Bad boys are known for their free spirit, cool looks, and cigarettes and leather ornaments on their clothes. Some of them don't look like this and are categorized as "naughty" in unusual ways, such as believing that government is not needed and being experts in graffiti art. Whichever bad guy you like, the key to getting his attention is to stay supportive of him and impress him with your confidence.
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Part 1 of 3: Make eye contact with him
Step 1. Make eye contact-then look away
If you want to attract a bad boy, you have to show interest before making him see that you have to do something else. Stare at her for 2 seconds-try to stare at her from head to toe for a sexy effect-then look away. Look at him long enough to impress him but not so long that he feels you want to find out if he likes you or not.
- Bad boys like girls who sell high. They don't want a girl who is instantly infatuated with them or instantly attached to them.
- Once he notices you, turn your face away. That way you will provide an incentive for him to pursue you. Of course, you can also start the approach first.
Step 2. Look glaringly in his eyes
Bad boys don't look for girls who blend in with their surroundings. They look for girls who don't blend in with their surroundings, girls who make them look at them twice, and who don't look, act, or look like other girls. If you have a unique fashion sense, stick to your taste. If you have an unusual laugh, don't hide it. If you like to draw, play the harmonica, or practice karate, let him see what you love to do and don't feel embarrassed about it.
Bad guys want girls who know themselves. If you look like someone else and there's nothing special about you, he won't be impressed. If you stand out, even if it means you're not like most other girls, he'll like you more
Step 3. Don't feel intimidated
Most girls feel intimidated by bad boys because they think bad boys are too cool to hang out with. If you want to attract the attention of one of them, the best thing you can do is show that you are not afraid of them. Think of it like a duel with a bear or a lion; when you show fear, your life will end. If he approaches you, don't back down and stand taller. If he tries to interrupt you, let him know that you're not done talking and say what you want to say.
Bad boys are used to girls not following their will. If you're willing to go against him and let him see you as his equal, he'll be impressed
Step 4. Focus on your own business
Bad boys don't like girls who do whatever other people do. Just because all your friends are taking art classes, take an automotive class if that's what you're interested in. If all your friends love Raisa, be proud of your liking for SLANK or more indie bands like The S. I. G. I. T. If a lot of people are waiting in line to watch the latest Aliando Syarif movie, watch the indie film you want to watch.
While you shouldn't be weird or different just because you want to be different, if there's something different you want to do, feel free to do it
Step 5. Ignore it a bit
Bad boys don't want girls who are crazy about him. Instead, they're looking for girls who sell for high prices. If you start talking to him and the conversation goes well, you don't have to run over and hug him the next time you see him. You can wait a few minutes for him to come up to you and make him try to get to you. If he texts you or asks you to chat, wait a few minutes before replying. Let him see that you are busy and not waiting for him to talk to you. That way, he will want to talk to you more and more in person.
- Of course, you have to be careful and make sure you don't ignore him so much that he thinks you're not interested. Find a balance between looking interested and making him try to get to you.
- You don't have to be rude to do this. If he walks over and greets you, you shouldn't ignore him, but if he passes you, you shouldn't look like you've been waiting for him to come and have been looking for him for hours.
Step 6. Show that you are hard to come by
Bad boys like girls who sell high. If he thinks he can have you whenever he wants, he won't want to try to get you. So let him know that you like him by flirting a little or giving him a little compliment, but don't do it all at once. Let him show his feelings before you do, and don't accept every offer he offers; make sure he asks you out a week in advance so he doesn't think your schedule is empty and knows he has to make an effort to get your time and attention.
If he calls, don't answer in one ring. In fact, wait about an hour or two to call him back. If he texts you, wait at least half an hour to reply. Don't make him feel like you're just sitting there waiting to hear from him
Step 7. Don't think about what your friends think
Bad boys don't like girls who depend too much on their friends and care too much about their opinions. If you want to start a relationship with a bad guy, don't hang out with your friends until you get to know the guy better. You should also avoid saying things like, “my friend said…” when you are talking about your relationship, because he will feel that your friends are too much of a personal thing. In the end, bad boys want to get a girl who has a personal opinion.
Don't let your friends talk to the bad guy on your behalf. If you want to win a bad guy's heart, you'll have to do it yourself
Part 2 of 3: Keeping the Naughty Guy
Step 1. Surprise him with your confidence
Real bad boys don't want girls who can be ruled over. They want a girl who is confident enough to live independently and believe in her relationship without questioning her every two seconds. If you want to maintain a relationship with a bad guy, you have to impress him with your confidence, show that you are happy with how you look, who you are, and your job. Try to project positive energy that shows that you accept yourself and don't need other people's opinions.
