If the man of your dreams suddenly appears in front of you, you may want to make sure he knows you're attracted to him, without freaking him out or walking away. Keep these techniques in mind the next time you meet the Dream Prince and want to let him know that you are very interested in a closer relationship.
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Part 1 of 3: Say the Right Things
Step 1. Chat with him
This is probably something you already know clearly, but it's still very important to mention one more time. If you're constantly walking away from the man of your dreams because you're panicking and don't know what to say and how to act, he may interpret this as a sign that you're not interested in him.
Step 2. Tell me about your life
After successfully chatting for a while, start talking about yourself. The things you enjoy, your friends, your work and your family are all natural topics for this stage. Avoid directly talking about your ex-girlfriend or previous love relationships.
If your conversation still revolves around safe topics like the weather or past parties, this means you're still on guard, and this can lead a guy to think that you're not opening up to his approach.. By telling a little bit about yourself, you're giving him the impression that you're interested and inviting him into your personal area and in your life
Step 3. Ask about his life
Asking about the guy himself is just as important as telling him about yourself. This conveys the message that you are trying to get to know him better, which means that you are attracted to him.
You also need to respond when he tells you about himself, to show your genuine concern and interest in getting to know him personally
Step 4. Laugh when he jokes
Never force a fake laugh, but if you can find the funny side of what the guy is doing/saying, you should reward the effort by laughing. A small laugh is enough to show your interest in him.
A forced laugh will usually be obvious, and it will give the impression that you are actually feeling sorry for the guy, not appreciating the joke. After all, if you have to force yourself to laugh at his jokes, you really need to ask yourself again, are you sure you really are as attracted to this guy as you think he is
Step 5. Tease him carefully
A little playfulness will be effective, but avoid any action that undermines the male ego. In everyday language, a little humor or witty sarcasm can seem very attractive, but this must be accompanied by body language that communicates your interest so the guy knows that you are playing games, not really criticizing him..
- Temptation should be done while having fun. For example, if his tie is wrinkled and he seems to be in a hurry to tidy it up, you might laugh and say that it only got worse after he trimmed it. If this joke makes him smile or even throws a joke back, then you've done it right.
- On the other hand, any jokes or teasing you make should not be overly critical and self-defeating. For example, if he seems nervous around you and accidentally spills his drink on your dress, don't tease him by saying that he ruined your favorite dress or a very precious family heirloom, as this will only make him feel worse and worse. feel guilty.
Step 6. Praise him
Everyone loves compliments, as long as the compliment is given sincerely. Complimenting a guy's appearance is the easiest and most obvious way to let him know about your interest. You can also make a compliment or two about his personality, especially if you've been chatting with him for a while.
Complimenting appearance can be done to himself or his clothes. For example, you could say, “Your eyes are amazingly expressive,” or, “Your shirt is beautiful. That blue color matches your eye color very well.”
Step 7. Let him know that you want to chat with him again
In fact, the easiest way to end a conversation while letting him know that you want to see a guy again is to say so in person. For example, “I really enjoyed chatting with you tonight. I hope we can chat again sometime.”
- You can also provide nonverbal cues to convey your interest. For example, say the above while touching his arm faintly.
- If you're lucky, at this point the guy will ask for your phone number. If you believe that he is also genuinely interested in you but is embarrassed to ask for your number, you can either ask for his number first or give him yours instead.
Part 2 of 3: Use Appropriate Body Language
Step 1. Make eye contact in a proper manner
Eyes are windows to the heart, so eye contact is the most important element you have to show interest in a man. That way, you certainly don't want to stare at a guy for too long. A better way is to make eye contact, look the other way (for example, to the floor), then look back into his eyes.
- By looking down after the first eye contact and then looking back into his eyes, you are sending a signal that you are attracted to the man you are looking at and you are observing how you feel about this attraction. By looking back into his eyes after looking away, you are saying that, after observing your feelings, you are opening up the possibility of a further relationship with him.
- Constantly staring at a guy will actually give the impression that you are completely unaffected by him.
Step 2. Smile
Everyone loves to receive a genuine smile, even if it doesn't involve any flirtation or romance at all. A smile sends a friendly and open message, and before you can tell a guy your romantic interest, you need to let him know that you're a fun person and open to befriending him.
However, you should only smile if it feels natural. If you're feeling nervous or don't feel like smiling, forcing a smile will look fake and weird. If the guy is still confused about his attraction to you, he will actually walk away because of this
Step 3. Give it a little touch of the fit
Never underestimate the impact of physical contact. Touching his arm with your hand while chatting is a great way to bridge the gap between the two of you and sends the message that you want some form of physical closeness with him.
