Capricorn men are defined by their conscientiousness, work ethic, and slow to trust nature. When you break down that sometimes cold outer appearance, however, there is a man who is intelligent, passionate, and loyal waiting inside. See step 1 to learn how you can date a Capricorn guy.
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Part 1 of 2: Dating Your Capricorn
Step 1. Attend some formal career-oriented events
The first thing you need to know about the Capricorn man is that he will definitely be very driven. The best places to meet the perfect Capricorn man include formal work events, charity events, or career-boosting formal events. Capricorn men are dedicated to reaching the top of their industry, so you need to be mentally prepared for that and excelling at a formal career event will certainly help you to grab your Capricorn's attention.
Step 2. Lower your flashy style
Capricorn men are very quiet. Due to this, they tend to be attracted to couples who dress cool but in a more modest manner. Showing off your shiny heels and cut-out dress may not be a good way to attract your man. A classy look with a touch of femininity.
Step 3. Show your intelligence
Capricorn men are attracted to intelligence above all else. No matter what pretty clothes you wear or your incredibly pretty face, if you come across as stupid or rather stupid, your Capricorn may lose interest. In fact, show your intelligence by engaging him in some star-related conversations. However, stay calm and stay patient--don't laugh out loud if he makes a joke.
Don't be afraid to show some witty humor--Capricorns often have a humorous side that runs on a sarcastic side
Step 4. Earn his trust
Capricorns have a hard time opening up to other people. Before he lets you in, he has to know that he can trust you. Be honest and open with him but know that it will take him a little longer to share his personal stuff with you. Your Capricorn man will take his time, but with your help--showing you're supportive, showing that you can be trusted--he'll finally let you into his heart.
Be careful that you won't betray your Capricorn's trust, even if it's unintentional. When a Capricorn guy feels betrayed, he's generally very slow to let you back-even though he does
Step 5. Don't play mind games
One thing Capricorn men won't participate in is mind games on a relationship. If you like him, make it clear and then wait for him to come to you halfway. Don't try to make her jealous by showing off other men in front of her, acting passive aggressively, or playing 'hard to get'. With a Capricorn man, this will have the opposite effect as desired - he will move on quickly and without looking back.
Step 6. Invite him to a quiet night
The best way to recognize your Capricorn man and show him that you are the best, is to take the first step. Invite him to dinner, on a picnic, or to do something just the two of you. Inviting him to a large party will generally make him nervous, while inviting him to dinner will likely open him up. This is also your time to shine – bring out the topics you are passionate about and allow her to relax in uplifting conversation.
Step 7. Stay patient
Capricorn men are known for being friends with a woman before actually considering dating her. Due to this, your patience may be tested. When dating a Capricorn, don't push him or push him into anything. He will come to his own conclusions when you spend lots and lots of time with him. Keep his attention on you by showing him you support his efforts. Attending a fundraiser that she's involved in, reading an article she's written, or giving her a genuine compliment will show her that you can be a supportive partner.
Part 2 of 2: Keeping Your Relationship Active
Step 1. Trust your man
Capricorn men are known to take their love life-like their job-very seriously. Like Capricorn you may not be the cheating type. When he has fallen in love with you, he will try to keep your relationship going. While this may take a Capricorn man a little time to open up, when he has decided to be with you, know that you have a very loyal man by your side.
Step 2. Find out that he will be spending a few nights at the office
Capricorn is known as the workaholic in the zodiac. He took his job very seriously and would sometimes work overtime. Be prepared for this and know that this is not a sign that he is losing interest in your relationship. He really just takes his job seriously and wants to do the best he can.
Step 3. Keep drama to a minimum
Capricorn is looking for stability-he wants someone who is genuine and serious about the relationship. Hysterics and mind games will kill a Capricorn relationship. If he let you down, tell him what he did and why it let you down. Your Capricorn wants to make you happy and when you tell him directly what you need or what you don't like, he will do everything in his power to make sure he doesn't let you down in that way again.
Step 4. Stay supportive while also striving for your own goals
A Capricorn's idea of the perfect relationship is something that empowers both individuals. Support him in his endeavors as he would support yours. Since he's bound to push, you need to have your goals independent and the ideas you're working on. The best relationship with a Capricorn man is to be mutually supportive and independent.
Step 5. Play passion in the bedroom
While the Capricorn man may be quiet on a day-to-day basis, he can be a sudden passionate lover in the bedroom. Capricorns have an excellent attention to detail (one of the reasons they are great at the office) which also makes them great lovers. Find his passion with your passion.
In any case, keep in mind that Capricorn is a bit stodgy-he's most likely not interested in role-playing, massaging massages, or anything else on the kinkier side of the bedroom spectrum
Step 6. Know that your Capricorn isn't a fan of big parties
This means throwing him a birthday party might not be a good idea. Once you've learned when to grab his attention, Capricorn only chooses a group of close friends and family. They take their time before letting other people get into the limits of their trust. For this reason, a night out to his favorite drinking place with a group of his close friends or a night at home with you, is more preferable to him than dancing in a crowded club or going to a party where he doesn't know a lot of people. br>
Your Capricorn guy will really appreciate it if you can take the lead in social areas that he's uncomfortable with. Having the ability to socialize is a great treasure for a Capricorn
Step 7. Buy him a simple, practical gift
Capricorn men like functional items that are especially unobtrusive. Instead of buying him a $2,000 watch filled with rhinestones, think of something like a Swiss Army knife or a backyard barbecue grill he loves.
Step 8. Keep the PDA to a minimum
PDA (public displays of affection) isn't really what a Capricorn wants. While holding hands may still be possible (he may prefer to hold hands due to his protective nature) making out in the middle of a busy street might make him feel a little uneasy. Capricorns don't really like letting her private life become public knowledge, so you need to think twice before holding her by the collar and giving her a kiss in public.
This also applies to gossiping about your Capricorn. These men are very private. If he gets the information that you've revealed the secret of your relationship to everyone who will listen, he will feel betrayed or lose trust in you. Only discuss your love life with friends you can trust
Tips
- Be patient. Most Capricorn men don't fall in love very quickly. They have to recognize you as a friend first.
- Always best behaved. Capricorns are a bit old-fashioned and they won't be attracted to people who burp in public and act like slackers.
