: Invite Your Partner to Kiss Intensely
Step 1. Make sure your partner is comfortable with your will
The best way to be sure is to ask! You have to make sure that he is interested in more intimate physical contact, and is comfortable doing it in a car that is in a hidden area.
- You should have had some physical contact with him, such as a casual kiss or holding hands, before asking him out.
- You can tell your partner's feelings by saying something like, “I want to find a quieter place to kiss you. If you are willing?"
- Tell your partner where the place is before going there. You may want to keep the place a secret to make it more romantic, but that might actually make him unhappy because some people will worry about their safety when they are taken to a quiet place.
Step 2. Make sure you park the car in a quiet place
If it's dark outside, turn off the headlights so you and your partner aren't seen. Double check if your partner is comfortable and the situation is safe. Some people don't like seeing their partner making out in public, and your partner may not want to kiss in a public place.
Kissing in public is usually not illegal, but if you want something more intimate, you'll need to move indoors. If it's illegal in your area, kissing in a parked car is also illegal
Step 3. Build a romantic atmosphere by seducing your partner
Compliment her, such as "You look so beautiful right now!" Keep the atmosphere relaxed and don't push yourself too fast. Make light physical contact, such as touching their knees, if your partner seems interested in talking and responds to the touch in a mutual way.
Build moments where you look into each other's eyes because this is when kissing usually happens. However, do not look at him sharply. You will look spooky
Step 4. Start with a casual kiss, then increase the intensity
Wait for your partner to look you in the eye. then lean over and kiss her lips. Start slowly by maintaining a relaxed atmosphere, touching "safe" body parts such as the face and shoulders, and changing positions slowly. Increase the intensity of the kiss by increasing the intensity of the touch if your partner responds enthusiastically.
Make your kiss interesting by pausing to look your partner in the eye or asking if he likes the kiss. Move your hands occasionally over his hair, neck, hands, or feet
Step 5. Reposition the car seat if the kiss is getting more intense
You may need to ask your partner to pause to adjust to a sitting position or ask if he or she is interested in moving to the back seat.
- Back up your chair and tilt it back if you are in the front seat. If you use the front seat, you can tilt it backwards to recline. If there is a shift lever between the front seats and you find it annoying, move to the back seat for more flexibility.
- Tilt the front seat forward if you are using the back seat. Make as much space as possible for you and your partner by tilting the front seat forward and folding the back seat back, if you can.
Step 6. Talk to your partner every now and then to make sure he's comfortable
It's very difficult to feel comfortable making out in a car, and you may have to adjust your position several times. In addition, you should make sure your partner is comfortable with how fast and intense the physical contact is.
- Ask for verbal approval by asking your partner before doing something. For example, when kissing, say "I'm going to put my hand in your shirt," then wait for him to say yes or give nonverbal signals, such as kissing you faster.
- Pay attention to your partner's body language. Whenever you increase the intensity of your touch, read your partner's reaction. If he approaches or touches you in the same way, it's a sign that he likes him. If your partner backs off or doesn't respond, stop what you're doing and step away a bit because it's a sign that he's saying "no."
Method 3 of 3: Setting the Mood in the Car
Step 1. Get rid of all kinds of bad smells, dirt, or things that are an eyesore
Make sure the chair you are sitting on is clean and not wrinkled. Get rid of food wrappers, trash, used clothes, or anything else that could smell bad.
- Clean the chair with a vacuum cleaner if it is dirty. Most car washes and gas stations provide a vacuum cleaner that can be used to clean the car.
- If you're worried about bad odors, hang up an air freshener or spray some deodorizing liquid in the car.
- Wipe down the dashboard and door handles on the passenger seat, then remove any trash or debris that remains in the door pocket.
Step 2. Set the temperature in the car to ensure the comfort of the couple
Notice if he looks cold or hot. If you're not sure, ask! Remember to turn off the car if you are there for a long time.
If you want to cool the car, ask if your partner wants some fresh air from the window or air conditioning. Some people prefer fresh air, while others don't like the wind from outside
Step 3. Play some relaxing music to warm up the atmosphere
Playing fun, relaxing, or sexy music can make your partner feel more comfortable and break the awkward atmosphere between you two. If you know his favorite music group or genre, tune it to make him feel more relaxed.
Step 4. Find a beautiful or quiet place to park the car
Drive to a favorite spot, or ask your partner to show you the way to a scenic spot. At least, look for a place that is a bit hidden.
- If you live in an area that is not sloping, look for a hill or place with a good view from a height. You can also drive to a nearby park and look for a tree-covered location.
- Don't park under a street light, or in front of a spouse's house where their parents can see them.
- Make sure you are allowed to park there. For example, there are many parks that close when it gets dark so you could get in trouble if you park your car there.
Tips
- If you want to leave a good impression, take your car to the wash before picking up your date.
- Turn off the car engine before kissing someone. If you indulge and make out for a long time, the car battery can run out!
- Keep some gum in the car for you or offer it to your partner if you're both worried about bad breath.
- You can't move around freely in the car so sometimes kissing feels awkward. Open the car door when your partner is about to get out or walk him to his front door if you want to kiss him face to face.
