When you go shopping, to school, to sports, to concerts, and more, do you see the girls you want to know more about? Here are the steps that will help you attract the attention of the girls.
Step
Method 1 of 2: Be a Cool Guy
Step 1. Build self-esteem and self-confidence
Self-confidence and self-worth are very attractive qualities. Girls will fall in love with a guy who believes in himself and the things he can do. Do things that will boost your confidence like volunteering, learning a new skill, or traveling.
- You can increase your self-confidence by volunteering for an organization like the Humanitarian House. This will give you the opportunity to prove to everyone that you can do something and make a difference.
- You can also boost your self-confidence by learning new skills, such as other languages. This can be done easily and for free online to websites like Livemocha.
Step 2. Don't compare yourself to others
It won't make you feel any better. You can only be yourself and this is a good thing! Show the world how great you are and stop trying to be someone else's greatness.
Don't try to act like anyone other than yourself. Girls will notice if you try hard and imitate someone, and they won't be interested. Acting like a delinquent when you grew up in a wealthy suburb? Sorry, copycat. He will notice. Be yourself and be happy with yourself. Girls will find it attractive
Step 3. Take care of yourself and your appearance
Do not neglect the cleanliness of your body or wardrobe. Why should a girl like you if you don't even like yourself to the point of not taking care of your own body? Wash your hair and shower regularly, apply deodorant, wear clothes that don't have holes or stains, and brush your teeth.
- Don't worry about wearing clothes with well-known brands. He'll pay more attention to if your clothes are appropriate for you and are in color, which will make you look great, than the brand name stamped on your chest.
- Of course, don't overdo it. Gel in your hair is a great idea, but not too wet and too hard as a rock, right?
Step 4. Make yourself approachable
Don't look angry, upset, and anything else that makes you unpleasant to talk to. If you look angry at him every time you talk to him, why would he want to talk to you, let alone date you? Smile, be friendly, and try to make yourself easy to talk to.
Step 5. Be a great person
Be someone the girls want to date. You don't have to be smart but at least try to be knowledgeable and curious. Be a good person who strives to improve the lives of those around you. And do something with your life. This part is very important. Get out there and work to make your life better.
- You can be more knowledgeable by reading things that interest you. Did you know that there are many books on the development of weapons like swords? Books about the alleged way dinosaurs killed their prey? Yes, time to read.
- Think about your dream. What do you want for your life? What is the most interesting thing for you? Showing what you like is very attractive to girls: they want to think that you will love them as much as you love…baseball or whatever.
Method 2 of 2: Make Her Happy
Step 1. Get to know him
Talk to him and listen to him. Ask about his family and the city he grew up in, his religion and politics, and the things he enjoys doing. Don't be critical or harsh with the answers: they are their own, not yours! Respect his ideas, opinions and beliefs. Girls like it when you treat them like everyone else. If you want girls to be attracted to you, respecting them like everyone else is a great place to start.
For example, ask him what his favorite hobby is, then ask him how he started that hobby. It's a great way to talk about the city and the way he grew up, his family, etc
Step 2. Find common ground within yourself
He likes Metallica…you like Metallica….. Nah! You guys have something to talk about! Ask him about the music he listens to, the movies he watches, and the things he does in his spare time. Find something in common and you'll get to know each other better and build a relationship.
Step 3. Be a good friend
We do not guarantee that you will not enter the friend zone. But being his friend and showing that he's a fun person is the best way to get his attention. Show him that you enjoy being with him and notice how happy you are with him.
Support her when she's having a bad day, help her forget her problems, be there when she needs help, and listen to her when she's talking
Step 4. Don't scare him
Don't look at him then avoid eye contact. Don't go around it, but never say anything. Don't look….parts of her body (even though it's tempting). Don't make weird sexual gestures if you don't know him well and don't use other people's words. Things like this will scare him and make you look less attractive.
Tips
- Know that "getting attention" is only part of a relationship.
- Girls like guys who understand them, listening is very important.
- Compliment her appearance and she will feel confident.
- Understand his thoughts and you will know how to interact with him.
- Always be kind, friendly, and respect his ideas and feelings.
- Don't text or do anything else while talking to her. However, give him 100% of your attention and always interact only with him.
- Jokes and taunts are a lot of fun when you know what to laugh at. So be careful and don't overdo it. Some girls love to mock! Just make sure not to cross the line and be mean and over the top.
- Don't use too much fragrance.
- Understand her feelings and don't show off in front of her or she will notice it and her feelings will change.
- Don't fight with other "interesting" friends.