- Focus on the positive and talk about things that make you happy instead of complaining about things that aren't perfect.
- Don't talk about other girls because it will make you look insecure. Instead, compliment the girls and the bad boy will surely be impressed.
- Don't seek the approval of others. Don't think you're beautiful, smart, or attractive just when he says it.
Step 2. Take control of the relationship
To keep a bad guy interested, you have to take charge of the relationship. Don't let him keep calling you, setting the date and time, or calling first. Show that you know what you want and that you don't want to go on a date without a plan because you already have other plans; don't let him take you out to a motorcycle race if you want to have dinner, and don't let him think he has complete control over you because he'll lose interest quickly.
You don't have to take over in every situation because he will get tired of you, but you should take over as much as he does
Step 3. Be a tough girl
A bad guy wants a girl with a thick face and he doesn't want to worry too much about whether he's hurting your feelings or not. Of course, if the bad guy is being inconsiderate, or even verbally abusive, you need to break it off immediately. But if he treats you well, don't always doubt anything he says or does and always want to cry when things don't go according to plan. You can show your soft side once you get to know each other, but it's a good thing to maintain your resilience because he'll know you're a good match for him.
- If you get annoyed every time he teases you or get emotional when he's five minutes late, you'll appear weak and insecure.
- Learn to accept all the pranks and you should only get angry when you have a good reason to feel angry. Of course, if he's constantly late, you should say something, but don't rush into getting angry or making a big deal out of trivial matters.
Step 4. Challenge him
A real bad guy wants a girl that he puts a lot of effort into getting her. Don't show that you're so skilled and intelligent that you don't need a guy to teach you how to do anything. While your relationship won't work out if you keep asking your partner everything, if you support his interests, he will be more attracted to you. Don't get too comfortable with him and let him know that you want him to be passionate, and that you won't stick around if he isn't attractive.
- If he takes you to the pool, don't let him wrap his arms around you and teach you how to play pool; instead, beat him in his own match.
- If he quotes a fact about Metallica and you know it's wrong, don't be afraid to prove it instead of swallowing everything he says as fact.
Step 5. Don't try to be a bad girl if you're not
You might think that all bad guys want bad girls too, but the truth is, most of them want girls who look more innocent, or girls who have hobbies of their own. If you label yourself a bad girl, keep doing what you normally do, but don't feel compelled to wear black leather or dark make-up, smoke cigarettes, or say harsh words a lot if you really don't like it. Bad boys are more attracted to girls who are themselves than girls who are trying to be someone else.
- Most bad guys are just as attracted to nice girls as they are to bad girls, so don't feel like you have to change who you are. In fact, sometimes bad boys and girls can be so similar that they won't get along.
- Bad guys really don't tolerate fakes, and if you try to be someone else, he'll figure it out.
Step 6. Don't brag
If you're really cool and slang, bad guys will know without revealing. Don't talk about the price of your bike, that you're best friends with the drummers from your favorite band, or that you're the best tattoo artist in town. Instead, let him see for himself how awesome you are. If you brag too much, it's a sign that you're trying too hard to prove yourself.
A real bad guy doesn't need to brag, either. He doesn't like other people who are too proud of themselves
Part 3 of 3: Making Relationships Last
Step 1. Don't try to change it
Most girls who date a handsome guy feel confident that he can change it. While there are some exceptions to this rule, most of these girls will end up disappointed when the bad boy they love doesn't turn out to be who they want to be. If you really want to enjoy being with the bad guy, you shouldn't try to "tame" him and try to make him do things he doesn't want to do; instead, try to appreciate him for who he is rather than forcing him to take yoga classes or spend the afternoon with your aunt if he doesn't want to do those things.
Step 2. Have fun while your relationship goes on
If you're dating a bad guy, chances are you don't want to marry him. While some bad guys can change, if you want to enjoy your relationship with them, you should try to enjoy the present and every moment you spend together rather than worrying about the future. Have fun strolling, having dinner, drinking with him, being piggybacked by him and letting your hair fly in the wind. If you want your relationship to last, the best way to do that is to focus on having fun.
- When you're always worrying about where the relationship is going, talk about it with your boyfriend, but know that this will be discouraging.
- Think about how your relationship is progressing week by week, rather than thinking about what the two of you are going to do next year. If you want a guy who has plans for the future, you have to date a nice guy who always asks you out at work.
