To be with a Gemini means getting to know two different people. He has a dual nature and is able to display different personalities at different times. However, these two sides of him can be just as interesting and intriguing. When you're ready for an extraordinary journey, the Gemini woman is just for you.
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Part 1 of 3: Understanding His Personality
Step 1. Prepare to be surprised
Gemini is symbolized by the twin symbols, yin and yang with equal parts. This means at any time, you never know which one you'll be up against! One minute he would be laughing and childish, the next minute he would be serious and quiet. If you can overcome both sides then you have a chance with this dynamic woman.
With a Gemini, you never know what you're going to get into, so if you're looking for a girl who is consistent and always takes care of you, it's better to date a different sign, like Virgo. He can be submissive and feminine, but he can also be dominant and masculine. If he's a true Gemini, he'll be able to balance the two
Step 2. Understand his creativity and intelligence
Nothing can stop the Gemini woman when it comes to resourcefulness and creativity. They'll joke with you, play with words, and suddenly mention a novel or painting they're working on when you least expect it. He tends to spend his free time doing something related to music, art, or literature.
Gemini women are the type to be able to give a joke or criticism and also accept it. He can accept that you make fun of him in a teasing way, but you better be prepared to face witty, sharp comments in return
Step 3. Know that he can be a little immature
There is a side of Gemini that is very young, childish, fickle, and immature. Those traits are there to compensate for the almost too mature and serious side of him. However, he couldn't control that when the time came. The "younger twin" might come out when he meets your parents or in the middle of a meeting – who knows!
A Gemini will benefit from someone who can control the more radical side of himself. People who bring out an immature side can lead to dangerous situations, while people who bring out a darker, serious side can lead to unpleasant ones. It is best when you are a balanced person yourself
Step 4. Prepare to never know what will happen next
When you're with this girl, one minute you can be reading poetry together on the couch and the next she's leaving you a message saying she's on vacation in Italy. This girl is curious and always looking for her next adventure, so when that side comes out, it can't be stopped.
This uncertainty bothers certain people. It's easy to misunderstand as if he doesn't care or care enough, when in fact he really cares, he just needs to do his own thing. What's more, he'll see if you're around when he comes back
Step 5. Don't expect her to like makeup and magazines
Most Gemini women are too smart and too great for girly things, like cosmetics and magazines. He knew she was naturally beautiful, so why bother? And about the magazine, no thanks. He preferred to read Tolstoy or Hemingway.
This doesn't mean Geminis aren't feminine – they're feminine. At least half of him. He just didn't understand what the point of the trivial thing society expected a girl to do. And if you talk to him about it, chances are you'll believe the same
Part 2 of 3: Dating Gemini
Step 1. Show your intelligence
The Gemini woman wants someone she can fall in love with physically and mentally. He needs to know that you are compatible with him in every way. The last thing he wants is a partner who makes him feel superior – he wants someone he can share his admiration with.
When you are with him, talk about the books you read. Ask him if he wants to go to a museum. Mention the article you read the other day about a recent event that little is known about. He will find that you pique his interest and wonder what he can learn from you
Step 2. Show that you are compatible with him sexually
Gemini has two sexual sides – submissive and dominant. You'll see him acting coy, subtly flirting, and blinking his lashes a lot, or then you'll see him becoming dominant, inviting you and making a move first. When this happens, get into the game! Let him take control when he wants to control and take over when he's done.
He doesn't need someone who is dominant enough or submissive enough – he needs someone who can control and complement whichever side he brings out
Step 3. Let him chat
Gemini is a very social creature. Especially when his childish side comes out, he can be very talkative. When he's talking about something else or telling you all the little details about a book he's reading, sit back and relax, letting him be in the spotlight. Watch him talk. Let him cheer you up.
Since Gemini needs someone to stimulate their minds, it's a good idea to ask questions. State your theory or thought. Talk to him about what makes you wonder or what you think. You might be able to get him to open up and have an interesting experience
Step 4. Take her out on an interesting and exciting date
Geminis love to be surprised, intrigued, and entertained. When you start a relationship, he wants to do things that are less traditional. Invite him to make pottery or a cheese tasting event. He will be very impressed by your originality and ingenuity.
