You may be able to recognize a man's seduction, but his real attitude will be harder to pinpoint because the internet doesn't allow us to see him in person. Luckily, there's a wikiHow at your disposal. With good observation skills and an open mind, you can tell if he likes you or not in no time.
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Method 1 of 2: Via Instant Messaging
Step 1. Log in to your instant messaging account
If he is already online, does he greet you immediately when you log on to the network? If he usually greets you, there's a good chance he'll want to talk to you whenever he has the chance.
- If not, don't be compelled to say hello right away. Maybe he's still used to it because you've been the one starting the conversation. However, don't make this a habit, as games of the heart like this can quickly turn the situation upside down.
- Even simple things like sharing news can be useful clues. It is his way of involving you in his experience or life.
Step 2. Notice if he asks more in-depth or personal questions
This can indicate whether he wants to get to know you better or not. The more often he responds to your answers, the more likely he is to "drown" in the conversation.
- If he asks a lot of questions but doesn't really respond to your answers (e.g. takes a long time to respond), he may be trying to show you that he's interested, even though he's busy chatting with other people. If he's used to acting like that, he may be showing a polite way of keeping you busy while he's talking to other people.
- If he asks a very personal but irrelevant question, like your home address or whether you're home or not, leave him immediately. Right now!
Step 3. Watch for signs of seduction he shows
Does he compliment you? Did he send you a nudge or an emoji? Does he use exclamation points a lot to show his enthusiasm?
Step 4. Notice if he often asks for advice or moral support
If he asks you to help him solve his problem, it's a clear sign that he not only trusts you but also values your opinion.
Step 5. Notice how he behaves when the conversation is over
Did he say a closing or farewell sentence like “Ah… well” or “OK. Bye ? If he's not so sad to part with you, you shouldn't be sad either.
Method 2 of 2: Via Facebook
Step 1. Pay attention to whether or not he often initiates conversations
Read the previous method for more information.
Step 2. Pay attention to how often he likes or comments on your photos
The fact that he wants to see you and know what you do when you're not with him is a good sign that he likes you.
Make sure you compare this to how often he interacts with his other friends. Maybe he is just a Facebook user who is used to looking at other users' photos to pass the time. On the other hand, if he rarely uses Facebook, the two comments he posted on your latest photo album can be a significant clue
Step 3. Notice if he wants to continue the conversation through comments
Conversations like this (especially in-person) can show that he wants to interact with you more.
Step 4. Watch if it responds to your status updates
These updates usually indicate how you were feeling or doing at the time. Therefore, if he seems interested in the updates, there's a good chance he wants to know what you're up to.
Step 5. Look for signs of seduction he is showing
Giving "pokes" (pokes), likes, gifts, and compliments can be a way that he follows to show his interest in you.
Step 6. Watch what happens when you don't log in to Facebook for a few days
If he keeps trying to interact with you or asking you where you are while you're out of the network, there's a good chance he misses you.
Again, be careful not to play with him because it can damage the relationship you have already established
Tips
- Some men will show a different attitude in cyberspace. However, this does not necessarily mean that they are not the person you have imagined. Maybe he feels more confident and wants to talk more in cyberspace.
- Some people do not like sharing on the internet because they feel it is too risky for their security, embarrassing, or very personal. Make sure you respect the differences that exist.
- Never place all your hopes and fears on just one or two conversations. Keep in mind that there are lots of people running instant messaging apps, regardless of whether they have time to chat or not.
- If he doesn't say anything other than “Hello!” or "How are you?", keep in mind that he may be embarrassed.
- Remember that your interactions on the internet are not a substitute for real-life relationships.
- If you are a minor, seek guidance or guidance from a parent or guardian.
- Keep in mind that some men have natural personas that are good at flirting.
Warning
- There are some men who are very friendly and (apparently) constantly spreading charms that are full of "seduction". Even if the guy you're dealing with does or shows all of the things described in this article, you can't be completely sure that he likes you unless he says so. Even after he said it, you can't easily believe what he said.
- If he asks you a question about something that makes you uncomfortable, simply say, "I don't want to talk about that," or "Can we talk about something else?" If he really likes you, he will respect your decision not to share personal information.
- Don't ask questions that are too personal. Try not to ask him things that might make him feel uncomfortable or see you differently.
- Never trust someone you have never met before. Some people specifically create profiles on the internet to take advantage of the trust of others. You also need to be careful not to give out your full name or residential information.
