Have you and your partner been in a relationship for a while, but have never kissed? Are you afraid to take the first step? Kisses are fun and exciting, but also intense and very intimate. However, there is nothing to be afraid of. With a little effort, you can kiss your partner without waiting any longer.
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Method 1 of 3: Using Body Language
Step 1. Make physical contact
A kiss is a very intimate contact. You can start with a warm touch. Find excuses to touch your partner, or stand close to them to show that you're ready.
- Lean towards him.
- Wrap your arms around his body.
- Pick up an eyelash that fell on his face.
- Fix the shirt labels sticking out.
Step 2. Draw attention towards your lips
By deliberately accentuating the lips, your partner will think about the kiss, and then want to kiss you. Direct his attention to your mouth in a subtle way.
- Use lipstick or lip balm.
- Eat fruit, such as strawberries.
- Gently bite your lower lip.
Step 3. Establish eye contact
Perhaps the most obvious sign of wanting to be kissed is eye contact. When with your partner, try to hold his gaze as much as possible. Eye contact will build intimacy, and signal that you want to be kissed.
- A good time to make eye contact is while playing cards, while eating, or when sitting together on the couch.
- Try to stare at him for 10-15 seconds at a time.
Step 4. Try cuddling
If you and your partner have formed intimacy and comfort, try hugging him. Rest your head on his shoulder, or give him a long hug. The more physical touch between two people, the more likely a kiss will occur.
Try cuddling while on the bus or watching TV
Step 5. Create opportunities
Dating usually ends with a "goodnight kiss". At the end of the date, he's more likely to think about whether or not to kiss you. Help him by providing lots of hints.
When it's time to part, find a way to touch him, look him in the eyes, and direct his attention to your lips
Method 2 of 3: Creating the Right Atmosphere
Step 1. Find a private place
Kissing outside when it's raining may seem romantic, but most people prefer to kiss in private. Kisses are more likely if you can find a place for just the two of you.
- Take a walk in the park.
- Go to a restaurant during low hours (e.g., 3 p.m.)
- Together at home.
- Make sure you choose a safe area and follow the rules.
Step 2. Take him to a movie
Lots of first kisses happen while watching a movie. Watching in the cinema or at home, this is an opportunity to relax with your partner. Usually, this one activity ends with a kiss.
- Romantic films can add to the intimacy.
- Horror movies are a reason to embrace it.
- Funny movies convey positive feelings.
Step 3. Apply fragrance
Perfumes and colognes were found to attract the opposite sex. Wear a sweet and light fragrance to lure your partner to kiss you. Be careful not to overdo it. A body that is too fragrant produces the opposite effect.
- An example of a nice feminine scent is Clinique Happy.
- A light masculine scent can be obtained from the Lacoste Challenge perfume.
Step 4. Brush your teeth
One of the most important preparations for kissing is making sure the mouth is clean and fresh. So brush your teeth, floss, and use mouthwash before meeting your partner.
You can bring mouthwash or mints just in case
Method 3 of 3: Sending Seduction Signals
Step 1. Whisper sweet words
One of the most powerful ways to flirt and send a signal that you want to be kissed is to whisper in his ear. Get close to your body and say, "Thanks for a nice date." Your close body, almost touching faces, and your exhalation will surely trigger the urge to kiss.
You can also give simple compliments, such as “I like your clothes,” or “You smell good.”
Step 2. Praise him
By making your partner feel confident, you are also giving him the courage to kiss. Say a few things you like about him. If you dare, say that you like her lips.
- For example, “Your eyes are beautiful.”
- You could also say, “You're always nice to strangers on the street. I like it."
- If you're brave, say, “You have nice lips. I like the shape."
Step 3. Talk about kissing
It's possible that your partner isn't thinking about kissing. You can get him to think about that (and encourage him to kiss you) by bringing up the topic of kissing.
- If you see other people kissing (in a movie or in a cafe), comment on them. You could say, "They're having a lot of fun, it looks like fun."
- Or you could say, “You know what, the human mouth is full of nerve endings? That's why kissing feels good."
- You can also say frankly, "If you want, I want to kiss you."
Step 4. Just be sure
If all means and cues fail, just kiss him first. Sometimes, you have to take the initiative. Gather confidence and seek courage by observing positive signals. Does he look you in the eye, stand very close, and compliment you? If so, chances are he's waiting to be kissed.
- Ask before acting. Asking will relieve the nervousness because you have already got confirmation that he is willing or not.
- If you are nervous, excuse yourself for a moment and take a deep breath.
- Focus on how you will feel after the kiss (relaxed, relieved, romantic), and the nervousness will go away.
Tips
- Treat lips so that they are always smooth before kissing your partner.
- Relax and calm. The kiss will happen by itself.
- Avoid sticky lip gloss.
- Don't get too caught up in the kiss.
- If he's shy, you can ask permission first. Don't let him walk away in fear.
- Make sure you are sure before kissing.
- A supportive place is very important. Do not kiss in public places such as trains or buses because other people will be disturbed to see it. Instead, choose a place like a cinema.
- Bring mint candy or breath spray, and apply before kissing.
