If you want to be kissed by your crush, you definitely need to tell him what you want. He may be waiting for you to show interest or give him the "green light". Use body language (eg eye contact or small touches) to show your interest in him. However, try not to be too aggressive or appear too "miserable" as both can actually discourage your partner from making out with you. Instead, just be yourself and let things go as they are when the time is right.
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Method 1 of 3: Using Subtle Hints
Step 1. Show eye contact
If you are always looking down or looking away, he will feel that you are not interested in him. Look him in the eye, especially when you're chatting. Try to smile and laugh a lot when you hear a joke he makes to show that you are enjoying your time with him.
Step 2. Try to be open and show that you are approachable
Men often fear rejection or are (at least) unsure that their partner will accept the kiss. Therefore, try to make him feel comfortable and confident. Throw flattery and compliments on him. If you can make him feel comfortable and show your interest in him, he will usually get the courage to try to kiss you.
- For example, you could say “I went to a concert yesterday that your band was at. You are a really good drummer! Since when did you start playing drums?”
- Alternatively, you can say “Hey! Do you want to watch the latest Stephen King movie? I heard the movie was terrible. Will you hold my hand while we watch the gruesome scenes?”
Step 3. Remove physical limitations
If he hasn't dared to "break" his physical boundaries, you don't have to wait for him because you can do it yourself! Gently touch him on the arm or shoulder when you talk. Make sure you give it a brief touch, with no other intention, and don't feel that you are "obligated" to touch it. Holding hands is also a great way to break physical boundaries. Just a simple touch can strengthen the intimacy between the two of you.
Step 4. Look at her lips
When you are alone with him and want to get a kiss, make eye contact and quickly shift your gaze to his lips. After that, look back into his eyes and flash a shy smile. You don't have to stare at her lips openly; it would be better if you caught a glimpse of her lips rather than staring at her for more than a few seconds.
Just give it one or two glances while chatting. You have to give subtle hints, not stare at him and make him cringe
Step 5. Try to be pampered and stay with him when you are about to part with him
If he's dropping you off after a date, try to indulge him for a while. If you're in the car, don't get out of the car right away. Instead, sit next to him and wait for a few seconds. Unbuckle your seatbelt and look at him expectantly. If he walks you to the door of the house, play with your door lock for a few seconds. This is a common sign that you want a kiss after a date. Look at him once or twice to give him a chance to lean towards you.
Step 6. Pretend to feel cold
Try making your body tremble and rubbing your hands on your arms, or making comments about the cold weather. There is a possibility that he will take the opportunity to get closer to you. If he puts his arm around you or puts his jacket on you, try to stay close to him. Show eye contact and say “Thank you”. Give him a smile and after that, maybe he will kiss you.
Step 7. Draw his attention towards your lips
Gently touch your lips every now and then to get his attention. You can also bite your lower lip coquettishly or wet your lips with your tongue.
- These can be a great way to show your partner that you want a kiss if you don't overdo it. However, if you overdo it, your attitude will appear "forced" and may actually make him feel reluctant to kiss you.
- Focus on getting his attention physically (using your own body) instead of using something else (eg applying lipstick or lip gloss).
Method 2 of 3: Be More Frank
Step 1. Get close to him
You both need to be close enough to him to kiss, and the smaller the distance between the two of you, the easier it will be for him to kiss you. Therefore, try to get closer to him. When the moment is right, bring your face close to his and give him a hopeful look. You can also get closer to yourself, as if you were about to kiss him.
For example, give him a long, loving hug. Before releasing your arms or pulling your body, try tilting your head (or pulling back). Gestures like this can give him a chance to lean in towards you and kiss you
Step 2. Talk about kissing
If your partner can't pick up on the subtle hints you're giving, try talking about kissing. If you're both watching a movie and see a kissing scene, say that it seemed "very romantic" or something. Alternatively, try telling a story about your first kiss or a silly story about a bad kiss you've had. After that, tell him that you've "changed" and can give a better kiss. Chat topics like this can be the direction and "reference" he needs.
Step 3. Ask him to kiss you
Men like a partner who is confident and understands what he wants. If you're too scared to kiss him first, ask him to kiss you. You can say "Would you like to kiss me?" You can also ask if he wants to kiss you by saying "Can I kiss you?" or “I want to kiss you right now. Do you want?"
If he refuses, don't be surprised. Stay calm, say "Okay, fine," and change the subject. Everyone must have experienced rejection so don't take his words to heart
Step 4. Kiss your partner
If you really want to kiss him, and you know he's attracted to you, then do it! Each party involved in an equal relationship has an equal right to take the first step. Don't feel "self-conscious" or overly depressed about the situation. Just lean in towards him, give him a kiss, and enjoy the kiss.
If you're not sure if he's interested in you or ready to kiss, you may need to wait until you're sure
Method 3 of 3: Preparing for a Kiss
Step 1. Freshen your breath
Brush your teeth or use mouthwash to freshen your breath. If you are outside, chew mint gum or use a breath freshener spray. Of course, the new breath is an unwanted thing you need to worry about!
Step 2. Make sure your lips feel soft
Apply lip balm before meeting her. Don't use a light-colored lipstick or lip gloss that feels sticky or too shiny. There's a good chance that he doesn't want your lipstick or lip gloss to stick to his lips because that can ruin the mood.
Step 3. Wait until you both get some privacy
Even though you really want to kiss him in the middle of the second half of a soccer game, it might not be the right time. Invite him to spend time alone with you in private, and go for a walk or watch television together. When it's just the two of you, there's a good chance he will take the first step to kiss you.
