How to Be a Wise Young Woman: 12 Steps (with Pictures)

2024 Author: Jason Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 10:50

Want to be a wise and valued young woman? Whatever your background and education, all young women can become wise women by taking the following steps.

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Step 1. Be grateful for what you have

Don't be disappointed that you're not tall enough or that your eyes are green instead of the blue you'd like them to be. Learn to respect and accept yourself as you are.

• Clean the body twice a day. Don't forget to wash your face and apply moisturizer every morning and night before going to bed. Get in the habit of bathing at least twice a day and don't forget to shave your legs and armpits. Prepare a large towel to dry your body and hair, a kimono from a towel, and a foot mat. Place a foot mat on the floor in front of the bathroom door, a kimono from a towel near the bathroom, and a large towel in the bathroom. After every shower, take everything out and hang it neatly to dry faster.

  

• Take care of your nails regularly. Don't scrape your nails or let the nail polish flake off. Don't let your nails grow too long. When trimming your nails, make sure the tops of the white nails are the same width. To keep your nails well-groomed, trim them regularly and apply a nail polish remover if the polish starts to peel off.

  

• Treat your hair regularly to keep it neat and healthy. Don't dye your hair an unnatural color. If you want to change your hair color, don't let the original color show at the roots. Whatever your hairstyle, get used to appearing with clean and neat hair according to the situation. For example, tying your hair with an elastic band makes you feel more comfortable while exercising, but for a formal event, your hair should be neatly styled. Hair doesn't need to be curled or straightened, but that's fine if you want. Make sure you wash your hair regularly so it doesn't get greasy so you look more attractive!

  

• For the day, make up your face with natural makeup. Moisturizers and tinted foundations are especially beneficial for acne-free skin. For oily skin with acne, use a powder foundation that contains a small amount of minerals. Apply a blemish mask according to your skin tone to cover up annoying acne scars. However, don't apply too much of the concealer, because you don't sound wise if your face looks like a cake with cream. Heavy makeup should only be used for evening events including dark red lipstick or other dark colors. If you apply thick enough makeup, don't apply dark red lipstick. Select one.

  

• Choose the most appropriate perfume. Choose a classic scent that is refreshing for everyday activities and an elegant scent for traveling, but don't choose a perfume that makes you feel insecure.

  

• Eyebrows are one of the most expressive parts of the face and should be treated as well as possible. Don't pluck your eyebrows too much. Teeth are also very important, but often overlooked. Get in the habit of brushing and flossing between your teeth at least twice a day. Use mouthwash to keep your teeth clean and healthy.

  

• Whatever your skin color, don't forget to apply sunscreen if you're going to be exposed to the sun and take care of your skin's natural beauty. Besides being unhealthy, tanning or sunbathing so that the skin color becomes tanned makes the skin look rough when it starts to peel.

  

• If your skin tone becomes darker after a while in the sun, be aware because invisible dark lines are just as bad as sunburned skin and they should be avoided.

Step 2. Find out which fashion style suits you best

You are free to wear clothes with colors and textures that make you look attractive, but choose clothes that suit the atmosphere. Dressing is not just wearing clean and neat clothes, but must be harmonious and not eccentric. When buying clothes, prioritize quality. Determine the style of dress that suits your personality. Remember that 'girly' clothes are different from 'feminine' looks. You'll look 'girly' when you wear shorts, but it's wise to wear a skirt. When hanging out with friends, a girl will appear as a wise young woman if she wears a polite skirt, while her friends wear jeans.

Step 3. Remember that wise women should not scratch, burp and sneeze in public

If the skin feels itchy, rub gently, do not scratch. If you want to burp, try to suppress it or do it silently because for many people this is considered disgusting. Carry a handkerchief in your bag when you travel. Don't sneeze anywhere like a child. If you feel like sneezing, try to close your lips to let the air flow through your nose and stop immediately. How to deal with sweat? Sweating is a natural process that occurs in the human body and can be controlled. Bring a skin freshener, deodorant, or perfume to get rid of unpleasant body odors after a workout. People who smell sweat will be shunned, both young and old!

When eating soup, do not inhale or sip because this is considered impolite. Put the spoon to your mouth and drink the soup without making a sound

Step 4. Remember that knowledge is a source of power

In order to be a wise young woman, you need to read quality written works. Read the writings of Jane Austen, George Orwell, Shakespeare, Bronte, Dickens, Oscar Wilde, Henry James, and Virginia Woolf for they are great figures worth emulating. Start reading the classics and try to understand them. Many websites provide information about the book. Although it is difficult to understand, one day you will understand the contents.

