Cuddling while lying down is one of the best ways to show physical affection; cuddling while lying down shows closeness, affection, and increases happiness. Cuddling while lying down can release hormones that reduce stress and anxiety, which means cuddling while lying down also improves your mental health. If you don't know how to cuddle lying down or are unsure of the best movement to use, worry no more! Cuddling is easy and fun if you understand how.
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Method 1 of 3: Starting a Cuddle
Step 1. Start slowly
Maybe your partner has made it clear that he wants to cuddle while lying down, or maybe you took the initiative to start approaching him. However, it's best if you start slowly. Don't jump right up to your partner for a cuddle while lying down, no matter how impatient you are. Place one hand on your partner's shoulder, back, or waist to show your intentions. Place your hand on the area for a few minutes or rub it gently.
- Make sure that your intention to cuddle while lying down is clear. You can put one hand on your partner's shoulder, but that doesn't necessarily mean that you want to cuddle while lying down with your partner. Caress his arm to make sure your partner understands what you want.
- Remember that lying down cuddling is an activity that starts with yourself first, and lying down cuddling doesn't always lead to making love. Start slowly until you're both comfortable, but not with the intention of wanting anything more than a lying hug.
Step 2. Pay attention to environmental factors
You've done the basics, and you're ready to lay down for a cuddle. However, before you do that step, consider environmental factors. Is it hot out there? This is because you may need to limit the amount of physical contact you have to prevent both of you from getting overheated. Are you cuddling on the bed or couch? Or in a different place again? The amount of space you have available to stretch out will change the position of the reclined cuddle you can do.
Step 3. Do it comfortably
You'll be doing a long hug, so make sure you're comfortable first. If you're planning to do a long reclining hug while watching a movie or before bedtime, change into comfortable clothes or use a comfortable blanket. Even though you may be leaning on your partner, it's still a good idea to use a pillow.
Step 4. Rub your partner a little
Gently rub the back, leg, or arm on the sensitive area. This might be considered a light massage. The goal of this is to make your partner feel comfortable and make him or her interested in cuddling while lying down with you. When you and your partner are in a reclining position, you can choose to continue the gentle strokes to extend the positive feelings you and your partner get from it.
Method 2 of 3: Lay Cuddles Like a Professional
Step 1. Do the old way, and also spooning position
Of all the traditional reclining cuddle positions, spooning has become popular for one reason: it's fun! In the spooning position, there is a “big spoon” and a “small spoon”, with both partners lying sideways and pressed against each other. The “big spoon”” is the partner who is behind, and sometimes puts their arms over the torso of the “little spoon.”
- Be careful with your head. Since you and your partner's heads are almost parallel to each other, it's best if you change the position a bit. The “big spoon” can rest its head on the shoulder of the “small spoon”, or support it on the arm.
- Take the temperature into account. Spooning is a hugging position while lying down that generates heat because there is a lot of physical contact. The “big spoon” may have to hold back against placing his arm on the “small spoon” or move his legs back slightly to avoid excessive sweating.
Step 2. Try a half-spoon
This style is considered almost as classic as the full spooning style, but the half-spoon is done with one partner lying on his back and the other partner facing him, while lying on his side. The partner lying on their side is more likely to rest their head on their partner's chest. Wrap your legs around your partner's legs for a more intimate lying cuddle position.
Step 3. Stack it up
The best way to cuddle while lying down in a tight space is to lay on top of each other, with the larger person lying face up. The partner can lie face down on exactly half the body of the larger person. So that the person below does not suffocate, the person above must place his body slightly below, so that he can turn his head and place it on the chest of the person below.
Step 4. Face to face
One of the most romantic lying cuddle positions is when the couple is lying down and facing each other. You can lie down and have your head turned sideways or you can lie on your side – whichever position is most comfortable for you. Increase the romance in the room by holding hands between you and your partner.
Step 5. Try a stargazing position
This position is done when you and your partner are going camping or watching a meteor shower, but you want to cuddle while lying down and also looking up at the sky. You and your partner need to lie face up and wrap your legs around each other. If you don't mind numbing your arm, you can put your arm under your partner's neck, or vice versa. Contrary to its name, this lying down cuddle can be done in any condition, not just when you're looking at the stars.
Step 6. Place your head on your lap
This lying down cuddle is a great way to use when you want to talk to each other and maintain eye contact more easily. Ask one partner to sit down, while the other partner lies upright with his head resting on the thigh of the sitting partner. This provides an opportunity for the seated couple to play with their partner's hair or touch their partner's face romantically.
Method 3 of 3: Experimenting with Lying Cuddles
Step 1. Play with your partner's hair
There is a touching feeling when someone plays with your hair. Gender doesn't matter, just put your hand in your partner's hair as you lie down in each other's arms. This method can also be a variation of scalp massage using fingers. Playing with your partner's hair is a certain way to make him feel happy and comfortable.
Step 2. Kiss her a little
Kiss your partner in a way that touches his feelings, not a kiss that leads to making love. Kiss her forehead, arm, or hand to show that you love and care about her. This method can make your partner melt and love to cuddle with you.
Step 3. Practice massaging movements
Everyone loves massages, right? Show affection to your partner by gently massaging the parts of his body that are closest to you. Maybe his back, his shoulders, or his arms. If you don't want to massage, rub the areas back and forth using your hands.
Step 4. Move your hands on your partner's body
Gently rub your partner's body with your fingertips. Move your hands over his torso, legs, or arms. This is easiest to do in the spooning or half-spoon position, but can be done in either a cuddled position while lying down.
Step 5. Tickle your partner gently
Gently tickling your partner will have him squirm and laugh at you in no time. However, be careful not to tickle him too much; do this for enough time to show that you are just teasing him and that you want him to approach you.
Tips
- A simple hug or cuddle can be likened to a lying hug! Incorporate this into your lifestyle as often as possible.
- Some people like to be hugged from behind.
- Relax. Your body should not stiffen when you cuddle while lying down.
- There are many ways to cuddle while lying down. Ask your partner about his preferred position. Don't be afraid to ask questions so the two of you can discuss which cuddle position is best for you both. Then, also discuss the expectations of a hug while lying down. How far do you and your partner want to be from a reclining hug, what do you like your partner to do and what is appropriate and where to do it. If you're hanging out with your partner and some of your friends, and then suddenly you start sitting on your partner's lap and cuddling and cuddling while lying down, this may make your friends feel uncomfortable.
- Some people are more receptive to affection than others. If your partner doesn't hug you back, it may be because he doesn't want to cuddle with you or he just doesn't feel comfortable with physical contact.
- Make sure your hair is neat and not greasy. This can make your partner not want to play with your hair anymore.
- Keep in mind that some people don't know how to cuddle while lying down. Start slowly so you don't scare your partner.