Step 3. Make sure he's not violent
There's a difference between being a bad guy and being a tough guy. If the man is verbally or physically abusive, it's time to get out of the situation immediately. No man deserves the pain and suffering you face from his violence, even though he keeps promising that he won't do it again and will change for the better. Dating a bad guy is fun as long as he doesn't hurt you.
If you are being abused or abused, talk to a close friend or family member and make a plan to get out of the situation as quickly and safely as possible
Step 4. Don't let it rule you
If you want to enjoy time with the bad guy, you shouldn't let him dictate everything the two of you should do. Even if you feel like he wants to be in complete control, you should make him try and show that you want to go to a certain place to eat and somewhere this weekend. Make sure both of you are in control and don't let him control how you behave or dress, and how you look; he will like you more if you believe in yourself and prove that you are independent.
Most bad boys, if they aren't violent bad boys, like girls who are self-initiated and they really don't want to be in control all the time
Step 5. Don't press it
If you want your relationship with a bad guy to last forever, you can't pressure him to stay with you, meet all your friends and family, or marry you quickly. Bad guys love freedom and want to do what they love. As soon as you press it, it will start to rewind. While it's natural to want a relationship to move forward, you should know that you're dealing with a bad guy who may be "allergic" to commitment.
- Let it move at its own pace. If he wants to meet your friends and family, he will invite you to do so. You can casually mention that you're going to meet them and see if they want to come or not. But don't say that your friends and family really want to see him because he'll feel suffocated by it.
- Don't compare your relationship development with other people's relationships. Just because your best friend and neighbor are getting engaged this month, doesn't mean the two of you should too.
Step 6. Don't be jealous or be a possessive girl
If you want your relationship to last, you can't track him all day to make sure he's loyal to you. You have to trust him to do his own thing because he has an independent spirit. If you text him every half hour, see him without an appointment, or are anxious when he's talking to other girls, he'll be annoyed with your behavior and will find another girl who won't hold him back.
- Of course, if he's being flirty with other girls, that's something both of you should consider. If he's just chatting with girls and you seem jealous, the alarm bells will start ringing.
- You must be able to trust your lover in every relationship. If he's been missing suspiciously for hours, you can ask him where he's been, but if you freak out every time he's 15 minutes late, he'll think you're exaggerating.
Step 7. If your relationship with the bad guy isn't going well, don't underestimate the good guy
Even if you think that all you want is bad boys, at the end of the day, you should know that nice guys in your office or in your neighborhood who want to get to know each other are also of value. If you're looking for a level of commitment that bad guys don't want to give, you'll have to look elsewhere to get what you want. Instead of being skeptical of a guy who wants to get to know you better, give him a chance to see what happens next. You may be surprised at what will happen.
Ask yourself what you're afraid of when it comes to nice guys. Do you find them too boring, too nice, or too serious? Give them a chance and you will see your expectations will change
Tips
- Some bad guys will be secretive at first. They will appear aloof and will most likely not want to talk to anyone about their problems at home or their family. If you're seeing signs that the guy is starting to talk about things his friends don't know, you've earned his trust and he's comfortable sharing his personal information with you.
- Remember, all bad guys are not the same, and sometimes they have reasons why they act this way. If they are cold towards you, understand that they may have been hurt in the past. Whatever you do, don't pressure it, let it free.
- Once you've betrayed him, there's no turning back because bad guys have a really hard time trusting other people, so make sure you don't take advantage of him. It's important to understand that you are someone they trust.
- Be yourself.
- Don't give up on him too easily. For example, if he touches you in a sexual way, such as pinching your buttocks or squeezing your breasts, step back and look him in the eye.
- Bad guys are good listeners. Especially when giving advice! But this trait is also influenced by age. If he is older than you, say two years your senior, he may have some advice on relationships, such as friendships, family relationships, and even problems with your ex and current lover.
- Some of the bad guys go after girls for sex, so don't put yourself down.
- “Bad guys” tend to wear dark colors like black and dark blue, or maybe gray, and they always wear leather accessories. Don't feel intimidated by it. Most of them are people who like to joke around, and some of them even want attention and they will get attention by being childish or stubborn. For some, this makes them interested, for others, it is very strange.
- There is a downside to this, because if you are too open and send the message that you like someone else, they will misinterpret your message and give up.
Warning
- Bad guys will create a bit of drama, but he does like drama.
- A bad guy can be annoying, but he will love you.
- They uphold their title of “bad guy,” and that can get you in trouble if he's a real troublemaker or a gangster.
- Sometimes bad guys can have a bad attitude. If you have a fight with him, don't challenge him because of that fight won't end! Just walk away and he will usually apologize.
- If he's talking about other girls, he may not see you as the girl he likes.