• Read at least two newspapers every day. Try to find out what is going on around you from different perspectives.

  

• Try to expand your knowledge of music and the arts as they are very beneficial. Don't just listen to local radio broadcasts. Be adventurous and discover new things. Listen to classical and renaissance music that is very rich with historical and cultural aspects.

  

• Don't waste time accessing websites too often and be careful. If the program is installed without parental control, ask your parents to make security settings on the application or program on your cellphone and computer so that you are protected.

• If you are still in school, prioritize time for studying and doing homework. Learn as much as you can about the things you are good at and love. However, try to get the best marks in all subjects and cultivate an interest in the things you don't like. Don't pretend to understand what you don't know because one day the truth will be revealed in a very embarrassing way.

  

Step 5. Determine the principles of life and apply them well

You must always adhere to the code of ethics because being a wise woman means being able to be yourself, embody the values of your beliefs, and take care of your appearance. Show trust and respect for your parents. Don't tell your friends what you complain about your parents. You have to change your lifestyle in order to become a wise young woman. They will be happy to support you.

• Don't come home too late because you have to get a good night's sleep and wake up in the morning feeling fit. Make a sleep schedule that is mutually agreed upon between you and your parents and then ask them to supervise its implementation even if you don't like it.
• You can date, but don't have sex before marriage. Women who have free sex are not wise women.
• Don't do illegal things, take drugs, smoke, or drink alcohol.

Step 6. Do activities according to hobbies, such as exercising or playing music

This activity makes you more attractive and a talented person. People who have hobbies will usually be more attractive because they seem diligent, always want to develop themselves, and are diligent.

Step 7. Help young children and the elderly

In addition to doing good, take this opportunity to share love with everyone and be an example to others. Volunteering and charity work can provide insight into understanding others, acquiring skills, and making changes.

Step 8. Pay attention to how you speak

Try to pronounce all the letters clearly. Do not speak harsh or abusive words. Don't abbreviate words and say words that you don't understand. Take a moment to think before speaking. Set the tempo of speaking so that it is neither too fast nor too slow.

Choose the right and clear words. Speak calmly, clearly, and clearly. Don't let your words sound like you're bragging. Get used to speaking in a voice that is sweet, pleasant to hear, soft, and happy so that your voice captivates hearts like a beautiful flower

Step 9. Be polite

You must have good social skills in order to be a wise and charming young woman. Greet others with a smile, shake hands firmly and confidently, or hug them according to local customs, circumstances and culture. If you made a mistake, apologize. If the other person has wronged you and apologized, forgive the mistake. Respond to written communications with others, make reservations on time, respond to letters or emails that require an answer. Don't look for a boyfriend just because you want to date. Don't flaunt your prowess for people to see. Do not lower moral standards for the sake of others. Be a woman who can respect yourself. Give other people a chance to tell you about yourself so you can get to know them better. Many people enjoy doing this. Listen to what he has to say even if you are not interested in the topic at hand. Learn how to divert the conversation to deal with boredom/awkwardness. However, this will not happen if you are able to focus your attention on the interlocutor. Don't forget to say "Please" and "Thank you". This habit is very useful, but is increasingly being neglected in everyday life.

Step 10. Take care of your health

Good health makes skin glow. This can not be provided by beauty products. Get in the habit of sleeping at least 8 hours a night, exercising, adopting a healthy diet, eating fruits and vegetables every day. Drinking 8 glasses of water a day is very beneficial for the skin. Don't smoke because this bad habit causes various diseases so you can't be a wise beautiful woman. Don't drink alcohol. Do regular health checks and consult a doctor so that you stay healthy.

Step 11. Respect yourself so that others can and will respect you

Step 12. Don't hesitate to say something nice to others

You don't know the response that will be given.

Tips

• Don't say rude words. Speak well and correctly. Choose the right words and pronounce them with good articulation.
• Learn to listen attentively. Listen carefully before speaking.
• Don't stop loving yourself by continuing to learn and develop yourself.
• Respect other people's opinions.
• Provide assistance to family members.
• Get in the habit of keeping things tidy and doing activities according to schedule.
• Be respectful of elders and obey the rules.
• Wearing makeup is not a must to be a wise young woman, but you have to take good care of your skin.
• Get in the habit of carrying a handkerchief.
• Don't seek attention.