This sounds like something out of a movie, but if it works, your win will be just as sweet as it was in the movies. Getting a guy in 10 days means that you have to put in extra speed, not be afraid to act first, and get yourself noticed in a significant way.
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Part 1 of 3: Dress like the girl he likes and impress her
Step 1. For the next 10 days, wear your best clothes
Keep a good balance between casual and formal, charming girl and ordinary girl, look sexy sweet and alluring. Don't be afraid to take risks on your style, but above all, make sure that what you wear is the best.
- If you feel like the new top or jeans will make you look great, buy it. There's nothing wrong with giving yourself a gift, especially if it makes you feel good.
- When you know what type of girl he likes, try to dress like that girl. Don't be someone you're not, but try to incorporate these elements of style into your wardrobe.
Step 2. Always clean
Make sure your body smells good by showering every day. If you can't shower for various reasons, give the areas of your body that are prone to odors, especially the armpits, take a small shower with a little soap and rinse with a little water.
Make sure your hair is not greasy. Oily hair, for most people, is unattractive. If you have very oily skin, you may need to wash your hair every other day (or every other day if it's too much)
Step 3. Pay attention to your face
Your face is an important part of all the factors that will attract him to you, so make sure your face looks as beautiful as possible. There's no big change you can make in 10 days, but you should focus on:
- Get rid of pimples and blackheads. If you have acne, wash your face twice a day, apply moisturizer after every face wash, eat healthy, and use acne-fighting products.
- Use makeup to cover blemishes or imperfections. Guys like girls with natural looks, so don't wear heavy makeup. Use a little but it's effective.
- Trim the hairs on your face, if necessary. If your eyebrows are unruly, consider trimming them. If you have hair above your lips, consider removing it.
- Make your lips look sweet and attractive to kiss. A little lip balm and lip gloss can put your lips in very kissable territory.
Step 4. Find a hairstyle that suits you
Maybe you already like your hairstyle now. Otherwise, it's important to find a hairstyle that matches your face. You may opt for short hair, adding curls and volume is another option!
Step 5. Start exercising
10 days won't be enough to get fit, but it's a good start. What's important is that you treat your body with love and give it what it needs. Try the following exercise combinations if you want to be physically fit.
- Join an intramural sports league/team. If you like playing football, try joining a league. If basketball is right for you, do it with a group of other basketball lovers. Join the team that makes you want to exercise.
- Consider joining a gym or using gym equipment. Joining a gym will allow you to take advantage of many different tools, all under one roof. Take advantage of the gym for cardio exercises such as running (treadmill, incline), swimming, and cycling (spinning).
- Otherwise, try walking for 30 minutes every day. Walking for 30 minutes every day gives your body a small but important workout. If you can't join a sports team or the gym, and don't want to do cardio, then walking will be enough to help you exercise.
Part 2 of 3: Make a Contract, Start Flirting
Step 1. Get his attention
You have to make an impression, and you have to do it fast. Put on your best clothes, style your hair, put on your makeup and nail polish, and find ways to introduce him or get him to notice you on his own. Here are some suggestions that can be done:
- Deliberately bumping into him or just bumping into the shoulder. Maybe you can pretend you're in a rush and accidentally bump into him. When your eyes meet, introduce yourself.
- Ask a friend to introduce you. Get your friend to talk to the guy. Make him play the matchmaker role, just don't make it obvious.
- Approach him and get his attention. Ask him about school, or give him a compliment. Talk about interests you both might have, or start with a joke.
Step 2. Smile, laugh at his jokes, and send good body language
Show him your sweet smile, it will brighten the mood and make you happier. If he makes a joke, remember to laugh, even if it's not really that funny. Do a few small things to send her good body language:
- Look into his eyes when you talk to him and when he talks to you.
- Turn your body towards it and keep your posture open and attractive.
- Run your fingers through your hair if you want him to notice.
Step 3. Have a great conversation when you can
Guys like pretty girls, but they also like girls they can talk to. If they are interested in you, but have nothing to talk about, your relationship will not last long.
