The first kiss can be fun, but it can also be scary if you don't feel ready. Everyone has a different style of kissing, just as everyone has a different style of speaking. There are people who kiss slowly and enjoy every moment. There are other people who like to kiss with a stronger and more intense. You'll know which style of kissing works best once you get used to it. The message of this is that while you can practice kissing a hand or an object, there is no real substitute for practicing with someone else. And it's definitely a lot more fun! Here are some easy ways to practice kissing techniques.
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Method 1 of 3: Using Hand Techniques
Step 1. Bend your left hand loosely as if to make an "O" shape
The thumb is on top of the index finger nail.
Step 2. Slide your right thumb into your left open hand
When each thumb is bent at the second joint, the thumbs will align and resemble a pair of lips.
Step 3. Place the mouth gently on the thumb
Practice kissing gently on the shape of your "thumb lip."
Step 4. Experiment with the tongue
Try to lick it along the thumb and around the inner tip. Gently press it between your thumbs.
Step 5. Practice kissing both gently and with pressure
Try to apply enough pressure that feels right.
Method 2 of 3: Practice with Fruits
Step 1. Look for soft, ripe fruits, such as plums, apricots, and mangoes
These fruits are soft and taste good.
Step 2. Bite slightly to form a small mouth-sized hole in the fruit
Step 3. Use this part of the fruit as a "mouth" that will be used to practice kissing
Step 4. Gently kiss the "mouth" of the fruit
Try to do it rhythmically. Kiss the top of the "mouth," then the bottom of the "mouth." And you better not eat your kissing partner.
Step 5. Use your tongue by pressing gently into the flesh of the fruit
Remember not to use your tongue all the time. Of course you don't want to overdo it with your tongue.
Method 3 of 3: Practice with Others
Step 1. Find someone you don't mind kissing
If you want your first kiss to be special, choose the person you feel will make it the most special. If you're worried that your kissing technique isn't that great, choose someone you won't be too embarrassed to do. And stop worrying about it! Kissing feels good once you get used to it.
- There's nothing quite like kissing someone real and alive. A human will respond to your lips in a way that is not the same as when you practice using your hands or a fruit.
- Kissing is natural for humans. That's why we do it! Practicing kissing before a real kiss is like practicing riding a bicycle on a seesaw. This actually doesn't really prepare you for the real thing. You will be good at cycling by riding a bicycle, just as you will be good at kissing by kissing someone else.
Step 2. Ask the other person casually or do it right away
If you're a girl, you might be able to go straight to a guy friend and ask him if he wants to kiss you. Or you can develop a friendship with him and if it develops into a stronger relationship, kiss him when the two of you are close together. If you are a man, things will be more difficult for you. Look for a good opportunity to kiss someone:
- Kiss someone you think is interested in you. It can be hard to know this sometimes, but if you know that someone likes or dislikes you, put that information to good use.
- Begin your efforts to kiss. Start kissing first by flirting. Gently touch the person's shoulder when you talk to them, compliment their eyes, or look longingly into their eyes.
- Get physically close to him. It will seem odd if you are a meter and a half away when you move closer for a kiss. Approach him. Even if necessary, place your arm around his waist if all the signs you receive are "yes"!
Step 3. Make sure your lips are ready for action
You want your lips to be limp, soft and smooth before kissing. Use lip balm regularly before kissing to prevent dry and chapped lips that can interfere with kissing.
- Don't apply lip gloss before kissing. Lip gloss can be sticky, glossy, and sweet. You don't want the stickiness, your partner doesn't need the gloss, and you don't need the sweetness. Because your lips are sweet enough!
- Don't apply lipstick before kissing. Lipstick may look good, but it is usually used by older women. Lipstick can smudge when you kiss, which can leave marks on your kissing partner.
Step 4. Make sure your breath smells fresh
If you can brush your teeth right before kissing, take the opportunity. If not, eat some mint candy. Avoid onions, garlic, and other strong-smelling foods right before smelling.
Step 5. Get closer to your partner
Signal your partner to get ready for a kiss by moving very close, close proximity that is barely comfortable. If your partner is moving backwards, he or she isn't ready to kiss yet. If your partner stays where he is or moves closer, you're doing the right thing.
Step 6. Make and maintain eye contact until kissing
This is important. Set his gaze with your eyes. Eyes are powerful, and can convey many things that our voices cannot.
- When moving closer to kiss, keep your eyes on his mouth. You want your mouth to land on his, so use your eyes if you don't want to land wrong.
- After the lips touch each other, close your eyes. We don't know why, but it feels weird for someone to look at you when you kiss them. Better close your eyes.
Step 7. Kiss at a slightly angled angle
If you try to kiss your partner in a straight line, your nose will get in the way and your lips won't meet. It's better to tilt your head left or right a little so that your nose doesn't interfere with the action your lips are trying to do!
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If sitting next to him, the side of your seat will determine which way you should tilt your head:
- If you're sitting to his left, it's best to tilt your head to the left.
- If you're sitting to his right, it's best to tilt your head to the right.
Step 8. Have a long, first kiss
The first time you kiss, keep your lips locked for a few seconds, unless your partner opens his lips and starts kissing more quickly. If the first kiss lasts a long time, you will shake off any nervousness and prepare the way for the next few kisses.
Step 9. Kiss your partner's upper and lower lips
Certainly not at the same time. Start by kissing your partner's lower lip gently for a few times. Then move it to his upper lip.
- Do it gently. Your partner will love it, even if your heart is pounding in your chest. Also, it will make the kiss feel more sensual.
- Do it responsively. Responsive means responding to what your partner is doing. A kiss is like a dance: you have to move according to your partner's movements.
- Do it slowly rather than fast. Bad kissers will try to kiss in a hurry, kissing at a very fast pace. Take it slow, enjoy every movement of your lips, and remember to close your eyes!
Step 10. Save "French kiss" for the last moment
Unless you are a girl and want to French kiss, save it for the last moment. Unfortunately, the girl must decide. If you are a guy and try to French kiss on the first kiss, you are taking a risk to spoil the mood and the kiss.
Tips
- If you're practicing by hand, smell it when you're done. If it smells bad, correct the smell of your breath. Try to brush your teeth more often, eat mint candy, use dental floss (dental floss), and drink more water.
- The actual kiss will feel much different, but the basic movement will be the same.
- The key is to start slowly and gently while increasing the pressure slowly.
- Make sure you have a private place to practice.
- You may not notice it because fruit can't complain, but avoid hitting your teeth!
- Follow the movements of your kissing partner. If you're bored, try something different.