Note that some types of touch can convey a more powerful message than others. For example, touching a man's arm will seem attractive and seductive, but still safe. However, putting your hand on a man's thigh will give the impression that you want to have sex with him immediately
Step 4. Be careful when folding your hands
Folding your arms can indicate interest or disinterest, depending on how you do it. If you fold your arms with the rest of your body covered, this is a clear signal that you want the guy to stay away from you. But if the rest of your body is exposed, folding your arms makes a great impression on a guy who's still wondering about his feelings.
- If done right, this can be a subtle way to draw a guy's attention to your chest area and make him feel his instinctive male attraction.
- To do it properly, you should leave one hand free and expressive while the other hand is folded lightly and relaxed.
Step 5. Lean your body closer to him
By getting closer, you are conveying the message that you want to be closer to the guy. If you lean back or away, it means you are saying that you want to keep your distance from him.
Lean in a natural and graceful way. The best time to do this is when you are chatting with the guy. Leaning toward him shows that you're paying attention to what he's saying, and it's a very clear sign that you're interested in him
Step 6. Cross your legs, then put them back down
Crossing your legs and putting your legs back can give the impression that you're nervous, which sends a message to a guy who's still wondering that you're really influenced by his presence. Do this just enough to communicate your interest, but don't overdo it, as he'll either find you very uncomfortable and bothered by his presence, or he'll think he has the upper hand.
You can also cross your legs as a direct and firm expression of disinterest. However, if the rest of your body is showing confidence and you cross your legs to show your legs more clearly, this will be considered sexually tempting. If you purposely point the toes of your legs that are in the up position when crossed towards him, this too is a very clear indication of your attraction
Step 7. Play with the ends of your hair
Twisting the ends of your hair with your fingers can also indicate nervousness and let a guy know that your mind is affected by his presence. Just like the folds of the hands and the cross of the legs, don't overdo this hair game. This can imply boredom if you don't keep the rest of your body exposed.
Throwing hair behind the shoulders is also a gesture that implies sexual temptation. Long hair is one of the charms of femininity, and drawing a man's attention to your long hair means drawing his attention to you as a woman. Doing this means that you really want the guy to notice your feminine attractiveness
Step 8. Lick your lips
Licking your lips is a very sure sign of your attraction to a guy. When you feel an attraction, your mouth and tongue will feel dry, and you will spontaneously lick your lips to moisten them again.
Licking your lips also conveys the impression that you, consciously or unconsciously, are contemplating the possibility of kissing the guy
Part 3 of 3: Give Vague (and Clear) Clues
Step 1. Flirt only with that guy, don't flirt with other guys
If you're trying to show interest in a certain guy, all your attention should be on him. If your attention is focused on several men at once, or you are flirting with several men at once, this conveys the impression that you are indeed a flirtatious woman. As a result, your attraction to that particular guy will not show.
Step 2. Wear the right clothes
If you're going to meet a guy you already know, you may not be able to change the way you look anymore, but still, plan your appearance ahead of time as best you can. Wear clothes that bring out the best in your body and suit your shape.
- However, know that this doesn't mean you have to be overly aggressive. Wearing super-tight clothes that reveal cleavage, legs, back and abs will come across as too cheap an effort, and it will make a guy think that you want to be with any guy who can give you what you want/need.
- Focus your appearance on one area of the body that you want to highlight. If you want to wear a top that accentuates your cleavage a little, don't pair this top with a skirt with a high slit that shows all of your legs.
Step 3. Come alone when you meet the guy
Don't come with a group of female friends or a group of male friends or a combination of male and female friends. This will make it difficult for a guy to approach you.
- You don't have to come completely alone, but you really should avoid coming in groups. If you must, come with 1-2 friends only.
- If you happen to be with a large group of female friends, a guy may hold off on approaching you, because he wants to focus his attention only on you, not on other friends.
- If there's a guy in the group, this can send a message that you already belong to someone, and the guy will probably not pick up on any hints you're giving at all about your attraction.
Step 4. Avoid places that are too noisy
If you want to get away from your activities for a while, choose a place that is quite quiet. A guy will be more likely to approach you if he thinks he doesn't need to yell at you to hear when you're talking to him, in order to beat the noise around the two of you.
Outdoors are usually more ideal than indoors, as you'll find it easier to find quiet corners than if you're stuck in a crowded, noisy room
Step 5. Give him a chance to approach
Don't leave the meeting place too soon. You might think you've given all the directions clearly in 30 minutes, but there are types of guys who are just shy and don't approach it easily, especially to women they don't really know. If you think a guy is interested in you, make sure he has enough time and opportunity to approach you before you give up and leave him.
If you're at a bar, party, or reception, always keep in mind that the guy you're after may need a shot of courage before he can approach the woman who's sneaking glances at him. Give it to him to get that courage injection, for example by giving him a certain drink
Step 6. Approach him
If all other efforts don't work, it's okay to make a first approach to the guy you're after. This may be the right move if the guy has given you hints that he's interested in you too but is still shy about making an approach.
