Finding a girl to be a girlfriend is not easy. To get him to like you, you have to make a good impression, make him curious, and ask him out with enough confidence. However, you shouldn't feel intimidated-if you do the techniques right and follow the easy tips below, you'll get a high school boyfriend fast.
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Method 1 of 3: Getting His Attention
Step 1. Be outstanding
This is the first step to getting a girl's attention. If you look or act like someone else, he won't notice you. But that doesn't mean you have to be weird or wear brightly colored clothes. That means you have to take the opportunity and be yourself. Here's how to do it:
- Make a good impression with your antics. If you are in class or in a social situation, make witty and witty comments when the other person is thinking to show them that you are both funny and intelligent.
- Surprise him with your charm. Learn how to speak smooth when you talk to everyone, whether it's your English teacher or your shy lab colleague. Being charming means you can talk to anyone and can make other people feel comfortable talking to you. If you do this, your crush will surely be impressed.
- Be at the forefront. If you're a history buff, soccer star, and head of the arts, then the girl you're crushing on will know you. Of course you can't do everything, but the more active you are in school, the more likely you are to meet him and he will be impressed by your abilities.
- Don't stand out in the bad. If you're a student who often gets punished or argues with your teacher, he may find you funny, but he won't see you as a potential mate.
Step 2. Don't act confident- be confident
Just face it. Most people don't feel confident in high school. Not only do your body and voice change, but you walk around surrounded by confusing hormones and new emotions, all the while trying to keep up with schoolwork and social life. Even if the people around you appear confident, there is a possibility that they are simply hiding their insecurities with arrogance, and this is something you should avoid. Here's how to get him to see you without looking too confident:
- Set aside time to dress up. This doesn't mean you have to spend hours styling your hair with gel or grinning in the mirror. Just make sure you shower regularly, style your hair, and wear clothes that make you look good and show your style. Also make sure to wear pants that really fit your size.
- Pursue your interests. Really. No matter how nerd you are because of your interests, if you really like something, make it cool. Don't try out for a soccer team just because all your friends are following you, and you prefer golf, or French. Your crush won't be impressed if you look like a follower. Followers lack self-confidence.
- Don't be afraid to be enthusiastic. Even if you think you're confident when you look too cool to go to school or relax in the back seat in class, true confidence shows when you're eager to learn about the world. If you are interested in something taught in class, ask questions. You'll impress the girl you like because you seem so comfortable with yourself that you do whatever you want.
- Be aware of the shortcomings. Part of being confident is knowing that you're not perfect. Everyone in high school is still developing, and that's natural. If you know you need to be more sensitive or be a better friend, do those things.
Step 3. Be fun
Girls want to have fun, and they don't want to date guys who are gloomy or gloomy. Even if you can't smile all the time and high school can be a tough time, make it sound like you're having fun. That way, you'll feel like you're having fun and he'll want to join you. Below are tips for being a fun person:
- Be friends with everyone. While dealing with youth issues in high school can be a bit difficult and you can't be part of all the gangs at school, you should try to get to know different people. You will show your crush that you are a friendly person and don't care about the status of the person you are talking to, in other words, show that you are an outgoing person.
- Leave the haters. Don't hang out with guys who are rude to women, or who prank uncool anal kids. Girls are very uninterested in that, and you shouldn't hang out with haters because you'll end up being a hater too.
- Always laugh. Laugh and smile as much as possible. If you are surrounded by positive energy, your crush will come to you.
Method 2 of 3: Make Him Feel Special
Step 1. Start chatting with the girl you like at school
When the girl notices you, it's time to level up by taking what she's saying more seriously. You should still act nonchalantly like you don't really want to talk to her, but slowly, start to show that you think she's the coolest girl at school. Here's how you do it:
- Chat with him in front of the locker. Say "hi" and ask where the next class is. Make it look like you just happened to pass by his locker. You can make him laugh by saying, "Is it okay if I check my hair?" then look in the mirror in his locker.
- Start walking with him down the corridor. Everyone knows that a boyfriend's main role is to accompany his girlfriend from class to class, even if your class is far apart. If you're in the same class, walk with him to the next class, and make him laugh along the way. You can show your nonchalant attitude and part with him to go to your class while still half way through. Make him feel how great it would be if he had a girlfriend.
- Amaze him in class. Show your prowess by knowing all the answers to your teacher's questions without being a geek. Make your classmates laugh without being the class clown. Turned to him to see his reaction.
Step 2. Make eye contact at school events
Whether at a school play or at a party, there are several ways to show him that he's special to you and to make him want to hang out with you. You have to compensate for the nonchalant attitude and put all your effort into asking her out. Here's how you do it:
- If you see him in a school play or at a talent show, ask him if he likes it. Show that his opinion is very valuable to you. Don't chat with him for too long-go away to make him wish you'd chatted him longer.
