It can be hard to live life and be truly happy when you have to worry about something so basic as being able to go to the dentist. Financial problems are one of the most common reasons couples find divorce. It is understandable why a person would want to remove the problems in his life and get married because of money. But how do you do that? If you want to get married and have a good life, start with the first step below.
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Part 1 of 4: Being Desired
Step 1. Don't be a cliché
You must know: beautiful women (using silicone) who spend all their time shopping or in the pool area. You don't want millionaires to want you just because you meet the expectations of a certain image, because that makes you very easy to replace. Does not distinguish you from other women. Many women will fill the picture. It's hard to find someone who can grab his attention and match him in terms of whether he wants to enjoy life or the life he wants to live.
Another part of the cliché, of course, is that you only love him for the money. It's natural that you want a man who can meet all your needs, but you still have to choose a man who can meet your needs, love you and have a deep relationship with him. He doesn't want a woman who clearly only wants his money, because he knows that only causes his colleagues to judge and pity him. He wants to feel loved
Step 2. Respect yourself
Most men, rich men included, want a woman who can respect herself. Why should he like you when you don't act like a person who deserves to be liked? Show him that you deserve to take care of your body and appearance (eat healthy, exercise, dress attractively, and be a woman who maintains cleanliness).
Step 3. Be an Educated Woman
Usually, rich men don't want women who are just attractive but tend to be less educated. Millionaires are usually very smart, and want someone they can be with. It will be more interesting for them! Study hard in school and keep learning when you graduate from school. Get into university if you can afford it, and if not, attend free online courses like Coursera and stay up to date with TEDTalks.
Step 4. Be a Cultured Woman
Rich men usually take part in at least some cultural events, and you should be able to enjoy and adjust to those situations. Develop your interests in music, art, literature and film. Understand and explore about foreign culture, history and politics (because rich men often travel the world).
Step 5. Do something in your life
No one wants to be with someone who really doesn't do anything, just an empty shell that never does anything. Boring ! Go out and do something with your life. Have hobbies and dreams for your future (go after it, don't just sit around thinking how much you want to be the next new star). This will add complexity to your character and make you appear as a more visible person.
Step 6. Develop your talents
Talent is something very interesting. Learn a skill or develop a talent you already have. The easiest way to get started is to become good at cooking (it can be learned), but you can also learn to draw or paint or play a musical instrument.
Step 7. Be a Passionate Woman
Be a passionate partner but also stay passionate about your life. When we are with someone who really enjoys his life and pursues what he loves, we are indirectly inspired to do the same. This is why being passionate is something exciting! Pursue your wishes. If you always want to do something, do it. When you find the billionaire guy of your choice, they will be completely amazed.
Part 2 of 4: Find Your Match
Step 1. Find Him Early
Visit bars and cafes around the university with a medical or technology (computer-related) major. This will help you find a man who has a path ahead as a doctor and IT expert. If you've met him since he was young, chances are he's still single and isn't too worried about a woman chasing him for money. You have to deal with the busy schedule of students, but this is a sign that can support you. You will show him that you are with him in good times and bad.
Step 2. Visit their hangout
Generally go where rich men would be. Skip the clichés about country clubs just for lunch at the cafes and restaurants around the business district. Try the upscale bar at night.
Step 3. Go to the auction place
Rich people usually develop expensive hobbies and collecting rare items is one of their hobbies. Rich people usually like to collect vintage cars, old toys, comics, or old autographs. Develop your interest and knowledge of this subject and visit high-end auction sites when these items are about to be auctioned.
Step 4. Go to a charity event
Charity events are usually attended by the rich. Don't leave unprepared. Learn about the essence of the event and what the organization does. When you go, prepare yourself to talk to people you don't know. Making friends in the right places will help you meet the right person for you to marry.
You don't need to donate at the charity event you're visiting but it's a good idea to donate. Organizing this event costs a lot of money and the organization relies on donations to make it worth it
Step 5. Work in the right place
Did you know that about 22% of married couples find their soul mate through work? Get a job in a tech company or other highly profitable, stable company and watch who you meet!
Step 6. Befriend rich friends
You can use many tactics to make friends with rich people. As a result, through them, you can find your future life partner. When you become a good friend, you can ask him to arrange everything for you! This is a great path for you to take, because you won't be seen as much of a person who comes just because you just want their treasure.
Step 7. Use an organizing service for this purpose
There are plenty of dating services, both online and in the real world, that focus on helping you meet wealthy partners. Choose one with a good reputation and see where they lead you. This service focuses on matching people, so remember to take the previous step about making yourself more valuable.
Part 3 of 4: Approach the Man of Your Choice
Step 1. Show them that you don't approach them because of money
Your future partner should understand that you are not approaching him for money. They need to see that you really love them and that you should! Romance is tough, and only works when you're really attached to that person. Never include the topic of money in your conversations (especially at the beginning of your introduction) and try to be a little frugal. If he wants to make a pre-nup (a special agreement about the distribution of money and an agreement when the relationship ends), don't fight it. You can even give suggestions if you want to make it more comfortable.
