Aries is one of the most powerful stars in the zodiac. Aries women are stronger and more difficult to understand than men. Of course, it takes skill and patience to date him. However, this article contains dating advice for any gender (this means that both women and men can take the suggestions described in this article).
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Step 1. When showing interest in an Aries woman, try to be friendly, direct, and relaxed
If you take him too seriously from the start, you may come across as too "sticky" to him. Of course, nothing is more upsetting to an Aries woman than an overly clingy and obsessive partner. Try to be casual, crack jokes, and, most importantly, treat him platonic until he makes the first move. This is important for you to remember.
- Aries is the symbol/star of the male lead, led by Mars, a symbol of war. Therefore, you will face a leader who knows no fear. The Aries woman is a person who is reluctant to follow the rules of a traditional woman. He doesn't care what other people think, and doesn't want to follow existing traditions/customs. He also will not act like other women who are sweet and submissive. Since the Aries woman is "guided" by the male star/symbol, it's important that you remember that she should be the one to take the first steps when it comes to dating.
- An Aries woman will tell you right away if she is sexually attracted to you, either through her words or body language. In general, the Aries figure can't keep a secret, no matter how much effort. It's possible that if an Aries woman likes you, her feelings will be easy for you to tell. Sometimes, you also come across an Aries woman who seems shy. Try to be open to him and he will open up.
Step 2. Don't be shy about asking her out
When you approach him and ask him out, show confidence. Make eye contact and smile. The Aries woman tends to show a different/not rigid attitude when it comes to the things she likes (including the person she likes) so you don't have to feel embarrassed. Approach him and invite him to do activities such as rock climbing, roller skating, or sneaking into the theater. Also listen to the suggestions he gives. Who knows it could take you to unexpected places!
Step 3. Listen to what he has to say
The motto for Aries is “I am me”, and you will understand it within the first few minutes of conversation. The Aries woman is a person who has a mind of her own and is often caught up in her own identity and purpose in life. Give positive feedback when asked, and add your own suggestions. The Aries woman will appreciate constructive suggestions for her life and personality. However, be careful when making suggestions so you don't offend. Also, be prepared for when he doesn't want to follow your advice at all.
Step 4. Be honest
When talking about yourself, be honest and forthright. Don't try to outsmart him or cover up certain things about your character. The Aries woman hates dishonesty and duplicity, and will dump you if she finds out that you're not being honest. However, feel free to talk about yourself. Tell him about who "you" really are.
Talk about your goals for the future. The Aries woman is a very loyal friend or partner. If he feels that your goals or goals are very important or valuable, he will be happy to help you if he can
Step 5. Don't be too "sticky" or obsessive about it
Let him control the relationship. Build strong friendship elements and spontaneity when you're with him. Also, keep things fun and interesting by trying new things, doing things together, or holding exciting competitions (without seeing them as absolute competitors, of course). Get rid of any existing jealousy because if you try to distance him from his friends, your friendship with him will end before you can get into a more serious relationship with him. The Aries woman doesn't have time for those who are trying to manage her life.
Step 6. Don't judge it by first impressions alone
The Aries woman is a very strong character, loyal, level-headed and very goal-focused. Some people may feel that he is a rude person at first, but try not to judge him on the first meeting. When dealing with an Aries woman, try not to judge her based on your first impression alone.
Even though they may seem rude at first, the Aries woman is a very sentimental and sensitive person. Understand that his complex emotions are intertwined and mixed in his mind. If you think about it, the Aries woman is actually not a cold person. This is because they need time to accept change. In fact, the Aries woman is a warm person, very loyal, and full of affection
Step 7. Understand that trust can be a problem for him
Trust is always a problem for anyone who is Aries. Because they are telling the truth, they expect others to do the same. As a result, many Aries figures are often used, even repeatedly. Regardless of how often their trust is broken and they have to face the painful consequences, they will rise up, forget the pain they were in, and give back their trust to others (even the wrong people). However, the average Aries woman will give her lifelong trust after knowing you for a short time. This is one of his most charming characters. In fact, this character was born out of his fearlessness and belief in the good side of everyone. He felt that everyone was just like him, and he would never take advantage of other people's trust for him. If you can understand that this is one of his most attractive strengths (as well as his biggest weakness), you can appreciate the trust he gives (even if it's too soon) and not take advantage of it.
