Don't underestimate the gentle Virgo! Virgo is a special and virtuous person. Perfectionist Virgos can be hard to please, but if you can afford them, they will be very loyal and loving. By remembering that you must be considerate and loyal, your relationship with Virgo can be even better, as friends, family, or partners.
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Step 1. Don't play
Virgo considers mind games and manipulation to be dishonest, deceitful, and on her level, and she can recognize this manipulation from afar. He will not trust or respect you if you try to do this.
Step 2. Consider her feelings
What's on a Virgo's mind is usually a mystery to those around him because he can mask feelings well. When he finally gets to the point where he expresses displeasure at a person or situation, people around him are usually taken aback. Virgos are patient and kind people, but if their patience and kindness run out, it's all over! He can harbor feelings for the sake of politeness and may eventually explode, or worse, simply ignore you.
Step 3. Pay attention to your personal hygiene and appearance
Virgos are perfectionists and are usually neat. So pay attention to your nails, body odor and hair. Take care of appearance. If you have a Virgo friend, she may comment if she thinks you need help, but not in a mean or spiteful way.
Step 4. Don't waste time trying to change a Virgo's mind when he's convinced of something
Virgo not only means what they believe in, but also puts their mind and research into it, and rarely backs down from an argument. Virgo loves to observe, nothing escapes his scrutiny, and he can beat any opponent in a debate.
Step 5. Never underestimate a Virgo friend or lover
Virgos are very loyal, dedicated, and give 100% to those they love, but cannot be taken advantage of or abused. Once he was sure that he was being cheated, he would immediately show the exit without much ado. If he suspects that he's the only one contributing to the friendship or romance, you'll get a ticket out of his life. Virgo may come across as rude for being able to quickly disengage emotionally, but his logic won't allow him to wail for so long. It's almost impossible to win a Virgo back once she's stepped forward.
Step 6. Compliment a Virgo sincerely because he is a sensitive being who usually sees himself as better off because he puts his all into whatever he does
Compliments like "You look so beautiful today" or "You are my best friend" are sure to be appreciated and have a big impact. Virgo puts his best effort into all areas because he is a perfectionist. So the compliment will make him feel that his efforts are not being ignored. He will usually compliment you sincerely back, and your Virgo lover will appreciate you enthusiastically.
Step 7. Don't point out Virgo's flaws because she's fully aware of them
When he can't appear or act perfect, for example because of illness, he will be very restless. Never insult a Virgo or embarrass him in public! Virgos are well aware of everyone's flaws, especially their own, and are very sensitive to criticism. He wouldn't forget if he was humiliated.
Step 8. Try to make him laugh
Virgo always tries to see the humorous side of everything and is easy going. He likes TV shows, movies, skits and funny comedians. Intelligent Virgos can be hard to laugh at sometimes, but if they do, they'll be impressed and interested.
Step 9. Earn love and respect so you can befriend him
Virgos are great friends, but you should deserve their love and respect. Maybe he had a lot of friends, but in reality he had very few people he really trusted. If Virgo considers you a close friend, be grateful! The loyal and unselfish Virgo is very supportive of her friends and is happy to prioritize the needs of the people she cares about.
Step 10. Listen when Virgo talks
Virgos are great listeners and in her opinion, being ignored or interrupted is rude.
Step 11. Don't be arrogant and haughty
Independent Virgos can't stand people who are spoiled and feel entitled to everything, as if the world "owed" them something. Then, although Virgo is an educated and cultured person, he does not tolerate people who are extravagant.
Step 12. Know that Virgo will listen to your advice, but may not take it
He will do whatever is best for himself. For example, if he asks, "Should I choose red or black?" and you say, “I like the red one,” he will consider it, but then choose the black one. No offense. He considers your idea, but chooses his own.
Step 13. Understand that while Virgo is sensitive, he can be quite defensive
If you're fighting with a Virgo just because he seems weak and helpless, think again. He had steel bones and a sharp tongue.
Step 14. Don't give out too much information too early
Sharing very personal or intimate details can make a Virgo somewhat uncomfortable and provoke the need to share similar information. It takes time for a Virgo to open up to you back.
Step 15. Be careful what you say
If you said something bad last year, he will remember and use it against you.
