Making love at school age, especially in middle school, is often considered monkey love or a non-serious situation. However, don't make that assumption stop you from dating anyone! If you really like someone and want to date them, make sure you still fulfill your responsibilities as a good boyfriend to them.
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Step 1. Don't treat her badly
You certainly know that women are sensitive creatures; but the truth is, men have feelings too! Therefore, never treat him badly. If your relationship is only filled with negativity, try to rethink whether you and he really are the right person for each other.
Step 2. Make him feel optimistic and confident
Give him short compliments, and show some jealousy; do whatever it takes to make her feel better. Let him win the game you've always won, etc. Remember, every man is different; therefore, get to know him more closely to know what kind of things can make him happy.
Step 3. Be yourself
Remember, he has chosen you, not another woman around him. Therefore, do not hesitate to show who you really are. If he doesn't like you for who you are, then he's not really the right girlfriend for you.
Step 4. Treat him sincerely and romantically
Trust me, he will definitely be overjoyed if you hug or hug him. Don't ever think, 'Oh, I guess he doesn't like being cuddled because he's shy'. Remember, even a shy person will not mind receiving a warm hug from the person closest to them. However, make sure your actions make him comfortable. If he seems uncomfortable, pull yourself away and stop doing it.
Step 5. Give him space
Be careful, he can feel suffocated if he is not allowed out of your territory. You don't want to be followed by the same people all day, do you? So does your boyfriend! However, always remember that everyone has different preferences; So, make sure you first understand your boyfriend's character.
Step 6. Ask questions about your relationship with him
Doing so might make things awkward between you; however, imagine how awkward your relationship would be if you didn't! Trust me, this method is worth trying.
Step 7. Have a chat with him
Remember, communication is the key to every relationship. If you have poor communication with him, how will he know your feelings and thoughts?
Step 8. Don't get mad if he seems to be paying less attention to you or doesn't look you in the eye when he's talking
Most likely, he's just embarrassed or doesn't know what to do if he gets caught staring at you. Remember, just because he's not looking at you doesn't mean he isn't thinking about you. Don't expect him to be constantly watching you; remember, he also has a life outside of your relationship. If he is a shy person, take the initiative to invite him to interact. Maybe, after that he can be more open to you!
Step 9. Make him feel important in your life (it really is, isn't it?
). Make sure he knows that his existence is important to you. If there is a problem that colors your relationship, don't hesitate to solve it right away! Save your relationship by not getting used to procrastinating to solve problems. If you don't want to talk to him face to face, try getting him to talk via text message or online chat; even if it's not ideal, at least it's still better than being completely silent until the relationship ends on its own.
Step 10. Tell him honestly if he made the wrong decision
If necessary, ban him and show him you care. Trust me, he will thank you later.
Step 11. Don't make him fight for you
Remember, some guys don't like the situation.
Step 12. Kiss him if you really want to kiss him
Don't ever ask him to kiss you, okay?
Step 13. Visit his house, meet his parents, and keep his interest in you
Believe me, these three things are effective in perpetuating your romantic relationship.
Step 14. Don't say things you don't really want to say
For example, don't say "I love you" if you don't really love him. If you say that, then cut ties with him a few days later, he'll feel like he's being toyed with.
Step 15. Express your feelings to him on a regular basis
Make sure he always knows how you are feeling and why you are feeling it.
Step 16. Be an honest boyfriend and always appreciate it
Step 17. Surprise him with your creativity
Step 18. Don't piss him off
Be careful, guys (especially those in their teens) can say mean and inappropriate things when they're angry.
Step 19. Don't make her sad or make her mood worse
Step 20. Don't cheat
If you really want to end the relationship with him, make sure you tell him in person. Don't tarnish your image by betraying him!
Step 21. Don't criticize his friends and/or family
Step 22. Try not to send text messages that say “I love you” to people who are not your boyfriend and family
Be careful, he can misunderstand.
Tips
- Make sure he likes your personality, not just your physical appearance.
- Joke with him; Trust me, there's nothing sexier than a woman with a great sense of humor.
- Don't embarrass or tease her if she's shorter than you.
- If he is a shy person, make sure you are the one who initiates the conversation.
- Make your friends like it; that way, he can travel with your friends when needed.
- If he's always there for you when you need some time out, try to convey your wishes calmly.
- Never be sarcastic with him.
- Don't tell the secret to anyone. Trust me, humiliating him in front of many people will lose his trust in you.
- Don't rush into something more serious; give him time to settle down next to you, and vice versa.
- Invite him to joke but make sure your jokes don't hurt him.
Warning
- Don't have an affair. This warning is so obvious it shouldn't be necessary. If he finds out you betrayed him, your relationship situation will definitely deteriorate. In addition, it is possible that he will feel inferior because he feels that he is not good enough for you. After all, you are reading this article because you want to Becomes good boyfriend, right?
- Show your confidence. Trust me, everything will turn out well at the right time. If you always think the worst assumptions about everything, don't be surprised if negative things come to you afterward.
- If he wants to spend time with his friends, don't stop him! Instead, make him trust you more by asking him to have fun.
- Don't be by his side all the time. Give him space to do his hobbies and spend time with his other closest people; trust me, he'll just feel more comfortable and won't mind spending more time with you.
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Don't be an annoying boyfriend.
As cruel as it sounds, constantly complaining when your boyfriend chooses to spend time with his friends will make you look like a nuisance. In addition, never procrastinate to resolve problems in the relationship.
- ' Don't be an obsessive boyfriend. It's okay to give gifts every now and then; However, don't go overboard by buying couple shirts with ridiculous designs. Don't always stick by his side if you don't want to scare him. Trust me, your relationship can actually end if you continue to over-treat it.
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Don't criticize his friends and/or family.
Even if there are friends or relatives that you don't like, never tell your boyfriend. Be careful, he can cut ties with you if he feels hurt when he hears about it.
