Life goes on and things happen, but many people don't know the best way to live life. You are free to determine the activities you want to do in your daily life. However, the best way to enjoy a meaningful and enjoyable life is to make decisions that are in harmony with your heart. For that, start getting to know yourself, for example by finding out the virtues that you believe in, your strengths, and the things you are most interested in. Then, align your behavior with those core values. Finally, interact with other people and pay attention to them.
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Method 1 of 3: Knowing Yourself
Step 1. Determine the virtues that you believe in and then use them as a guide for living life
Take time to think about the values you hold dear and the behavior of others worthy of emulation. The next step, bring back memories of the best moments you've ever experienced and the activities you did at that time. Then, jot down the things you hold dear or have high values that you believe in.
For example, the values you hold dear might be helping others, having an open mind, and being willing to share
Step 2. Determine what life goals you want to achieve by finding out what motivates you
Think about what spurs you to action, such as a hobby activity. Then, imagine the life you're dreaming of 5, 10, 15, and 20 years from now and write down the things that should have come true by then. The next step is to consider what you need to do and how to make the most of your skills so you can contribute to others. This step helps you find a meaningful life purpose.
- You can define several goals in life.
- Life goals can change with age and the ability to know yourself.
- For example, maybe you want to motivate others by playing music or taking care of the sick by attending training to become a nurse.
Step 3. Determine your strengths and talents so that you can take advantage of them
List the skills and competencies that enable you to perform at your best performing fun activities. This method helps you determine your strengths. Then, choose the skills and talents that are most useful for you to develop.
For example, you love to write articles, play football, and bake cakes. To develop these skills, take writing lessons or join a soccer team. In addition, you can earn extra income by taking cake orders
Step 4. Do things that you really enjoy or enjoy hobbies that make you feel happy
Write down the activities and things you are interested in and then decide how to enjoy them in your daily life. Set aside time to do the things you enjoy most or enjoy hobbies every day if possible.
- For example, if you enjoy playing the piano, collecting jewelry, and doing makeup, take advantage of your free time to take piano lessons, learn to make jewelry, and search the internet for makeup tutorials.
- Don't be easily influenced by other people's opinions. Make sure you do activities that make life more enjoyable.
Step 5. Find out a schedule of activities that increase productivity
When going about your daily life, pay attention to your physical condition from morning to night to arrange a daily activity schedule. Do important activities when you feel most fit and energized. In addition, make a schedule of activities that must be done from morning to night.
For example, if you have more energy in the morning, schedule a study or other important activity in the morning. Conversely, if you feel more refreshed at night, do the activity before bed
Step 6. Define your personality (extroverted, introvert or ambivert).
Extroverts are more energetic when socializing, whereas introverts prefer to be alone. Ambivert people have both personalities in balance. In order to determine the best way to live your daily life, find out about your personality, for example by answering quiz questions on a website.
- In general, extroverts like to work with other people, while introverts prefer to work alone.
- For example, introverts prefer to stay at home on weekends, while extroverts prefer to be outside the home. Whatever your preferences, make sure the options you choose make life enjoyable.
Method 2 of 3: Behave in Accordance with the Values of Virtue
Step 1. Live your daily life according to your religious beliefs if you belong to a certain religion
You are free to practice a certain religion or become a spiritual practitioner. You will feel happy and connected to others if you apply these beliefs in your daily life. Choose a religious teaching that fits your beliefs and set aside time for regular worship.
- Take time to meditate or pray every day.
- Join a religious or spiritual community according to your beliefs to strengthen faith.
- If you find yourself doing things that are against religious teachings or spiritual beliefs, don't repeat it and do some reflection to find out why. Then, make changes so that you can live your life as a good person.
Step 2. Form good habits according to the values you believe in
The little things you do every day can have a big impact in the future. Make sure you do activities that are in line with the values and life goals you want to achieve, for example by:
- Using recycled products to support environmental conservation programs.
- Eat organic food if you think pesticides are harmful to your health.
- Opt for natural products if you think chemicals are harmful to a lot of people.
- Adopt a vegetarian or vegan diet to protect animals and protect the environment.
- Get used to walking or cycling to reduce pollution and fossil use.
- Give money or food to less fortunate people.
- Join a community that does social action.
- Donate to orphans.
Step 3. Set personal goals that support the achievement of life goals
Setting goals in life is much easier than realizing them. Therefore, set targets that will enable you to realize your life goals. Think about the things you dream of and decide how to achieve them. Make a schedule to carry out each step that has been determined so that life goals are achieved.
- For example, you want to be a nurse. For that, make sure you get high marks in science and math, volunteer at a health center or hospital, take nursing courses, and apply for jobs to be accepted as a nurse in a hospital.
- Another example, if you want to play music in public, improve your skills by taking music lessons, forming a music group, finding a place to put on a show, for example in a restaurant or coffee shop.
