Many women continue to harbor the urge to ask a man to be friends out of shame. Whatever the reason, you don't need to limit yourself to being friends with only women. This article describes some great tips to get more guys to know you. Having lots of male friends can be very beneficial, although it will take some time and a lot of effort.
Step
Step 1. Start a friendship with a smile
So that men are more likely to interact with you, be a person who is smiling and confident.
Step 2. Sit next to the man
Often times, the guy sitting next to you will start the conversation. However, don't sit so close that you don't sound like you're stalking someone. Time to make small talk before you sit down next to him.
Step 3. Open a conversation
If you want to get acquainted with your target man and you already know what he likes, prepare a fun conversation material. For example: if he likes sports, watch a sports match on TV; if he likes playing music, look for new songs on iTunes. Before you meet him, seek information about the topic to be discussed so you don't get confused during the conversation.
Step 4. If he's bothering you, just laugh or respond with sarcasm
You can pretend to be angry to sound like a brother and sister fighting. Men like women who have a sense of humor.
Step 5. Once you are more familiar with him so that you can share humorous stories, memorize them carefully so you don't forget and make the conversation more enjoyable
Step 6. When hanging out with male friends, show a positive personality and don't come off as shy as men are more attracted to women who are outgoing and brave
Step 7. Don't be afraid if a guy asks you to chat
Men usually don't like to criticize or annoy you.
Step 8. Continue the chat by asking about school activities, daily activities, etc
Step 9. Don't sell cheap to get attention
This way makes a man feel so needed that he doesn't appreciate you.
Step 10. Be a talkative woman
If you appear to be chatty, you will appear to be a great friend, even if they are the ones starting the conversation.
Step 11. If the guy you're chatting with is out with friends, take this opportunity to introduce yourself and make more male friends
Tips
- Make friends with lots of guys so you feel more comfortable.
- Don't chat all day because they will feel watched and disturbed.
- Just relax! If you like him, he probably feels the same way. Try to be yourself because a good man will love/accept you completely for who you are.
- Be honest because men value justice, honesty, openness, and courage. Be honest, but don't be rude.
- Try to get to know him better. Knowing what a guy likes is a good thing, but it's even better if you know what he really likes. This tip is really helpful for making a first impression, unless you don't know what he likes. Pretending to be a woman who loves sports in order to have a boyfriend is not the way to make a good first impression. What's the point of making friends if you're masked? Also, keep in mind that not all guys like things you find fun, for example: sports and rock music.
- Be yourself because men are not attracted to women who like to pretend.
- Don't hang out with male friends too often because they tend to be more rude than girls. There are women who can accept this, but if you are a gentle woman, learn to limit yourself because they also want to be active with male friends.
- Don't feel attacked if they make fun of you. They will find you more attractive and mature if you can laugh at yourself.
Warning
- Set clear boundaries between friendship and romance. Avoid sexual intercourse and do not seduce each other.
- Don't ignore female friends just because you want to chat with male friends.
- If you're being met a lot by male friends, don't be selfish thinking they like you.
- You don't have to be a man to be friends with them. Stay like a woman.
- Even if you're friends with guys, they should also be good friends to you. Don't be friends with bad guys!
- If you are very quiet and shy, do the instructions above one by one. You will be overwhelmed if you do it all at once.
- Don't overdo it by being like a man.
- Lots of bad guys. If being with a guy makes you uncomfortable, don't ignore your feelings by trying to accept them. Don't try to get a guy friend to like you because he has to try to get you to like him too. If you can't accept his treatment, talk to him or break up the friendship.
- Don't talk too much or keep telling yourself too much, because she'll get irritated.
- Don't talk about the problems a woman has or things she likes because she will feel pressured or irritated.