Step 8. Recognize that the Aries woman is supportive
If you approach him in the right way, he can be a very friendly, easy-going and loyal person. In some situations, it may be the only person you can turn to. He is someone you can rely on, even in the most difficult times of your life. He can also be the only person who won't let you down. Aries will always protect the weak with heroic courage. He doesn't need anyone to defend him. Bravely, he will tell anyone what he thinks (including words that may be “hurtful”). He can also feel your pain and share your happiness. Aries will empathize and actively support those who are struggling, but will ignore those who whine a lot, complain and often feel depressed for no reason.
Step 9. Don't underestimate it, especially directly
His personality is formed from strong aspects. He's stronger than you, and if you need him, try calling him; he will come. He does not give up easily and will only feel relieved after he achieves what he wants. Do not doubt him or deprive him of his freedom. That way, he will respect your trust and continue to show his loyalty and trust in you. He won't do anything to break the trust you have in him.
Step 10. Never underestimate it
He doesn't like it, and will actually fight you. He must get the respect he deserves. Make him feel special. Make him understand how important he is in your life. Prepare his favorite dish if you can. Sing or send him a song and write him romantic love letters. Most importantly, fight for him, especially if he is in the worst possible situation. This way, you will never lose it.
Step 11. Know how to behave
He will appreciate whatever you do for him, and will do whatever it takes to maintain the love and trust in the relationship he is pursuing. The Aries woman is someone who is willing to take action. He also keeps his word and doesn't easily change his mind, regardless of the situation. He may show a little anger, but don't take it too seriously as the anger may be due to his professional life (keep in mind that he has a lot of passion). The anger may also be a form of frustration because he lost something or someone in his life. Show your love and care for him and, most importantly, your friendship in those moments. This way, he will remain loyal and feel grateful for your presence.
Step 12. Realize that you may not be able to "take care" of it
There are only a few people who can be trusted to take care of an Aries woman. Perhaps, he is the figure of a Leo man who often boasts of. Or maybe he's in love with a deep Scorpio (yes, Scorpio can treat Aries better). However, even if your Aries woman likes to manage during the day, make sure she can be a submissive person at night. Are you strong and confident enough to handle this passionate and fearless woman? Keep this hint in mind: if you have to ask him to “lead” it, it means he is dominating you.
Tips
- When it comes to bed, be honest and communicate your desires, and try experimenting with them. You will get a "surprise" that is beyond measure.
- Make him laugh. Give him compliments and smiles. Show your love to open his heart.
- Aries women love to socialize. Therefore, give him the opportunity to socialize with anyone.
- Shy Aries women can be goofy at times. Therefore, if you are sincere and loyal, the conversation will not feel silly or questionable. The Aries woman is a very careful person because when she falls in love, she will be completely immersed in her love. Therefore, Aries women, whether shy or not, sometimes act "innocent" to appear witty.
- Visit the places he frequents. See him whenever possible and show you care. Make him laugh, tell him you miss him and trust him, and be open. He will appreciate it, more than you can imagine.
- If you don't text him in a few hours, he'll think you're taking advantage of him.
- Always remember that for an Aries figure, actions are more important than words.
- If an Aries woman loses her love for you, it's because she doesn't feel loved, appreciated, or betrayed. Whatever the reason, he would feel very hurt.
- Aries women love change. Therefore, make sure things are still fun so that he continues to "catch up" with you. If not, he will feel bored and move to another heart.
- Sometimes the Aries figure can hide secrets. This is why it is often difficult to guess the personality of an Aries. However, he has such an outspoken demeanor that he usually can't keep secrets hidden for long.
- Always tell him why when you are angry. Usually, he doesn't notice.
- An Aries is a free spirit. If you managed to win her heart, there must be a reason why you managed to win her heart.
- An Aries may seem strong or tough, but they are actually very sensitive people. Therefore, be careful with what you say.
Warning
- Don't try to lie. If you lie, he will overwhelm you and ask you a million questions. You will feel embarrassed and eventually give up and tell the truth. The Aries woman will always ask you to open up and make her understand the situation well.
- Led by Mars, the passion and anger of an Aries woman is legendary. If you make him angry (may God help you), don't yell at each other, throw things, or make things worse by "fighting back." Instead, take some time to be alone, and wait for the anger to subside. Even though it's terrible, an Aries's anger will quickly pass. After that, he'll let you know when he's ready to talk again.
