As long as you're comfortable with yourself, it's easy to kiss your boyfriend and make him like him. The average man likes it when his woman takes the first steps, then arouses his passion during your hot kissing session. If you want to know how to make your boyfriend fall in love with you in just a few minutes, follow these steps.
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Part 1 of 2: Getting Started
Step 1. Find a comfortable place
This is important, because you won't get in the right mood if you have to start in the parking lot of a fast food restaurant. Maybe you could go to a darker underground parking area with only the television shining on you, or an enclosed hollow in a park; in those places the risk of being caught actually increases your adrenaline. Even in the back seat of the car can be an option. Go to places that can arouse the desire to kiss.
You both need to be comfortable too; no stress, no rush to leave, and ready for the next step after kissing
Step 2. Soften your lips
The way to make your boyfriend enjoy kissing you is to soften your lips with lip balm. If you don't have one, just lick your lips. Do this 15 minutes before kissing. That way, he will be more excited and focused on your lips. Just don't apply too thick lip balm to make your boyfriend uncomfortable.
If you want to wear a thick, colored lip gloss, apply it at least 1-2 hours before kissing
Step 3. Seduce him
Let your boyfriend know that you're passionate. Have fun, and bring him closer. Tease him by gently tugging, squeezing his shoulders, throwing cute jokes, or simply playing with your hair. Make him want you. Kissing can't be done right away, there has to be a bit of flirting to make him want you.
Compliment your boyfriend when you're flirting with him. Let him know that he looks handsome in your eyes
Step 4. Pull her body closer
Let him know that he's not the only one in control. Your boyfriend will be happy if you take the initiative instead of waiting for him to make the first move. Most men will actually feel relieved, because they can take turns giving control to their partner. Hug him, give him your charming smile, and pull him close until your bodies are pressed together and you are looking at each other.
Maintain eye contact as you pull him closer
Step 5. Don't give up too soon
Always tease him. Get in each of his space, then give a little distance at the last moment before your lips meet. Pausing for a few seconds will make him stop, but of course he'll get more curious and make him want you more. Wait for him to pull you closer and start with a soft, gentle kiss. When you are more comfortable, use a little tongue to flirt, until you really do a French kiss (french kiss).
Don't just put your tongue in his mouth. First, slide the tip of your tongue against his lips, until both of your tongues are in each other's mouths, then move your tongues in a circular motion, or alternately placing them on top of each other's tongues
Part 2 of 2: Warming Up
Step 1. Explore her body
Once you have started the kiss, you should run your hands all over his body. Touch his shoulders, chest, waist, neck, arms, and any part of the body above his belt. And, if you feel really comfortable, there's nothing wrong with placing your hand on the groin area to make him even more excited. However, do this if you really already have a very close relationship.
- The most important thing is to always touch his body with your hands. There's no need to rush. Just explore his body slowly as your body is getting closer to his body.
- Remember: this is only done if you are used to kissing your boyfriend. If you haven't reached that stage yet, you don't have to run your fingers all over his body, or let him touch you everywhere. By touching each other freely, he'll think you're ready to do more.
Step 2. Gently bite or gently suck on her lips
If you're feeling a little "wild" and are already comfortable with each other, you can do this. But remember, bite his lips as gently as possible, then increase the pressure slowly. Don't bite hard right away. There's nothing more deadly than a girlfriend who is in pain because you bite her lip until it bleeds.
Not all guys like bites, so don't be discouraged if it turns out to be making your boyfriend uncomfortable. However, if he likes it, he will be even more excited
Step 3. Whisper in his ear
Romantic words are important. Whispering in your boyfriend's ear during the kissing process will provide a tingling sensation in the area near his ears and neck, so it will taste better. Making him feel your hot breath against his ear will make him want you even more, despite the fact that whispering is sexy - as long as you know what to say.
- Do not exaggerate. Just use words like, “I love you”, “You are hot”, or “You are good at kissing”. That would make him very happy.
- If he's doing something that excites you, you can say, "I love it when you…"
Step 4. Kiss her neck and earlobe
It is important not to focus too much on the lips. After kissing your lips for a few minutes, you can move your lips to your boyfriend's earlobes and neck. If he responds well, you can take a small bite of the part. Once you've mastered the biting technique, your boyfriend will go "crazy" and you can put more pressure on your bite to make him even more excited.
You can also kiss his neck and lick him a little, then give a few gentle puffs to make your girlfriend go "crazy"
Step 5. Play with her hair
The head is one of the most sensitive parts of the male body, so don't ignore it. Run your fingers through her hair, stroke it gently, and keep playing your fingers through her hair when you kiss her or even during a kiss break. Making eye contact while playing with your fingers on his head will also provide a pleasant sensation. Just do it gently.
Basically, you can always do anything with your hands. Don't just fold it in your lap. So, if you're taking a break from exploring her body, you're touching her hair. Let him do it for you too
Step 6. Sit on her lap, face to face, with her legs straddling her
Men like it when a woman takes control and sits astride him in the middle of your kissing session. However, before doing this, make sure you are both passionate enough, have touched each other, and are sitting in a comfortable place, such as a sofa, or standing near a chair, so you can straddle them without feeling awkward.
- You can straddle his body while kissing and wrap your arms around his neck.
- However, this method is not recommended for first kisses - you have to get really comfortable with your boyfriend before doing this.
Step 7. Suck the fingers
If you and your boyfriend are comfortable with each other, feel free to suck his finger while you make eye contact. This interlude is exactly what your boyfriend wants to fuel his passion even more. Sucking your finger also shows that you are enjoying the session and are comfortable enough to try new things that are a little weird.
Don't overdo it. Once in each kissing session is enough really
Step 8. Keep doing other things too, don't just focus on one move
For example; don't keep sitting astride your boyfriend, don't keep kissing his neck, whispering in his ear, or whatever else you're doing. Mix it all in one kissing session. Continue to do variations, from body position to kissing style. You can gently kiss her lips, do a French kiss, bite her lips, kiss other areas of her body, or do it all at once as long as you can arouse the boyfriend's passion.
Don't get so hung up on the kiss itself (especially a French kiss) that you don't move your arms or change positions. Your boyfriend will be bored
Step 9. Let him know how much you like him
Feel free to smile afterwards and show how much you enjoyed the kissing session. Gently kiss her on the lips, stroke her hair, or simply tell her how much you love her, so your boyfriend will feel like he knows you really want him. Don't be shy and pretend that the kissing session never happened. He's too smart to know that you're faking it and actually like him too.
Give him your sweetest smile and say, "You're great!"
Tips
- Try getting him to put his hands on your waist and see where he directs his hands next.
- Some guys think you're cute if you're possessive about his body, like suddenly grabbing his t-shirt, tugging at him, and kissing him passionately. Just make sure you don't do it so fast and recklessly that your noses bump into each other. And make sure that both of you are used to kissing and are comfortable with each other before trying it.
- Start slowly, then increase the speed gradually.
- Make sure you talk about the session afterward so that if there's a part you don't like, you can fix it in the future.
- Men usually like it when you stroke their chest. However, still make sure whether your boyfriend really likes it or not before you do it.
- Also make sure you get the appropriate response afterwards to find out if the boyfriend likes what you do or not.
- Try a French kiss if all goes well.
- Make sure you don't lose control.
- Lick his cheek. Some guys like this.
- Don't hesitate to tell her that you want to kiss. If he's slow to pick up on your signals, just tell him straight away!
Warning
- You should only kiss if it's enjoyable for both parties (don't force him to do something he doesn't want).
- Make sure you don't move too fast.
- Don't tell him outright that you're going to take control, because that will destroy everything.
