Are you attracted to someone, but he just ignores you? Being ignored by the person you like isn't fun, but there are lots of things you can do to get their attention. Start with some subtle ways with body language to get his attention, and move on to other ways to get him to fall in love with you.
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Method 1 of 13: Smile
Step 1. Giving a small smile can make him notice you from across the room
Guys will find you more attractive when you smile. Get his attention by smiling every time you meet him. He will assume that you are in a good mood and that you are approachable. So, he will be more interested in chatting with you.
Method 2 of 13: Look into her eyes
Step 1. By looking into his eyes for a while, it shows that you are interested
Whether you're across the room or running into him, try to look him in the eye, even if only for a moment. When you meet her eyes, give her a small smile before looking away. A moment's eye contact is enough to get him attracted to you.
However, do not stare at him for too long because it can make him uncomfortable. A quick glance is often enough to make him understand that you want him to talk to you
Method 3 of 13: Raise your eyebrows at him
Step 1. Use these quick gestures to show that you're paying attention
If you make eye contact with him from across the room, raise your eyebrows for a split second, then lower them back down. Since this gesture is a form of acknowledgment, he may find a way to get to know you and be encouraged to chat with you.
Some guys feel nervous about approaching someone if he feels the girl is not interested in him. With this gesture, the guy will know that you are open to having a conversation
Method 4 of 13: Play with hair or jewelry
Step 1. This will let him know that you are open and not averse to having a conversation
Try wrapping your hair around your fingers, combing your hair with your fingers, or gently stroking the necklace (or bracelet). You will appear flirtatious and fun to the guy, especially if you do this while looking him in the eye.
Method 5 of 13: Practice good posture
Step 1. Boost your confidence and attractiveness with this simple trick
Keep your shoulders relaxed and look straight ahead. Keep your back straight so you look more confident in your appearance. The guy you like will probably notice a slight change in your appearance and tend to want to talk to you.
Be careful not to give the impression that you are closing yourself off. Don't cross your arms and legs, or lean away from the guy
Method 6 of 13: Wear something red
Step 1. Research shows that men are more attracted to women who wear something red
Buy a red top or accessory so you can wear it when you're around a guy you like. Since this color represents warm and positive feelings, he may be more willing to talk to you and ask you out.
You can also accentuate your lips by wearing red lipstick
Method 7 of 13: Show some skin
Step 1. Showing off your neck and shoulders can attract the guy's attention and make him want to get closer to you
Wear tops that show off your shoulders or dress with a low neckline to expose your skin more. Some good options are body slimming dumbbells and tube tops. If you're a guy, try wearing clothes that show off your sleeves or have a long V-neck. This sexy and confident look can subconsciously attract guys without making you look like you need his attention.
- When you're at school, make sure to dress according to the rules so you don't get into trouble.
- Wear a necklace to draw the guy's attention to the curve of your neck (the little curve above your collarbone).
Method 8 of 13: Use perfume or cologne
Step 1. Use a unique scent to make him remember you every time he smells it
Look for perfumes or colognes that are fragrant and soft, and use them when you go out. Choose a scent that no one else has used to make you stand out. Every time the guy smells the perfume, he will remember you and make him want to talk to you.
Don't use strong or strong fragrances as they can give the guy a headache
Method 9 of 13: Touch him
Step 1. Give her a subtle touch to let her know that you like her
Make the touch look like it was accidental. You could accidentally touch his hand on his leg while walking past him, or accidentally bump into him while walking into class. This physical contact can be used as an excuse to have a conversation with him.
Be careful not to be too flashy when you bump into him because he can spot it and think you're trying too hard
Method 10 of 13: Hang out with other people
Step 1. You will look more attractive when surrounded by several friends
When around a guy you like, try to hang out with at least 1 or 2 friends. It doesn't matter if you hang out with boy or girl friends. If he sees you in a small group, he's more likely to be attracted to you than if you were alone.
Once you get to know him better, you can step out of the crowd to spend time with him
Method 11 of 13: Ask questions
Step 1. Break the ice by asking fun questions to start a conversation
Try asking things that are related to the two of you. Ask questions that require active answers, not "yes" or "no" answers to encourage the guy to talk more. Each time he answers, give a response that expresses your feelings so he can get to know you better.
- For example, if you're interested in someone at a cafe, try asking, "Hi, what kind of drink brought you to this cafe?"
- If you were at school, you might be able to ask, "What did you think about the math test earlier?"
Method 12 of 13: Give praise
Step 1. Saying something nice will show that you want to chat with him further
Point out the little things in her appearance and tell her. Even saying something quick and fleeting can make him feel better and encourage the guy to say something nice in return.
- For example, you could say, “Wow, that pin you're wearing is beautiful!”, or “Your shoes are so cool.”
- Try to accompany the compliment with a question that keeps him talking. For example, you could say, “Your t-shirt is really cool. Where did you buy it?”
Method 13 of 13: Try ignoring it
Step 1. Let him chase you if he doesn't respond to your attempts to approach him
Sometimes a guy will act like he's not interested if you go after him. In return, do exactly as he did to you. Whenever you pass him, don't look or pay attention to him. In no time, maybe he will come after you.
By ignoring him, you can distance yourself from him a little and can forget about him if it turns out that he's not interested in you
Warning
- Don't try too hard to get his attention, and don't give up easily either. This can make the guy unmotivated.
- If he keeps ignoring you after you've tried everything, he probably isn't really interested in you. Remember, you can't control his feelings so it's better you forget about him and find another guy.
