Do you want to know how to make out with a woman and make her like it? Whether she's your boyfriend, your crush, or a woman you just picked up from the mall, you can make out with a woman like a pro if you're confident and know how to kiss a woman without being overly pushy. This can happen by setting the mood, knowing how to start, and modifying your kissing technique. You can quickly become a great kisser.
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Part 1 of 4: Setting the Mood
Step 1. Make the atmosphere sexy
If you're a romantic guy and you've been taking a girl home to start making out, then you might as well manage your home situation. He won't want to kiss you if he sees your dirty gym socks or empty soda can. So put some candles, flowers and wine (if you drink wine). Don't look like you're trying too hard-do enough to get the woman into the mood to kiss you.
Step 2. Ready to interlock lips
This means don't look dirty or smell like a yeti. It doesn't matter what you're wearing -- jeans and a t-shirt are fine -- but make sure you look presentable. The woman should see that you are trying to present yourself well. If you're not trying to improve your appearance, then why should he want to kiss you?
- Make sure that you've showered and smelled clean before you start smelling.
- Use enough perfume. Too much perfume = trying too hard.
Step 3. Find a comfortable place
Great places include the couch, in the car, or under the stars on your picnic table. One thing to think about is the awkwardness of people walking near you, so make sure that there are no parents/siblings/friends in the next room. More privacy, then women will feel more comfortable.
- The bed is a great location for making out, but some women will feel awkward or nervous if you start there because she will think that you want something more than kissing.
- Temperature control. Keep the temperature slightly cool so that he wants your touch, but not so cold that he shivers and becomes uncomfortable. It's even more dangerous if it's too hot -- he won't want to raise the temperature again when you get the chance.
Step 4. Turn on some music to set the mood
Music is an option, but a romantic atmosphere is more likely to build when there's music you and your partner like in the background, playing slowly. If you want to turn on some music, make sure that you know the woman's favorite type of music (such as screamo, metal, and alternative rock are not the best types of music to build a mood for, unless you know she likes it).
If you're planning on playing music, you'll need to get it sorted and ready to go, so don't waste time finding something romantic
Part 2 of 4: Starting a Warm Kissing Session
Step 1. Start flirting
You can't start a math assignment discussion and move on to a passionate French kiss; You have to take it slowly. Moving toward a kiss can be an awkward situation if you don't know what you're doing, but don't worry. Flirting is easy; the purpose of flirting is to make women have fun. This can be achieved by joking, wrestling, flirting, or dancing, but remember not to overdo it. So build a relaxed atmosphere.
- You can pretend to dance to make him laugh, or gently touch his elbow.
- You should initiate a little physical touch before you kiss, no matter how small. You can't just go ahead and kiss him without touching him at all.
Step 2. Lock the gaze
In the process of flirting with him, you'll find that you either get closer to him physically or look him in the eye. Stop what you are doing and look the woman in the eye, smile a little so she knows you are going to kiss her. You don't have to stare in horror for a long time; just look him in the eye and he knows you want something more. If you feel more comfortable, you can reach out and remove a strand of hair from her face and tie it to the woman's ear.
Step 3. Pull him closer to you
Move your body closer to him and slowly pull his chin closer to yours. Do not purse your lips like how you kiss Aunt Susi, but let your lips in a natural position. Then bring your lips close to hers until they almost touch each other. Don't hesitate or even withdraw.
Step 4. Kissing
Let your lips touch and let it sit for a few seconds. Don't immediately kiss him passionately, but turn your head slightly to one side so your noses don't touch each other and get in the way of each other. The more passionate your kiss, the more dramatic your head will spin. You can take it slowly and gently to build an intimate atmosphere while kissing it. Pay attention, does he seem to like your kiss? Did he respond well? Does he pull you close to his body? If so, kiss more deeply.
When you kiss her, make sure you put your hands on her body rather than letting her hang awkwardly beside you. Don't caress her body, but hug her when you kiss
Step 5. Add variety to your kiss
Mix up your kissing style to make it more interesting. You may want to add variety to your kissing technique, such as a French kiss or some other method you know. Keep the tempo slow; many people like a slow tempo and then make it more passionate later. If you and the woman feel comfortable moving on to the next step, start experimenting with touching her and letting her touch you.
If you're French kissing, gently slide your tongue into his mouth and make sure he does the same. You can touch their tongue with yours or position your tongue above or below theirs as you explore each other's mouths
Step 6. Take a moment to praise her
Don't be afraid to talk to him for a while; as long as you keep the atmosphere romantic, this will make it more comfortable. (Meaning, don't stop kissing to ask him what he thinks about Pak Budi's physics test). In passionate situations, take a break to look into her eyes and say "You're beautiful" or something nice, but make sure you mean it that way.