Don't feel pressured to have to do this all the time. She has two sides – and once you show her that you can deal with the more difficult sides of her (the adventurous and always curious side), show her that you can relax too, in pajamas, watching movies and eating at home
Step 5. Be prepared to put in more effort
One minute Gemini can be emotionally distant and elusive, but loving and caring the next. It might sound a little mentally unstable, but this is just the nature of this zodiac sign. But for their partner, this can make them tremble. You have to put more effort into the relationship, sticking with the times when he's keeping his distance and there are times when he's ready to come back.
Remember: this is not about you. Even though he's very indecisive about being in a relationship, that doesn't mean he's unfaithful or unloving. Half of the reason why he's so unpredictable is because he wants to make sure when he wants to be in a relationship, it's a very viable and meaningful relationship
Part 3 of 3: Maintaining Relationships
Step 1. Make him guess
Gemini women need to be kept up-to-date. Since he is full of surprises, he wants a partner who can also surprise him. Tell him that you want to have dinner out when in fact what you are planning is a night at the planetarium. Bring him a song that you wrote for him but you've been keeping for a while. It's the little things like these that a Gemini really appreciates.
Make him guess your personality too. If you're not the type who likes to be outdoors, take him for a hike. If you're not a big fan of music, offer to go to the opera. If he thinks he can't guess you, you'll be able to make him guess
Step 2. Give him some space to himself
There is a very independent side to Gemini. He needs to be left alone for some time and given space to find his own adventure. Don't worry if this happens – he's not disengaging from you, he's just doing his own thing. And there's nothing wrong with that! He will come back, raving about all the experiences he wants to share with you.
If his freedom bothers you, open up communication about the matter. He'll love talking to you, knowing how you feel, and explaining his feelings. He will respect your concern and try to make you happy as best he can
Step 3. Be able to overcome jealousy
One thing about Gemini is that once he finally decides that he's going to commit to you openly, he can get a little jealous. He spends a lot of time deciding if you're worthy of a serious commitment, which is pretty scary for him. If he senses you're starting to let go, he may not be able to handle it well.
- Think of this as a declaration of love and not something that is burdensome. It means that he really cares about you and wants to make sure that you are his.
- But keep in mind, if you make him jealous on purpose, he'll know and probably won't tolerate it.
Step 4. Know when he needs attention and when he needs adventure
Once you get to know him, you'll probably be able to tell which side you're dealing with. Knowing what to expect and dealing with the changes appropriately can keep a relationship flowing healthily for a very long time. This way he will also feel safe in your arms.
Accepting the existence of these two dynamic personalities is the biggest challenge for any Gemini partner. Once you reach that point, the relationship will run smoothly
Tips
- Always be yourself when you're around a Gemini girl, you can be messy, clumsy, or sporty, etc. But remember to keep it clean and choose a good perfume.
- Maybe you just can't be the person he always wanted to be with or to have. You also have feelings, just like him, and sometimes you can get emotional too. When this happens to you, speak up! Tell him clearly why you are upset, happy, etc.
- Know that you can't hold a Gemini woman down when she's about to explode, but you can definitely calm her down by saying, "Do you want me around right now?" when she was about to cry. If he doesn't respond, just hold his hand/hug him for a moment and say, "It's okay, you'll be fine because I know you can. Just call if you need me." At that time you can leave him alone, if he really needs you he will contact you immediately. When he's angry just say, "Take it easy, sometimes things aren't as they seem… but trust me, I care about you. You can talk to me when you're calm." Leave him for a while and you can give him a cup of tea or ice cream.
- Remember that Geminis have a hard time opening up and sharing their emotions. Sometimes even when you are very close. Constantly asking questions will also annoy them more and they are less likely to tell you. Say something like, "Remember I'm not going to judge you so you're free to tell me whatever you want."
