Pleasing a woman's heart is not really a complicated matter; but if you don't know the trick, chances are your efforts will look ridiculous in his eyes!
Basically, this article focuses on a man's efforts to build attraction in the woman he likes through a casual process of communication.
Step
Step 1. Find out what he likes
Even if the subject he likes isn't familiar to you, keep it up. After all, basically, everyone likes to talk about topics that interest him.
Step 2. Find the things he wants – but never – does
For example, teach him how to drive a car or ask him out on a date at a shooting club. The options you have are endless!
Step 3. Invite her to accompany you to the shopping center to try on new clothes
Trust me, she'll be very happy if you ask her opinion on the right dress style; at least, he knows that his opinion is respected. But that doesn't mean you have to buy a super silly outfit just because she likes it, does it! While you're visiting the shopping mall, why not ask her to try on different clothes she likes? Generally, women like to try on clothes that are attractive to their eyes, even though they don't buy them afterwards.
Step 4. Introduce him to your world
Invite him to listen to music or watch a movie that you like.
Step 5. Surprise him
Don't mention the purpose of your date that day; just ask him to trust you.
Step 6. Think of creative things you can do together
For example, invite him to decorate a room or ask him to help complete your collection. Invite him to your house and invite him to cook dinner together.
Step 7. Pleasing a woman doesn't mean making her laugh all the time
You also need to show an interest in his life by asking personal questions; instead, don't be shy about talking about things that are happening in your life. Engage him in pleasant conversation; read the 'Tips' section for ideas for conversation topics that are worth practicing.
Step 8. Don't always try to solve the problem
Believe me, he is smart enough to solve the problems that occur in his life. You can ask what's bothering him, but don't ask what you can do to help him. The first question will show your empathy, while the second will suggest that you think you are too weak or stupid to handle the problem on your own.
Step 9. Remember, it's okay to make jokes that are a little teasing but not obscene
Don't keep doing it either! Do not let you display the impression of harassing or liking it just because of lust.
Step 10. If in the middle of a conversation you notice something is bothering him, ask him to tell it (even though he will burst into tears afterwards)
In fact, it is one of the most widely used therapeutic methods by psychologists. After crying, he's more likely to be attracted to you because you managed to make him feel better (even if it feels contradictory, dealing with sadness and confusion is actually a powerful key to easing someone's mind).
Tips
- If you want to know if he wants you to kiss him or not, try to stop talking in the middle of a conversation, smile gently, and look him in the eye. If he stares back at you for 5 seconds without saying anything, move closer and kiss him (trust me, this method works!).
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Some topic ideas to start the conversation:
- His parents
- Latest fashion trends
- Vacation at sea or mountain
- The pet
- Children
- "What do you most want to learn?" (This question can help you implement Step 2)
- Like to travel or not
- "Where did you buy that shirt?"
- "What do you think is the most important thing in a relationship?"
- Any topic where you can get to know him better (like the topics above). If the woman is not your soul mate, the information you receive can also be used to approach the next woman who comes into your life.
- The key to a successful relationship with women is to enjoy their presence.
- Be original. Avoid standard dating plans that involve dinner and movies. If you want to please him as well as impress him, try taking him for an afternoon walk with the dogs. That way, he won't feel like he's "on a date" with you and the situation will be easier. Plus, you won't have to feel pressured under the terrible shadow of a first date, and you'll be able to feel more relaxed and confident.
- Make sure you are always relaxed. Trust me, you'll find it easier to trap a woman's interest and please her if you don't try.
- Make him his favorite food.
- Be yourself, but keep yourself in control.
Warning
- Don't try too hard to please her. Make sure he doesn't just think of you as an emotional "dumpster" or best friend. Be careful, if he's too comfortable with you, you're likely not going to have a chance to fill his romantic life.
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Some topics you shouldn't bring up in the conversation:
- Politics and religion (though some people like to talk about it)
- Sexually transmitted disease
- Race issues (even if you both come from different racial backgrounds!)
- Generalizations about “men and women”
- Your (or her) previous relationship