Step 4. Choose educational programs and career paths that support the achievement of life goals
After determining the life you dream of, choose a job that is related to that goal. Then, determine an educational or work program that motivates you and implement those decisions consistently.
It is possible that others will oppose your decision, especially family members. Take their advice into account, but make sure you make your decision on your heart. Do what you want because you only live once
Tip:
a choice that is considered safe is not a guarantee of success. Others may say you will be successful if you have a certain degree or job, but no one can say for sure. Make decisions that align with your life goals, rather than those that promise success.
Step 5. Do fun things so that you live a balanced life
Set aside time to enjoy hobbies, favorite foods, and hanging out with friends, but don't forget to take care of your health and work hard to realize your life goals. Balanced activities make life more meaningful and quality. So don't spend time just having fun or working hard.
For example, make a daily activity schedule so that you can complete tasks, clean the house, take care of yourself, enjoy hobbies, and hang out with the people closest to you
Step 6. Make sure you keep learning and self development so that more wise.
Over time, experience can change perspective so that you become a wiser and educated person. Find out new information and increase knowledge by socializing. Be a person who is ready to change and continue to grow by trying to understand various aspects of life.
- Listen actively when someone is talking to you. Learn from the experiences he recounts, especially if his living conditions are very different.
- To help you understand other people, read books and articles or watch documentaries.
- If possible, visit different cities to find out about local people's lives.
Method 3 of 3: Socializing and Caring for Others
Step 1. Make new friends by taking courses, volunteering, or joining a community
The best way to make new friends and build relationships is to socialize. If you feel comfortable interacting with new people, open up conversations with people you meet at the supermarket or at the movies. If not, take courses to develop the skills you're interested in or join a hobby club. Also, volunteer for a noble cause.
- Search for clubs in your city via Facebook or Meetup.com. If you are still in school, take part in extracurricular activities.
- Find out information about various clubs through the librarian or community staff.
Step 2. Make time to communicate with close friends and family members every day
In addition to texting every day, set aside time to call or meet them in person to keep the relationship close and lasting.
- For example, send a good morning to your lover, say hello to your parents, and send a meme to your friends.
- Take a friend for coffee or watch Netflix at home.
- Have dinner with the family once a week or chat with them on Skype if you don't live together.
Step 3. Give genuine care when spending time with family or friends
Don't check your phone or text when you're hanging out with friends, family members, or chatting with your loved one. Pay attention to them and listen carefully to what they have to say. This step makes the relationship closer and helps you build a relationship with the other person.
- When hanging out with friends, take time to interact personally, for example when you want to watch a movie, invite them to chat for 15 minutes before playing the video.
- If your partner is busy accessing social media, let them know that you want attention, for example by saying, "I'm glad we could have dinner together tonight. If you're done with your business, can you put your phone away when we eat?"
Step 4. Choose friends who make you feel confident
Instead of hanging out with cool people, find friends who are willing to give you attention, advice, and support. Spend time with positive and supportive people because they make life fun!
- Treat others the way they want to be treated. Provide help and support if needed.
- Don't hesitate to cut ties with people who are negative. Be a positive person so that they go away on their own.
Step 5. Establish a harmonious relationship
Relationships work well if both parties give and take each other. So, don't just want to receive something from other people. Instead, do good for others without expecting anything in return. Try to repay the kindness of a friend, family member, or lover. A harmonious relationship will last forever.
- For example, if a friend is helping you, provide help if they need it. Return the kindness as a thank you, for example by buying a cup of coffee.
- Another example, if your partner always does what you want, let him decide what to do next.
Tip:
if you're in a relationship with a demanding person, don't be prejudiced and pretend he's not aware of his attitude. Tell him, "Lately, I feel like I'm the one giving in more. What do you think of our relationship?"
Step 6. Try to see the good in other people
Your perspective of other people will be more positive if you assume that everyone is nice. This way you can appreciate yourself so that your mood improves. Try to respect others, for example by:
- Be kind to others.
- Assume that everyone acts in good faith.
- Focus on his talents, not his mistakes.
- Pay attention to the advantages, not the disadvantages.
- Remember that everyone has a different background and experience.
Step 7. Open your heart to love someone when you are ready
Before expecting someone to love you, make sure you know yourself well. Then, determine the criteria for the pair you need. When you meet someone who wants to be in a relationship, try to get to know them better to make sure you both have a good match. Let the friendship develop into a love affair while building closeness.
- Be prepared to fall in love and get your heart broken several times. Although painful, this process helps you find the right life partner.
- Don't demand that someone loves you. Remember that the relationship will work well if the love grows and develops over time.
Tips
- Set aside time to socialize, take risks, and show respect for others.
- Do what you think is good and beneficial for yourself.
- Take care of your physical and mental health.
- Respect yourself.
