Everyone wants to kiss their crush, but no one wants to be kissed by a stranger. If you want to kiss your crush unexpectedly, you need to have spent time together, be able to read body language, and create the perfect moment to give the kiss.
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Method 1 of 3: Spending Time Together
Step 1. Try to approach him when doing activities together or while in class
Use events such as gatherings or meetings that you both attend together to build a relationship with your crush. This will give you a chance to seduce him.
For example, if you are both taking the same chemistry class, sit next to him so you can ask questions
Step 2. Invite him to do activities in groups
After spending time in public, invite your crush for a group activity.
- Group activities, such as having lunch or playing softball, are ideal because your crush will get to know you without the pressure of a date. Choose an activity where you can talk. For example, invite him to play a game instead of watching a movie. That way, you can talk more often.
- For example, you might say, “My friend and I want to try a meal at a new BBQ restaurant this weekend. Do you want to come along?" Make sure you mention that you will be going in groups.
- After successfully gathering in groups, you should invite them more often. Try to involve your crush in various social aspects of your life. This way, your unexpected kiss will feel like something you've been waiting for, not a rude surprise. Be patient. This process can take a long time.
Step 3. Try to do both
After successfully getting him to do activities in a group, ask your crush to go alone with you. This should not be considered a date. The goal is to make your crush enjoy spending time with you so you can build a romance and you can be prepared to give the unexpected kiss.
- For example, to ask your crush to go out alone, you could say, “This Saturday should be sunny. You want to accompany me to play putt golf?” or “I've been wanting to eat at the new cafe on Jalan Sudirman for a long time. Would you like to dine with me this Thursday?”
- Try to avoid date-related activities, such as dinner and movies, as these can take away the effect of surprise on your kiss. Competitive activities are more fun and will keep your crush guessing.
- If your crush refuses your invitation to go out together or seems unfriendly, understand that not all love is reciprocated. It's best not to kiss someone who seems uncomfortable when you're alone.
Method 2 of 3: Using Touch and Body Language to Measure Attractiveness
Step 1. Read her body language
Your crush's body language can give you an idea of how he feels when you two go out together. A more open posture, such as spread legs and hands on the waist, indicates a sense of comfort. A more closed posture, such as crossed knees or folded arms, indicates discomfort.
Try to read your crush's body language to gauge how comfortable he is around you. This can help you figure out when the time is right for the unexpected kiss
Step 2. Try to hold her hand
If your crush's body language indicates that he's comfortable around you, try making physical contact, such as nudging his arm or holding his hand. This can help you predict whether an unexpected kiss will make her happy or not.
Step 3. Try to kiss her cheek
If you're afraid that your crush will reject your unexpected kiss, try kissing her on the cheek. If he's comfortable with that, he may want to accept a more intimate kiss from you.
Method 3 of 3: Giving an Unexpected Natural Kiss
Step 1. Spend a little more time alone
At the end of the meeting with your crush, spend a little more time than usual. Try to stop your speech naturally. Even if you feel nervous, don't try to fill the silence with words. This will naturally provoke unexpected moments.
Making the moment you've been waiting for before kissing will make it feel more exciting and unexpected
Step 2. Maintain the best possible personal hygiene
To get other people to kiss you, make sure your breath is fresh and your body doesn't smell bad. You can also use an unflavored lip balm to soften your lips.
- Brush your teeth twice a day (especially your tongue) and floss between your teeth regularly to keep your mouth clean when you kiss.
- Use deodorant every day. This is very important, especially if you are nervous and sweat a lot around your crush.
Step 3. Try to minimize the distance between your body and your crush
This will give a signal that you want to get closer to him without appearing too passionate and so the element of surprise remains.
For example, if you take your crush to your doorstep, don't walk far apart. If there are stairs, you can equalize the difference in height between you by standing on the higher or lower step
Step 4. Say something nice and unexpected
Now that you've created moments of physical closeness, it's time to create emotional closeness. Say something sweet and surprising to make your crush feel close. It is very important to believe what you say because the emotion behind it will be very clear.
For example, while making eye contact say "I feel really attracted to you today."
Step 5. Stop and watch her lips
Don't say anything after making a shocking comment. Create a thrilling moment between you two. Observe his lips, no more than 2 seconds, then look into his eyes.
- Try to open your mouth slightly as if you were about to receive a kiss, as long as you do the above.
- If he looks at your lips too, that's a good sign.
Step 6. Lean over to kiss her, then lightly touch your lips to hers
If he feels the same way, he will welcome your kiss. However, if he looks away, don't push yourself. Respect his wishes and understand that he doesn't feel the same way.