- If you're at a party, walk up to the girl and dance with silly moves. Then, put on a serious face when you ask him if he likes your moves. If he's provoked, you can ask him to dance with him.
- If you're at a club or do the same sport as him, ask him how he's doing without coming off as a sycophant.
Step 3. Get his attention after school
If you see your crush at a party or at the mall, that's your chance to be alone with her and let her see that you can be the best boyfriend ever. When you are away from school, you can relax and unwind a bit. Show him that you are yourself and don't care what other people think.
- If you run into her at the mall by accident, ask what store she went to. If she's carrying a shopping bag, ask her what she bought and tell her that you're sure whatever she's buying will suit her. You'll earn extra points if you tell her she looks beautiful when she sees her in the sweater she showed you at school.
- If you run into him at the cinema by accident, ask him what movies he's seen recently or what movies he's about to see. Give your opinion on the movie you just watched. However, don't say that everything is boring to you.
- If you see him at a party, talk to him, but don't chat all night. Chat with a few other girls to show that you can get along with just about anyone. However, don't seduce anyone because they will feel nothing special.
Method 3 of 3: Saying Your Feelings
Step 1. Ask her out on a date
In high school in the United States, when you start dating a girl, she's generally your boyfriend, but you still have to be nonchalant when asking her out. If he agrees, it doesn't mean he's automatically your boyfriend-he's just testing you out to see if you're a good match. So, when you date him, you have to show your qualities. Here's how to do it:
- Be a gentleman. Bring her flowers, open the door, and give her your jacket if she feels cold. Most boys in high school are not very sensitive to a girl. So you have to be the first man to treat her like a woman.
- Feel free to compliment him. You don't always have to overwhelm him with affection when you're just asking him out. However, you have to say, "You look beautiful tonight". You can even compliment her outfit or jewelry. He must have spent a lot of time looking good and he's sure to love your compliments.
- Learn about his interests. You have to come up with an interesting topic, unless you're watching a movie with it. Prepare some interesting things to say, whether it's related to his interests, your family, or just a funny thing that happened at school. Don't say bad things about other people or say things don't interest you.
- Take him to a place where he can feel special. Take him out on a picnic or buy some ice cream. If a good restaurant has just opened, take him there if he likes it. If he wants to go to the movies and eat at a local restaurant, that's fine. However, treat each date like an important date and try to pay all the bills if he doesn't mind.
- Always make him feel special. Without sounding like an interview, you should ask about his interests, his friends, his family, and his opinion on a few things.
- Turn off. Cell phone. You. Point.
Step 2. State your feelings
You can ask at the end of the date, after the first kiss, or a little later than your first date. When he's ready, tell him how you feel, because you shouldn't let him think that you're just trying to make fun of him. As soon as you find the right moment (and alone), you can express your feelings.
- Make sure you do it in a quiet place, so your friends or their friends can't hear anything.
- Look into his eyes. Face him to show that you give him your full attention.
- Keep it simple. Just say, “I really like talking to you”, or “I've never met a girl like you”. Then say, "Would you like to be my girlfriend?"
- “Don't share your feelings through your friends. You're not in middle school anymore. You have entered a more serious stage.
Step 3. React like a gentleman
Whether he accepts you as his girlfriend or rejects you outright, you need to look as confident and mature as you show when you're friends with him. But if he refuses your invitation, you have to be able to respond in kind because otherwise you will come across as an asshole.
- If he says “yes”, show your happiness. You don't have to do some weird dancing, but you can show him how much you love him.
- If he says "no", don't be disappointed. Just say, “Fine. There's nothing wrong with trying, right? End with a compliment and say good luck. High school is the place to find the girl you love, and even though she may seem like the only girl you like, your school or town is full of amazing girls. Since you already have experience in trying to win a girl's love, it will be easier for you to find someone who really wants to be your boyfriend.
Tips
- Confidence is sexy, but remember that the difference between confidence and arrogance is only a fine line.
- Looking good is good, but don't look "cozy". Girls love to talk about themselves, but not when you're too busy fixing your hair in the mirror. Girls want a man, not a snotty boy.
- Remember that awkward silences are natural. Showing that you're comfortable sitting still for a few moments is way cooler than looking frantic when the conversation starts to evaporate.
- Don't go overboard when trying to impress her. Girls think all men are shallow if they are too arrogant. Be humble and you will get his love slowly, but rest assured that you will surely get his love.
- Whether you like looking like a bad boy, or looking well-groomed, you don't have to look like a thug-bad guys can be sexy and presentable. Bad boys are rebels, but not soap rebels! Look sexy and “dangerous”, and make sure your hair is smooth and soft so the girls will want to stroke your hair instead of worrying about having their hands stuck in your hair forever.
- Relax a little. Don't be too tense and don't treat her like she's already perfect. Be cool, relaxed, and confident. Girls love confidence and if you look uptight, he will feel tense too. You have to feel good about yourself.