You should give good compliments to women you know well enough; saying that a woman is beautiful, when you just met, might make her run away
Part 3 of 4: Creating a 'Hot' Atmosphere
Step 1. Kiss the side of the neck
This is a sensitive area for most women and if you kiss the side of her neck she will become tough. Whether you're hugging her from behind, lying down, or facing her, lean forward to kiss her gently up and down the side of her neck to increase her mood to kiss you.
Step 2. Touch the hair
As you kiss, run your hand through her hair. The scalp is actually a sensitive part of a woman's body and she will feel a sexy sensation when you comb and lock her hair with your fingers. Do it gently first and see how it responds. Run your fingers over the top of her hair or place your hand inside her hair and gently caress her neck.
Step 3. Caress her face
This is a great move if you want to be even more intimate when kissing. Pause for a moment and place your hand on his chin or even cup his face in the middle of your passionate kiss. This will make women feel more lonely. Don't keep your hands on his face all the time; but stroking his cheeks and chin alternately.
You can also remove the hair from his forehead when you kiss, but this is a difficult step
Step 4. Make him sit on your lap
If you are sitting, move into this sexy position slowly. Place your hands around his waist so he can move into your lap if he feels comfortable. He will most likely sit with his feet on the side of your lap and his arms around your neck. If he is very passionate, he may just astride you. But don't expect it too much.
Step 5. Whisper in his ear
Ears are another sensitive area for a woman and if you whisper something sexy in her ear, she will be happier. Don't whisper that it smells like macaroni and cheese; but say that she's super hot, has soft lips, or that you like to run your fingers through her hair. Your hot breath in his ear will work on his body.
Step 6. Gently bite the ear
If whispering in his ear seems to be going well, then take it a step further by gently biting his ear. First, come closer to his ear and kiss his earlobe; if the response is positive, continue your bite very, very gently and see how he reacts. The choice is between going wild or pushing you away -- be prepared for both.
Step 7. Tease him a little
Kiss her for a second, two seconds, a minute or so, and when things heat up, pull yourself up and look into her eyes as you stroke her face or hair. This action is guaranteed to drive him wild because you pull away for a moment when he wants you more than ever. This is not malicious and don't do this all the time; You have to do it in moderation.
Step 8. Remember rest times
You don't always have to French kiss, or kiss, during a make out session. Of course you don't need time off to text your Mom or start a conversation about what to wear to prom. It is very common to take breaks to catch a breath, grab a glass of water, or to stare at each other for a moment. Making out is an art and all artists take time off to create the perfect piece.
Part 4 of 4: Light Up Her Mood in Other Ways
Step 1. Give a massage
Massage the shoulders with firm enough pressure, but don't be harsh. Move your massage closer to the neck, then move around the collarbone, then change your motion to the upper arm. Gently massage his arm. You can do this in between your fondlings or earlier, to get her in the mood for making out.
Before you give him a massage, make sure he looks like he wants to kiss you. Otherwise, this will only be seen as a superficial trick to you
Step 2. Let him rest on your shoulder
If you're both sitting down, this is another intimate gesture that may end in fondling. Embrace him and even kiss the top of his head, then wait for him to lean on you. Breathe into his neck slightly to make him feel passionate. Rub his shoulders and move around until you're facing each other and ready to kiss.
Step 3. Touch the waist
Massage her waist and slowly move toward her shoulders, but this time use your fingertips in circular motions, quite hard, but still gentle. With a touch like this, will make him want to kiss you more than ever.
Step 4. Give a foot massage
Start with the feet and massage gently to the top. When you touch her thigh, massage the outside of the thigh, then the inside towards her knee and back up again.
Suggestion
- You should never tell a woman that you read instructions on how to kiss a woman (unless you are SURE she will find it sweet).
- If you are making out with a woman for the first time, be calm and relaxed. Unless you know that he likes a little roughness.
- Gentle. Again, women don't like being forced by men. This shows that you don't care and don't value them.
- Gently step back and find your forehead and hers between kissing sessions.
- Make sure that you don't make him think you want things further (of course you know what I mean) and stay calm, unless you're both comfortable going further.
- If he doesn't seem to like it, stop it immediately.
- Don't lick her neck, ears, or anything else if she doesn't look like she wants to. If he likes what you do, talk about it and see how it goes.
- Setting up a horror movie may bring the two of you closer together, so you can move on to start kissing. (But not too scary movies because he won't enjoy his time with you)
- Most women do not feel comfortable kissing with the tongue (French Kiss). Especially the first time!
- Don't chew gum the first time you kiss. Chewing gum tends to produce more saliva than mint gum. If you're chewing gum and you're both comfortable with it, play with the gum while kissing in a swapping fashion.
