Captivating a woman is the first step to starting a relationship or dating. If you want to charm a woman, you have to make her feel special, don't take her too seriously, and relax as you win her over. You just have to look like you're not trying too hard when you figure out how to really impress him. If you want to know how to impress a woman before she can say, "You look like George Clooney," follow these steps.
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Part 1 of 2: Making Him Aware of You
Step 1. Don't try too hard
If you want to charm a woman, you have to make your charms seem like they just radiate. If you make a kayaking move to impress him, do some somersaults or walk with your hands, or try to crack all your jokes, he'll notice your tricks. Instead, take a deep breath, relax, and get ready to unleash your magic. Speak to him in a low but audible voice, don't look like you really pay attention to every syllable he says, and don't comment that your joke isn't really funny if it is. Just be yourself and the conversation will just flow.
- Remember that if you really want to charm a woman, you have to show that you're comfortable being who you are. If you smile broadly while sweating and fidgeting around, he won't be impressed.
- Keep your body language calm and relaxed. Position your hands by your sides or use your hands to make gestures, keep your body straight, and look at the person and don't look down.
Step 2. Laugh at yourself
Women like men who have a great sense of humor and can laugh at themselves. If you want to charm a woman, you have to show that you're not too serious, and that you're comfortable enough with yourself to be able to make a joke of yourself. If you find out that you're wearing a very goofy pink T-shirt, you have crooked front teeth, or you're notoriously clumsy, don't try to hide these adorable qualities in a woman; instead, you have to show that you are comfortable with yourself, whether you are lacking or something else.
- This doesn't mean you have to put yourself down so that you look insecure. A little joke on your flaws and the ability to laugh at yourself when he makes jokes about you is enough.
- Remember that a woman doesn't want to hear bad humor. Your jokes should be polite.
Step 3. Be a witty person
Here's another way to charm a woman. You don't have to be serious all the time. Talk about your puppy's embarrassing nicknames; show your ability to juggle. Perform magic by removing the coin from his ear. Feel free to be a little goofy, and he'll be captivated by your childish way of seeing the world. This doesn't mean you have to look immature to be a little silly.
- If you're somewhere playing “Macarena”, feel free to show your moves.
- If you're too obsessed with looking cool, he won't open up to you. You don't have to show everything, but if you're very secretive, he won't feel like he knows you any better.
Step 4. Pay attention to your appearance
Real women pay attention to how they look, so you should too. You don't have to look like George Clooney, but you do have to make sure your clothes are appropriate for the occasion, don't wrinkle, smell good, and look good. If you think a short beard makes you look more mysterious, that's okay. But generally, make sure your face and hair are well-groomed and that you've showered before going out to see the ladies in the evening.
- You don't have to be obsessed with your appearance to win a woman's heart by paying attention to your appearance.
- You can spray a little perfume, but not so much that it will make the woman uncomfortable.
Step 5. Smile
Don't underestimate the impact of a big, dazzling smile on a woman. While you don't have to smile all the time, you should smile at a woman the first time you meet her, and whenever a smile is needed when speaking. As long as the smile doesn't make you look nervous, he'll appreciate that you're comfortable enough to smile whenever you feel like doing it, and don't feel too cool to show him a little positive energy.
Don't just smile at the woman. If he sees you smiling at other people, he will see that you are a friendly and positive guy
Step 6. Impress those around you
If you want to charm a woman, you can't put all your attention on her and ignore the people around you. He has to see that you're the kind of guy who can charm almost anyone around him, and that's a really amazing thing. You have to be able to charm the seniors, young people, bored kids, or even the shyest person at the party. Find something that everyone can talk about and make that person feel special, open, and comfortable around you.
- While you don't have to ignore the woman you like to do it, if she can see you enchanting everyone in the room, she will feel even more fascinated.
- But, make sure you don't look dazzling to too many women. The he must feel the most special even though you relate to many people.
- Another way to impress a lot of people around you is to introduce them to each other seamlessly. Say, “Mira, have you met Johan? He's new to a pit bull and you must have suggestions for training him…”
Step 7. Speak a foreign language
Can you speak some French? Un poco Espanol? If you can speak a little foreign language, show it without being obnoxious. Don't start throwing every foreign language you know at the woman, but if you find out that you spent time in France, or know your father is from Madrid, say a sentence or two and watch her blush. Of course, this is a cheesy trick, but if used at the right time, it will completely charm you.
Only try this if you really feel confident in your abilities. Don't say a phrase or two if you don't speak Spanish other than tequila
Step 8. Be that hot guy that's hard to come by
You don't have to be Hugh Grant or even Brad Pitt to be sexy. Sexy is the confidence and aura you exude. Sexy comes with self-love (but not narcissism). Being sexy is just being a hard-to-get and comfortable person to be. A sweet smile can always be a good thing, and so can having a good body odor. Humans respond to the five senses; The most important senses for you are smell and touch.