Step 2. Create an atmosphere of mutual trust
Since rich people are often taken advantage of, it becomes a common problem for them about trust. You have to create an atmosphere of mutual trust. This will distance you from most people and show him that you are the one to marry. Be someone they can trust, never judge them, and be open to them about your secrets and anything that might make you uncomfortable.
Step 3. Be a good toned partner
Don't set up a date that lets things happen to you. Be more active on a date! You have to take them to a certain place, even if the place is not very good. Be flexible and control yourself well even if your plans don't go well. Ask her about something she knows and wants to talk about.
Step 4. Bring happiness to his life
Everyone wants to marry someone they believe can make their life better. When you are rich, you don't have to worry about someone who can provide for your needs. In fact, they often think about meeting a partner who can make their life more interesting and enjoyable. If you want him to propose to you, be that person. Make them see new things. Get them to do fun, amazing things they've never done before. Always be positive and avoid complaining. They will always need you!
Step 5. Love them with all your heart
Be an expert in love. Not on the part of intercourse (although it doesn't hurt): be someone who is kind enough to love them and help them fall in love with you. Be selfless in your relationship. Make them happy. Give a surprise as a sign of love now and in the future. Make some drama. This is a good thing.
Step 6. Keep them coming back to you
Don't give it all at once. You can sleep with him if you want, but don't sleep with him often or spend all your time with him. Why should he marry you when just having you as a girlfriend or mistress they get everything they want from you?
Part 4 of 4: Other Considerations
Step 1. Get rid of the rule that says you can't make money on your own
This is easy. Give yourself a chance while you are young. Stay in school and be aware of the new opportunities that open up. Invest your money every month into your savings – no matter how small – just start saving. When you work, try to do your best with your job.
Step 2. Evaluate and be realistic about your appearance, your intelligence and your personality
If you look ordinary, uneducated with a boring personality, forget it. Write down anything that needs to be improved, do it. You need to look as rich and powerful as the man you want to be, but don't forget your own personality and style.
Step 3. Don't be too flashy
Don't talk about how much money they have or how much they make. When they talk about this, be polite but don't ask. Make this an unimportant topic in a conversation.
Step 4. Act like a lady
Avoid swearing, drinking, drugs, laughing loudly, aggressive behavior, and flashy outfits. Work on a more elegant style. Think classy and understated, not "labels". You want to be the girlfriend then wife, not the mistress.
Step 5. Behave like a classy lady
Avoid swearing, drinking, drugs, laughing loudly, being aggressive, and dressing flashy. Focus on elegant style. Classy and humble. You want to be a lover then a wife, not a mistress.
Tips
- Make time for yourself and let him miss you. Reach for life, make friends and various interests. Make yourself attractive and a fun person.
- Look at your shoes, your handbag and your watch. It's easy, leather or natural material and doesn't look cheap. Rich is not always
- Don't pressure him to marry you. He will back off. If you've been with him for more than five years and you're still not engaged, then walk away.
- Wear appropriate jewelry, no tattoos or piercings, make-up looks subtle and not overdone but still pretty – throw away colored eye shadow. It would be much better to go with a light make-up rather than too much.
- Be a good partner. Learn massage techniques and give him a massage. Do it wholeheartedly.
- Make your body toned but not too extreme. Forget about getting big breasts with implants and popping out of clothes that are too small; absolutely not. Think about being a future wife.
- If he becomes a self-made millionaire, he wants a woman who can manage her finances, not one who likes to squander her money. Make sure you are reliable and responsible. Never ask for money before you get married. Because in his mind you will be put in the category: "charity case," "hiker," or "just after money" (rather than best friends and future wives). Real men want someone who is equal, not dependent on him.
- Always be a classy lady. Imagine Grace Kelly, Audrey Hepburn in public. Learn about ethics and use them.
- Learn to cook well. Experts judge food. Established men want women who make good housekeepers. Make him a special meal.
- Dress in dark blue, brown, black, beige and white. Avoid flashy colors except at night. You should focus on something classic, good clothes with natural materials – 100% cotton, linen, silk, wool, fine wool fabrics, etc. It's much better to have some good quality clothes than cheap clothes. Avoid clothing that has a clearly marked brand.
- Get a nice haircut.
- Women who like children will be attractive only if men like them.
Warning
- If you're a woman, don't ever want to get pregnant just to keep the rich man of your dreams – it's a disaster.
- Prevent him from seeing your family too soon – he might get scared. When he meets your family make sure things are going well and your family can behave properly.
- Don't accept gifts, never until you're actually engaged. Never let someone buy you because they won't appreciate you.
