In the mood to do so? Ready and want to have sex? Want to excite your partner and make him or her feel very comfortable? Do you want to unwind by having fun or having an intimate relationship with your partner? Here are some tried and proven ways to make your partner feel love.
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Method 1 of 2: For Men
Step 1. Show attention and love to the girl
It's fine to take him out to dinner and to the movies, but love doesn't come from those kinds of things. Care and love is all about knowing how to treat your partner right. Listen to his opinion. Ask him how he's doing, and what he thinks about things he likes, whatever it is. Surely you know what he likes, right? Compliment her appearance, the way she dresses, or the way she smiles, as long as your compliment is genuine.
Don't be shy about praising him. If the clothes she's wearing make her look sexier, tell her. Don't stand still, if she's dressed up the best she can, let her know you appreciate it
Step 2. Seduce him
Make a teasing comment or even a direct comment mixed into the chat, so he knows you want him.
Step 3. Be confident
You'll find that women prefer partners who feel confident, not nervous. This may require some sort of bluffing, but remember that the more you "bluff" your self-confidence, the more confident you will become. This is a kind of situation that benefits both parties!
Step 4. Kiss him
When the time is right, and you'll know when it's time, kiss him. On the first kiss, don't put your tongue too deep into your partner's mouth, but don't initiate other types of kisses that aren't common either. Kiss him earnestly, and explore his lips with your teeth and tongue.
Respond to the reaction. If he moves away when you try to kiss him, it may not be time to kiss him yet. Next time go back to step one, and try again. If he responds, pay attention to his body language. If he kisses but is still cautious, don't move on to the next step until his body language shows that he's ready to move on
Step 5. Touch him
Rub his body on certain parts of the body that are somewhat sensitive first. Tuck your hand into his hair and pull it towards you, then kiss him more passionately. Grab the hair in your hands, and pull it (gently, not violently!). Also wipe the neck, shoulders, and arms.
Step 6. Talk to him
Tell him how much you enjoy being with him, that you like the way he kisses, the way he looks, and the way he sounds. Let him know that he makes you feel good too.
Step 7. Expand your touch area
The inner arms, like the inner thighs, are also quite sensitive, and when kissed and rubbed, can start to heat up. Continue exploring her body, slowly heating up the atmosphere as you feel her becoming more aroused.
Step 8. Use your own body language to let him know what you want
Pull him over you, so whatever you want to kiss is close to your lips. Roll over on top of him, kissing him more passionately than you've done before.
Step 9. Take off the shirt, and repeat all the previous steps
At this point, the guide on the part of stimulating a partner is complete. We leave it up to you to proceed from here. Don't forget to wear safety!
Method 2 of 2: For Women
Step 1. Get a reaction according to your efforts
As we all know, getting a guy horny is easy, and you don't need us to tell you to know! But if you're in the mood, and you want him to really satisfy you, then there are a few things you can do to make him totally out of control.
Step 2. Show your guy care and love
He'll do the usual stuff, open the door for you, take you out to dinner and a movie, and all of that is part of what a man does. If you want him to keep doing it after the two of you have been dating for a year or two, let him know that you value those kinds of things, or that you don't value them! Pretending is a surefire way to quell romance, if not in the short term, then it certainly will in the long term. But for the sake of this article, let's assume you did. If he knows that you like him, and you occasionally reward him with a kiss or a hug, he will continue to do so.
Step 3. Wear impressive clothes
A shirt with a little cleavage will suffice. A shirt with a wider cleavage has a bigger effect too. Wearing bold clothes will challenge her to keep her eyes up and look you in the eye, will help her stay focused and attentive to you, and also provide a fun flirt.
Step 4. Flirt with him
Do something that affects her mind, maybe in the way you lick the spoon, or maybe just say that you find her very attractive. Again, guys have a pretty simple nature, and it's not hard to get them excited. Remember, he wants control, but you can tell how much control he has.
Step 5. Have confidence
Kissing someone who is nervous or unsure if they are doing the "right thing" is not stimulating. If the goal is to excite him, then show it. Don't hide your passions behind walls of political or social correctness.
Step 6. Let him know how to kiss you
Once he's made his first approach, kiss him back exactly how you want him to kiss you. If you want a passionate kiss, then kiss him hard. If you want a quick love kiss, at least to begin with, then do something like that to her, and gently repeat each more passionate kiss until you're ready to go.
Step 7. Be aggressive
He wanted to know that he wasn't the only one trying to do his best. You don't have to push him down and tear his shirt at this point, but start kissing him first, and exploring his body. If he works out hard, admire his physique. He will love it, because he has put a lot of effort into working out his body muscles.
Step 8. Let him lead, but with your guide
When you're ready for a more intimate touch from him, let your body language show it. Sometimes you have to put his hand where you want him to, but usually he'll get the point right away.
Step 9. Make a sound
If you like what he's doing, you don't have to say, "I like what you're doing." Just say, "Mmmmm." If you really like what he does, you can say a lot more. If you want him to talk indecently, start early so he knows it's okay to do so.
Step 10. When he starts taking off your shirt, if you really want to turn him on, don't let him do it
Better to do it yourself, deliberately and seductively. When he wants to touch (and he will), don't let it. Where he wants to touch you, you do it. Keep doing this until both of you can't take it anymore, then continue wearing protection.
Step 11. Repeat
Tips
- Kiss your male partner passionately, men love it.
- Make him want you more and more, but don't give up too soon.
- Know the parts of your partner's body that make him easily aroused.
- Use protection or get tested and be sure it's safe before continuing unprotected sex.
- You have to be ready! Don't do anything you don't want to do and don't let your partner force you to do anything. Stay in control within your limits!
- Run your hand through her hair to break the touch barrier.
- Girls love it when you look them in the eye when they talk and smile. This can be exciting for them!