If you want to seem hard to come by, don't be someone who depends on others. He has to see that you like his company, but you won't be heartbroken if he isn't around
Part 2 of 2: Making Her Feel Special
Step 1. Ask questions about yourself
If you really want to charm a woman, you have to make her feel special. Shift your focus to her and show that you care about her personality and what she says. You don't have to make him special like he's the subject of a detective movie. Just ask him a few questions about where he was born, how his friends and siblings are, or what he does for fun.
- If he says he keeps animals, ask him to show him the pictures.
- Do not ask things that are too personal, such as questions about past relationships.
- Make him talk. If you think he's talking too much about himself and is uncomfortable, find a way to relate what he's saying to your own experience.
Step 2. Give him a sincere compliment
The key is sincerity. Don't say something unflattering like, “I like your hair”, unless he has really unique hair; the hair is curly or has a color you haven't seen before. Instead, dig deep and say something he's never heard of before, or something that really makes him feel that you really care about him, rather than just trying to get him hooked so he can like you more.
- If he has beautiful eyes or a sweet laugh, tell him.
- Dig deeper. Compliment some aspects of the woman's personality, such as her sense of humor or research skills, if you can.
- If she wears a nice necklace or pair of earrings, compliment the accessory. Maybe you can hear the story of where he got his accessories.
Step 3. Ask for his opinion
Show the woman that you care about her opinion, not just hers. He will see that you value him as an intelligent woman with an opinion you can accept. Ask him what he thinks about your outfit, band, or your favorite TV show. You don't have to ask sensitive questions like politics or religion until you get to know them better. Keep the relationship light but show that you care.
- You can even start small and ask him what he thinks of the drink you drank at a party. If you hear a song, ask her opinion about the band playing the song.
- When he gives the answer, don't jump right into the conversation. Take the time to really take his opinion seriously.
Step 4. Be a good listener
One of the things that turns a woman away is when a man talks to her and nods in agreement, but he doesn't seem to be listening. If you show him that you're listening to what he's saying, you should do something else than nod and say, "Yes," at the right time. You should counter what he's saying by asking more questions, or even rephrasing what he said earlier for extra points.
For example, if he likes Siti Nurhaliza, you could say, “Is it because you used to live in Malaysia? If I lived there since I was little, I think I'd be a fan too.”
Step 5. Don't seduce everyone around you
There is a difference between impressing others and seducing every woman as far as the eye can see. If you want to charm a woman, you have to make her see that she's the only woman you care about. You can charm other women, but make it clear that it's all you care about. If you seduce and attract other women equally, she will feel that you don't think she is special.
Make sure you always pay attention to it, even when talking to other people
Step 6. Give her a small gift
Of course, you can't give her gifts too often, unless you have origami skills and can make pretty flowers out of handkerchiefs. But if you want to see her again, you can entice her with a small gift, like her favorite candy, a small bouquet of flowers you picked yourself, or even a book or CD you discussed with her. You don't have to overdo it because he'll think you're being too insistent, but giving a small, meaningful gift can make him even more impressed.
Giving something with a personal touch will make him feel more special and stunned
Step 7. Dance with her
Women like men who know how to dance. If you're taking dance classes, traditional dance, salsa, or any other type of dance, it's time to show off your moves and dance on the dance floor, if there's a dance floor nearby. But even if you're not a dancer, going to the dance floor and dancing like a goofball is better than acting like you're too cool or afraid to dance.
If you're really scared, take a dance class. This will not only increase your charm level, but also a good way to meet more women
Step 8. Use the name
This is a great way to charm a woman. You don't have to say his name every five seconds because you can sound like a used car salesman. You should try to mention it several times throughout the conversation so that he feels like you really care about him. Try this trick to mesmerize the woman or others around you.
By simply saying, “So this is it, Ami…” you will make her feel special
Step 9. Give him a gentle touch
A woman will be fascinated if you know where you can touch her to make her feel special without overdoing it. When you're comfortable enough with the woman, touch her elbow, shoulder, or knee (if she's sitting). Only do this when the woman is showing you she cares or when you know she is comfortable around you. He will be mesmerized by your gentle touch.
- You can even gently pat her hand when she's telling a sensitive story.
- Of course, don't touch her inappropriate body parts.
Tips
- Smell good; use body spray, cologne, or deodorant, but not too much (one spray is enough).
- Confidence and ambition, without being arrogant, can help you charm a woman.
- Drugs are not an option to maintain confidence to charm a woman. Don't hang your self-confidence on drugs.
- Be honest and tell him how much he means to you.
- Dress modestly. Consider wearing a suit every time you see him. Style can make a difference and all women love suits. A collared shirt is okay if you don't want to wear a suit.
Warning
- Don't try to seduce his friends; this is a big mistake.
- Don't like other women at the same time because women can easily notice it.
- Being hard-to-get is a good thing as long as it doesn't make you dependent or seem hopeless, but don't play with other people's feelings. If he's attracted to you and you really like him, don't try to send a signal. Be sincere, don't pretend. This is a general rule for everyone. It hurts a lot when we like someone and get rejected because that person doesn't want to show their emotions.
- Love yourself. However, limit how much you love yourself because you will come across as selfish.
- If he's not interested, he's not. You don't have to think about it.
