While on the floor at a friend's birthday party, you see your crush chatting with the host. If you want to dance with her or just get her attention, do some simple, seductive moves to keep her from turning away. Don't worry if you feel like you're not good at dancing because there are lots of easy moves you can do. Once you're ready for action, shake your body according to the instructions below to make your move so seductive that he likes your dance or wants to dance with you!
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Method 1 of 14: Swing your hips into a figure 8
Step 1. This simple move makes the target guy pay attention to your slim waist or flat stomach
Although very easy, this move still impressed him. Transfer your weight to your right leg, then move your right hip forward. On the next beat, move your left hip forward while pulling your right hip back. Do these two movements repeatedly according to the rhythm of the song so that he is interested in seeing your dance.
You can move your arms however you want during this movement, for example holding your hips to make your style more interesting or swinging back and forth at chest level
Method 2 of 14: Learn the two-step move
Step 1. Your footsteps and body swings as you perform this basic move show him that you can dance to the rhythm of the song
When doing two steps, move your feet to the beat of the song. Otherwise, the coordination of your movements while dancing looks less attractive. Step your right foot to the side, then place it on the floor. Then, step your left foot to the right, then place it next to your right foot. Next, step your left foot to the side to do the same movement to the other side.
- Try moving your feet a little faster by placing one foot on the floor twice before bringing your feet together. For example, step your right foot out to the side, place it on the floor, lift it up a bit, and then place it back on the floor with the next beat.
- Do 4 corner two steps as a variation. Instead of moving right and left, step your feet forward shoulder-width apart, then move backwards to return to the starting position.
- The two-step movement is the basis for various dance movements. Besides being easy to learn, this move is very useful if you want to master advanced dance techniques.
Method 3 of 14: Master the body roll movement
Step 1. He will watch you from head to toe as you swing to the beat of the song
First of all, place one foot 10-15 cm in front of the other to maintain balance. Point your chin forward while looking up. Swing your hips forward so that your upper body leans back, then push your chest up. Then, swing your hips back while transferring your weight to the sole of the back foot to end this movement.
- To make it easier, start the body roll by transferring your weight to the front leg, then swinging your body forward.
- Take time to practice so that your movements are more flexible. Don't give up if your movements are still stiff the first time you do a body roll.
Method 4 of 14: Perform a booty twerk gesture
Step 1. He will stare at you in awe as you swing your ass
In order for him to really pay attention to your dance, make sure he looks at your buttocks and back before doing this move. If you want to do the easiest version, transfer your weight to the front of the foot, then tiptoe. Turn quickly to the right and point the soles of the feet to the right, then turn to the left. Do this movement repeatedly while swinging your buttocks back and forth according to the rhythm of the song.
- If you want to master the advanced technique, stand with your feet wider than your shoulders. Inflate your chest while arching your back so that your buttocks stick out back. Bend your knees slowly, straighten your back, then pull your buttocks to a neutral position. Once your knees are bent 90°, puff out your chest while swinging your buttocks back.
- Relax your body while doing the booty twerk so that your movements are not stiff.
Method 5 of 14: Swing your arms while doing the Dougie shake
Step 1. Show off your dancing skills by mastering advanced techniques
You can be sure he was impressed when he saw you dancing to the rhythm of the song. Start dancing by doing two steps left and right following the beat. As you step to the left, move your right hand as if you were swinging a heavy backpack over your right shoulder so that your body sways to the left. As you step to the right, move your left hand.
- Relax your hips and shoulders so you can move more freely when you dance.
- As you move your hands forward, brush your hair with your fingers to make your dance look sexy.
Method 6 of 14: Move your body in Biz Markie style
Step 1. Move your whole body to show your flexibility
On the first beat, jump 15-20 cm to the right, then tilt your body slightly to the right. Raise your left hand, swing it forward, then snap your fingers. On the next beat, jump to the left, then swing your right arm forward.
You can move your hands at will. Create your own moves that suit your personality
Method 7 of 14: Relax the body
Step 1. Take time to relax if you feel tired so that your movements are not stiff
Bend your knees slightly, then swing your body to the rhythm of the song in a relaxed motion. Nod your head to the beat and swing your arms to keep your body relaxed. Listen to the rhythm of the song and swing your body back and forth according to the beat so that your movements don't seem weird.
- Enjoy the music playing while paying attention to the surrounding situation so that you stay relaxed so that your movements look natural.
- Dancing is an opportunity to have fun. He will be interested in watching you if you look happy.
Method 8 of 14: Flick your hair
Step 1. Playing with hair can be a classic way of flirting with men
When you meet the target guy, comb your hair with your fingers while looking up for a moment. Gently stroke the sides of your face to your neck in a relaxed motion before looking at him again so he can be sure that you like him.
Shake your hair according to the rhythm of the song while dancing, for example when swinging your hips while doing the number 8 or two step movement
Method 9 of 14: Look him in the eye
Step 1. Gaze in his eyes so you two feel connected
While on the floor, take the time to find out if he's staring at you. If he's looking at you, smile back at him. Staring at each other for a while may feel awkward at first, but it's a way of letting him know that you're having a good time.
Keep dancing while looking at him. It could be that he likes you too when he realizes that you are constantly watching him
Method 10 of 14: Blink
Step 1. Blinking your eyes can be a sign that you are having fun
Wait for him to look at you, then make long eye contact to let him know that you like him. If you want to be more intimate and flirtatious, blink very quickly, then smile before looking away. If you expect him to approach you, lean toward him and blink slowly.
Method 11 of 14: Caress your body with your hands
Step 1. This sexy gesture is a sign that you want him to pet you
Every time you want to make a sensual movement while on the floor, place your palms on your thighs, then stroke them up to your knees. Bend your knees while you're waiting, then stroke your buttocks to your calves. When you get back up, stroke your feet from your calves to your hips.
- Perform this movement to expose the buttocks. Place your palms on your hips, then stroke the back of your feet. When you get back up, stroke your feet from the bottom up to your buttocks for him to see.
- Licking his lips might make him aroused because this movement is very sensual.
Method 12 of 14: Touch your body to it
Step 1. Physical contact can be a sign that you want to interact with him
If you are close to each other, stand a little closer together. While dancing, stroke your arm against his or nudge his hips with yours to let him know that you want attention.
If he continues to dodge, he may not want to make physical contact. Respect her privacy so she doesn't get upset
Method 13 of 14: Follow the moves
Step 1. Do the same to let him know that you like him
Once he starts to floor, watch his movements, then imitate what he's doing while adjusting his rhythm. Who knows, he realizes that you want to dance with him because he sees you copying his moves.
This step can be applied if you are dancing close together because you can't see the movement if you are far from each other
Method 14 of 14: Get him to the floor
Step 1. Take the initiative to let him know that you want to dance with him
Don't wait until he takes you to the floor if you really want to dance with him. Why not go over to him and reach out? If he holds your hand, lead him to another area of the ballroom so he understands what you want. He will be impressed if you are very confident.
This step can be a surefire tip to start physical contact by eliminating the feeling of being reluctant to touch
Tips
- Take the time to relax and have fun on the floor! If you're feeling awkward or tense, he can sense it.
- Don't worry about what your movements or appearance will look like. You will be the center of attention if you dance with confidence!
