You found a Virgo girl that caught your eye? No one can blame you. Girls born between August 22 and September 22 are charming and attractive girls. The girl is feminine and shy yet she is strong and very principled. Want to know how to get him and make him see you and only you? It's easy if you can approach him slowly, impress him with your sharpness, and be able to fulfill his sense of perfectionism.
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Part 1 of 3: Starting a Relationship
Step 1. Be his friend first
The Virgo girl is a girl to be slowly courted. He has to know who you are and feel comfortable with you before he can move on to anything romantic or sexual. He needs to know exactly what he's up against, so befriend him first. Everything worth having is worth waiting for, and he is one of them.
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Use subtle, accidental touches to get him used to making physical contact with you. That does not mean that you will avoid rejection, but still the touch will be stored in his subconscious. Hopefully she will start to like him and want more. He will start to touch you back indicating his approval for you to do more.
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Step 2. Take action first
The Virgo girl is very shy, so be careful not to mistake her shyness as a sign that she's not attracted to you. In order to start a relationship with a Virgo girl, you have to take the first step because she is too shy and very traditional to start with. But as soon as he gets to know you, the shyness will wear off and he will become more confident around you. But for now, you have to do a tougher job.
- You have to know exactly what you want to do. He will be interested when you know what you want. Tell him exactly where you want to take him to dinner or what you want to do this weekend. No one could refuse an invitation delivered with such conviction and determination?
- Keep everything traditional. Don't take her alone in a dark place and start loosening her belt. Be romantic and take things slowly. He needs to be treated well above all else.
Step 3. Be kind and loving to him
Virgo girls have a soft spot for more romantic words and prefer to be called "pretty" or "cute" instead of "hot" or "sexy." When interacting with him, be kind and caring. He will not be impressed by something that shows manliness or that is full of jokes. Games are not his style.
He is looking for a stable partner. People who can help his worries lessen and put his mind at ease. If you get into a game of cat and mouse or a game of tug of war, he won't like it. He wants to know that you like him and he's the only one and won't go anywhere else. In short, he needs to trust you
Step 4. Have a meaningful conversation with him
Above all, the Virgo girl values your intelligence. It's fine if you're cute and handsome too, but if you're not smart, he'll leave you in no time. So when you talk to him, find out what turns him on. He probably reads about everything!
He would love it if you could talk about current events, politics, literature, music, history, science, etc. If you can keep up with him, he'll know you deserve it and worth fighting for. So start reading
Step 5. Read the eyes
Since the Virgo girl is like an animal that needs bait to get out of her cage, it's important that you know how she feels about you. As you sit next to him, look into his eyes. If his eyes show passion and seem to be screaming for you to get closer to him, make good use of that. If those eyes seem to say, "What do you think you're doing?" it's time for you to back off.
By understanding a lot about the Virgo girl, you will be able to read her eyes. Sometimes you can be wrong, but if you've built a friendship, you'll be pretty good at it. If things get worse, you need to openly ask him! He will appreciate your honesty as long as you are wise and speak it with care
Part 2 of 3: Have a Good Appearance
Step 1. Dress smartly
The Virgo girl likes a well-dressed partner. He's quite a perfectionist, so you should also be able to keep up with him (he doesn't want to waste his time helping you pick out clothes!). The casual Virgo girl likes a nice t-shirt and jeans, but the neater Virgo girl prefers you to wear a cool jacket and shoes. Either way, you need to look like you're taking the time to pay attention to what you're wearing.
This doesn't mean you have to be trendy. Absolutely not! There are plenty of never-fashionable clothes that Virgo girls appreciate. A nice button-down shirt, a cool jacket and even a nostalgic signature tie would be acceptable. As long as you pay attention to what you're wearing, he'll figure it out
Step 2. Maintain good body hygiene
Apart from dressing well, you also need to be clean! The Virgo girl needs a partner who looks really good: this means that your ears need to be clean, your nails, nose, and everything else should be clean too. And of course you have to smell good!
Step 3. Keep your environment clean
If the Virgo girl gets into your car and has to put down a mat to sit on, she'll prefer to walk. Walked back to his house. He can't stand anything messy and won't tolerate you. This is a red light for him to be with someone who is untidy. He has no other choice but to get up and clean your room! Not romantic at all.
So when you find him tidying up your closet out of the blue, don't be surprised. This is his nature. You shouldn't change the way unless you're the kind of person who leaves pizza on the floor to eat later. The Virgo girl doesn't need a partner who's as clean as she is, but she doesn't want one that's slovenly
Step 4. Have it all
Virgo girl wants her lover to have everything like smart, funny, cute and loving. Though intelligence is foremost, ideally you should possess admirable qualities. Be someone who has everything that can make him discover a lot of new things about yourself that he will like.
To make him want more, talk to him about everything. Captivate his mind. This can be about anything. If he wants to talk about Swiss art in the 18th century, go with him. If he wants to talk about the Kardashians, be with him. Show him that you can handle every side of him as well as his thoughts
Part 3 of 3: Be The One For Him
Step 1. Help her ease her worries
A Virgo girl's mind is constantly running. ALL THE TIME. He was always thinking about something, including himself. He needs someone who can help him calm down, to lean on. If you can do this, he will never let you go.
