So you have a crush on a woman and want to get her attention. One way to get his attention today is through Facebook. Follow the easy steps below to make a good impression, get him to like you, and get the "thumbs up" out of him.
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Part 1 of 3: Preparing to Get Started
Step 1. Master your selfie skills
If you want to try to get a woman to like you on Facebook, first you need to have a good profile photo - it will be the first visual impression that woman will get of you.
- Use a profile photo that shows your face. If a woman doesn't know you well, she will see your face first and get a certain feeling about you.
- Instead of using an abstract profile photo, use a profile photo with a clear face, and it's best if you're smiling, well-dressed, or looking good in the photo.
- Don't over-pose mirror selfies; lest you be mistaken for a person with high narcissism.
- Make sure that the photo used is a high-resolution photo that is well cropped. A photo that is pixelated (pixelated) by half your face will not look good.
- Save your other photos - for example photos taken more than a year ago, baby photos, and photos with other people - for your other albums.
Step 2. Choose a cool cover photo
The cover photo on your profile page is an important complement to your profile photo and is also a great place for you to show off your personality.
- Some examples that you can consider for example by adjusting a suitable cover photo or complementing a profile photo. Or, you can also use the cover photo space to showcase photos of the artwork you really admire.
- Even if you have to be alone in your profile photo, you can use a photo with a group of people as your cover photo. If you have a friend in common with your crush, then take a picture with that same friend and post the picture on Facebook. This way, the woman you have a crush on can see that you're hanging out with people she enjoys hanging out with too.
Step 3. Update your personal information
Take the time to ensure that the information contained in the "about" section of your profile page is up to date.
- Fill in the information completely and fill in almost all sections, including birthdays, school, work, and so on.
- Make sure that you fill in the "interested in" and "relationship status" fields. Make yourself visible to your crush by showing that you're attracted to women and don't have a partner yet.
Step 4. Prepare a strategy for the things you "like" and are interested in
If you can see what the woman likes, imitate some of the things she finds attractive and she likes by liking those things too.
- If you and the girl share common interests, it will be easier for you to start a conversation with her, so knowing what she likes before you start a conversation is important.
- Ideally, you and the woman should have some natural interests in common, but there's nothing wrong with adding some of her favorite bands, TV shows, movies, books, or restaurants to your to-do list.
Step 5. Write down something interesting
You'll have a better chance of impressing a woman and liking you if you seem like an attractive person.
- One way to look cool is to fill your activity wall with interesting content, like funny status updates and interesting news, or photos of fun things you do. Photos are the most eye-catching and captivating of the many other things you can post on your profile wall, and they're also the ones that have the greatest chance of attracting the attention of the woman you like.
- Limit writing about daily activities such as about school or studying for exam preparation, and try to write only one thing a day so you don't look like a Facebook or internet addict.
- Respond to things that are interesting and cool, and make sure that they appear on your profile wall. Make yourself like a fun person and do lots of interesting things.
- Trick Facebook's newest algorithm, the EdgeRank algorithm, by writing content (usually photos) that you know will get a lot of "likes" from people, so you can ensure that your posts appear in that woman's news feed.
Step 6. Try to tamper with the security settings
Try to tighten security settings so you can hide certain things that might be embarrassing or unkind when you're trying to get someone to like you on Facebook.
- Try turning off the photo tagging feature, even if only temporarily so you can control what types of photos your friends can send.
- Also be aware of the things that other people can write on your page. Block out anything that could make you look bad in the eyes of the woman you want to impress.
Part 2 of 3: Starting a Conversation with the Woman Crush
Step 1. Send a friend request
If you're not friends with them yet, you should start by forming a friendship relationship. Don't add a message at this stage and wait for it to accept your request.
- When he responds, start approaching him with the fact that you both have the same friends, go to the same school, or live in the same city. Use one of these reasons to get to know him better.
- If he asks why you're friends with him, be honest! Even if you're asking her out just because you like her profile picture, let her know and ask if you can chat with her online and get to know her better. There's a good chance he'll be flattered and interested in getting to know you better too.
- Do it easily and simply. Don't press him to give you a phone number or look like he's in a hurry. You're still in the introduction stage, so don't scare him by being overly aggressive or overt.
Step 2. Start chatting with him
It would be ideal if you start the conversation in a private message, so he won't feel too pressured in public.
- Take some time to think about the first message you will send; Having a good introductory comment is better than just saying "hi" out of the blue.
- For example, if there is a certain event or something that just happened at school, ask her opinion about it; or, if his favorite show just aired, ask him if he watched it and use it to start a chat.
Step 3. Keep chatting
Communicating through messages is a great way to test compatibility between the two of you and get him to like you when you meet him in person.
- Try to bring a new topic in each message to keep the conversation going.
- Wait a moment before replying to a message so you don't look like someone who is really desperate to keep answering as soon as possible. Limit message replies to once a day to build anticipation.
- Talk about him in the chat. Don't let the conversation get too one-sided by only talking about yourself. Make sure that you make him feel that you also want to get to know him better.
- After you've exchanged messages for a while, ask if you can chat with them via Instant Messenger on Facebook. This way, the two of you will have a live chat, similar to "real life".
Part 3 of 3: Moving on to the Next Stage
Step 1. Post the writing to the woman's wall
Submit thoughtful pictures or things that match his interests. For example, if he likes cats, send him a cute cat sticker.
Step 2. Keep your writing clean
Do not write obscene words or inappropriate jokes on the wall.
- Research has proven that telling and reading jokes through communication on the internet can be difficult. Because of this, it's best if you don't try to use too many jokes that could be misinterpreted as offensive or inappropriate.
- Politics and religion can be great topics to talk about, but they shouldn't be discussed when you're just trying to get to know someone and trying to get him to like you. Leave topics that could cause disagreements for later.
Step 3. Like the things written by him
Make sure you're always up to date with what he writes and give some thumbs up (the "like" expression on Facebook) for some of his posts.
- Leave genuine, complimenting comments, especially when he posts a picture of himself.
- However, don't overdo it and send "likes" for every post. Don't make yourself look too obsessed with him.
Step 4. Send out the invitation
Use the invite feature to let him know what's going on; it's a way to invite him to go out with you without having to muster up the courage to ask him out on a "date." That will be the next step once you're ready to meet him off Facebook!