Step 16. Know that Virgo women can make great wives and mothers because of their gentle and loving nature
Her perfection is an asset in the kitchen, and she is not averse to painting rooms or coloring furniture. She will take care of the house and raise happy, well-behaved children. Don't be stingy with complimenting a Virgo's cooking, immaculate home, and other perfections in her household because she takes great pride in her ability to take care of the house.
Step 17. Be tactful and diplomatic because Virgo does NOT tolerate rude and unwise people
Control your emotions around Virgo because he views anger as a weakness.
Step 18. Have conversational skills if you realize intelligence is not your forte
Virgo likes an interesting chat because of Mercury in its star or quirky character. Virgo won't waste their wit and charm on someone they don't think is worth it. That's why some people find Virgos boring. It's not necessarily the Virgo's fault, it's because he isn't attracted enough by the other person to make a lasting impression. He knows he has a lot of positive attributes and is superior to most if only he doesn't hate being the center of attention, it's just that he keeps his charms for new friends and potential partners.
Step 19. Don't act stupid or overdress in front of a Virgo woman, even Virgo men don't find her attractive
Also, if you are a woman, never flirt with a Virgo man. Virgos who have a partner protect their relationship with their lives and will react strongly to anyone who threatens their relationship.
Step 20. Know that Virgo will be surprised by constructive criticism, but will accept it humbly
However, negative criticism that is meant to hurt will not be well received and the response he gives can be very bad. Never insult a Virgo.
Step 21. Realize that Virgos are very perceptive and intuitive
So, always tell the truth and be sincere. If the truth hurts, he will expect you to use tact and diplomatic language. He doesn't like people who are fake or dishonest.
Step 22. Note that Virgos have good manners and are subtle so you won't have a chance to be friends with them if you're being stupid, unpleasant, vulgar, selfish, rude, frivolous, or asking for sex on a first date
However, the kind Virgo is able to see the best in people and may give you a chance if your negative qualities outweigh the positive qualities of principle, as long as you show a desire to improve.
Step 23. Realize that Virgo likes substance
If you want to be in a relationship with a Virgo, you have to be interesting, deep, and a little mysterious, but not so far off that she feels unneeded. If that happened, he would lose interest.
Step 24. Know that when it comes to astrology, Virgos are more like angels than virgins when it comes to zodiac signs
Step 25. Don't be fooled by the term "Virgin Zodiac"
Virgo is usually introverted and very picky when it comes to lovers, but attaches great importance to sex and sexual compatibility. Virgo may seem shy at first, but patience and trust will create an intense, passionate, and interesting sex life. Virgos are unselfish and creative in bed, and take pride in their ability to satisfy and fulfill their partner's every whim.
Step 26. Know that Virgo places great importance on loyalty and trust in relationships
When a Virgo finds true love, he will devote himself completely, but he also expects the same loyalty. You will not get a second chance if you are unfaithful.
Step 27. Don't check the stuff
If you think he's hiding something, be honest about your concerns, but don't enter into his privacy.
Step 28. Don't try to force Virgo to do what she hates
Virgo is very independent and will not tolerate people controlling his personality because he has a strong desire to succeed in his OWN way. If he feels you are forcing a glance, he will lose interest.
Step 29. Know that if a Virgo likes you, he will tell you
He's really trying to find true love and won't mess around.
Tips
- Virgo may seem shy or reserved at first meeting. He needs time to get to know each other better because he will open up once he feels more comfortable.
- Virgos love to smile. Make her smile, you will be able to win her heart.
- Virgo hates when you ask for his opinion, but then criticizes his opinion and tries to change his perspective.
- Virgos may fall for someone who isn't pretty or handsome, as long as they feel wanted and appreciated, but secretly they will be annoyed if their partner is "not as nice as he is."
- Virgos can't lie for long and don't like it when other people don't value their honesty.
- Virgos are very firm in their stance.
- When Virgo is pushed to the limit of his temper, you better watch out.
- Virgo is very secretive until you manage to gain his trust. Don't give up because once he trusts you, he'll be willing to share a lot of personal stuff.
- Virgo can be very private sometimes. So, don't invade his privacy. Don't show up at his house without telling him beforehand.
- If you want to date a Virgo, ask him about his hobbies, and follow through.
Warning
- Treat Virgo with respect. He only respects those who deserve it.
- Virgos are very good with words. He can be very persuasive and knows how to push someone's sensitive buttons in an argument.
- Virgos are very picky and tend to worry too much.
- Virgo sometimes needs a lot of facilities because he really prioritizes perfection.