- When you see him thinking, ask him what happened. If he doesn't open up, don't leave him. He may just want to think or be uncomfortable asking for help. Let him know that you are always there for him if he needs you.
- As you get to know him better, you'll likely find out at least some of the reasons he's worried. Try to make her worry less. Does he need to do the job? Cleaning the house? What can you do to give him more time to relax?
Step 2. Face his perfectionism
Because his mind is running all the time, he pays attention to every detail in a book. If something was a little odd, he would definitely take note of it. So if your shirt is a little wrinkled at the back, he'll notice it. When the spice cabinet in your home is disorganized, he will notice. It wasn't a problem, but it would be something he kept in his head.
Things could get longer with it. While the Virgo girl will always be on time, she may now be able to spend more time on certain things. If he is the creative type, he can devote a lot of time to his art until it is satisfying to him. He is the Goldilocks of modern times
Step 3. Take him to nature
The Virgo girl is a person who loves nature. If you want to see him smile, take him outside. Take him on a picnic or go on a hike. Rent a rowboat and take him boating on the lake. She's not the type to complain about the weather or want her hair to look perfect all the time. Take him outdoors and give him memories he will remember forever!
Step 4. Know that he can be very personal
Virgo doesn't believe that kissing, expressing affection, and using her feelings all the time need to be exaggerated. Of course, there will be times when he wants to open up, but most of the time he prefers to be closed so don't demand it too often. You have plenty of time to pour out your affection at home.
Sometimes the Virgo girl doesn't express her feelings. If you want to know what he's thinking or feeling, you should probably ask him directly. This doesn't mean that he doesn't have feelings for you, but because he takes what he feels is very personal
Step 5. Hold on to your words
The Virgo girl needs to know that she can depend on you. Therefore, make sure you stick to what you say. For example, if you say you will call him at 3pm, you should call him on time, don't be late. If you are reliable, he will come to you without worrying.
So before you say you're going to do something, make sure you can actually do it. Don't make promises or commitments that you can't keep. And if you do have to break a promise, you should show goodwill and explain the situation to him in its entirety. He will appreciate your honesty and your effort to explain to him
Step 6. Be someone who is willing to compromise
The Virgo girl hates quarrels and arguments. The Virgo girl will let you do what you want, but secretly she will be angry. This can cause serious damage to the foundation of your relationship. You have to be able to compromise with him so you can both be happy.
Take care of your emotions. The gentle Virgo girl does not like irritation and unwarranted anger. Listen to him when he tries to speak. Usually what he says is the important thing, because if it wasn't important he wouldn't bother telling you
Step 7. Be faithful to him
If you're the kind of guy who kicks girls out of bed in the morning, the Virgo girl won't give you a chance to get close to her. When you get to know her, make it clear that you are honest, trustworthy, and know how to treat other people, a girl in particular. The Virgo girl isn't looking for a partner who just wants to play with her.
Virgo girls are really sensitive and looking for a partner who is willing to be loyal and have a stable relationship. The Virgo girl can be flirty, but once she's in a relationship she's totally committed. The man who gets the Virgo girl will be the only man in his life
Tips
- Never ever lying to a Virgo girl. He is strong enough to accept whatever the truth is and will be more hurt by lies.
- Be someone who is reliable and honest to build his trust. The Virgo girl worries easily and this can help calm her mind.
- If you decide that you want a Virgo girl, you need to be manly, NOT rigid. Virgo girls hate people who like to control their partner's nature, and like Scorpio, they will never change to fit in with anyone!
- Virgo girls love the scent of candles, fresh clothes, perfumes and colognes.
- The Virgo girl is willing to forgive, but she also believes that if you are truly sorry for hurting her, you will never do it again.
- Virgo girls don't date based on looks or money. So, it is important for you to have a good sense of humor and outlook on life.
- Don't promise a Virgo girl anything if you can't keep it.
- The Virgo girl hates anything dirty and dirty, and won't date a guy who can't take care of himself and his own house.
- If your car is dirty and doesn't have full fuel, forget about your desire to date a Virgo girl!
- Love him! Show your affection for him. This is a must. The Virgo girl loves substance more than anything, but sincere (and frequent) compliments will take you a long way from her relationship.
- You need to know that the Virgo girl is very judgmental of others, but she judges herself even harder. He may seem presumptuous and selfish, but in that case he blames himself more than blames others. Let him know that there is nothing wrong in this and remind him that not everything is his fault. If you've done something wrong, tell him that you're sorry because otherwise he'll blame himself and your relationship and feelings will be hurt.
Warning
- If you are mean, selfish, careless, indifferent, dishonest, rude, or lazy, the Virgo girl is not for you.
- Virgo girls can behave very badly when angry.
- Virgo girls like Scorpios can be VERY introverted so you need a lot of patience when it comes to getting to know them.