- A few keys to having a great conversation:
- Ask good questions. Do this as a way to keep the conversation flowing ("So where did you live before moving here?") and as a way to let him know that you're actively listening ("You said you didn't like action movies. men like you?").
- Give him information about yourself. He may also be interested in you, so don't waste time just asking questions without providing information about yourself.
- Refresh awkward situations with humor. If you find yourself in a particularly awkward situation, say so! "Sorry that was awkward, I'm a clumsy queen" is a funny way to lighten the mood.
Step 4. Start eliminating touch boundaries
After a few days, start hinting that you want to move on to something more than a casual friendship by using your hands to break the boundaries of touch. When you try to emphasize something, clap his hands. If you want to cheer him up (perhaps jokingly), give him a soothing pat on the back. If he likes to joke around, you might even be able to tickle him and get good results.
Step 5. Start flirting in various ways
You can flirt in three ways:
- Via text message or the internet:
- Send a message that goes something like: "Hey! I really enjoyed last week's conversation. Hopefully we can do it again soon…."
- Or send a message in a joking tone: "Since when do you look like a cave monster in the morning??:-) You look like you don't sleep!"
- With body language:
- Wrap your fingers in your hair, curl your lashes gently, and giggle in a cute way.
- Rubbing the chest or thighs, which is very suggestive, use only occasionally.
- With compliments:
- Try something like: "So how often do girls get attracted to you like a magnet every time you leave the house?"
- Or maybe something like: "You're really fun to talk to. Why doesn't a special guy like you have a girlfriend?"
Part 3 of 3: Make Him Commit to You
Step 1. Subtly suggest dating ideas if he hasn't asked you yet
You want to push him in the right direction if he hasn't asked you out yet. You can do this in a number of ways:
- Brave and outspoken: "Why haven't you asked me out yet?" If he likes you, he will ask you out right away.
- Subtle: "My friend and I were planning to go to the movies tomorrow night, but he canceled and I don't know what to do." He can suggest that you and he do something.
Step 2. If he doesn't budge, have your friend "accidentally" blurt out that you like him (optional)
You don't have to, but if you want to get a guy in 10 days, you have to be bolder than usual. This method is popular for two reasons:
- Sometimes a guy likes you but he doesn't really know how to show his feelings or how to ask you out. If he knows you like him too, it can give him the courage to ask you out without worrying about being rejected.
- If he doesn't like you, you'll know. You can look beautiful in 50 ways and still not be able to convince a guy to like you. That's life sometimes. If your friend tells him that you like him and he doesn't react, what's the point of going after him? There's very little you can do to get him to like you without making it seem like he's forcing him to be your girlfriend, and you certainly don't want to do that.
Step 3. Go on a date
Whether it's going to the movies, bowling, going to the museum, or taking a walk in the park, try to balance two ideas: Show that you like him, but still make him do things. Men love encouragement, so give him a nice smile, say thank you when he treats you, and be close to him. At the same time, guys also like a bit of a chase, so don't just throw yourself at him. Be friendly but don't just show that you're infatuated.
Step 4. Wait for him to take his first step in nine days
Chances are if he likes you and has dated a few times, he will try to kiss you. (Always bring mints, savior!) If he's not trying to kiss you, you should give him a better signal that he should kiss you:
- Closer to him more than usual. Let your face get closer to his so he doesn't have to move any further to kiss you.
- Look into her eyes with longing. Hold his gaze with your eyes.
- Lick your lips seductively. This method is prone to overdoing it, so don't do it too often. Once is too much!
Step 5. Be patient
It's possible to get a man in 10 days, but you can't force love. Once you've managed to get him to kiss you, you're on the right track. Love should come easy now, if you let it. But remember, men are different from women, and what he wants may not be what you want.
- He may not want to rush into a relationship. He may want a casual date before committing to you.
- He may not be as communicative as you. He may not be like you who is expressive with feelings.
- He may be macho in front of his friends. In fact, he's trying to impress you.
- He may not understand the idea of romance. He may have to be pushed and herded and told how to be romantic.
Tips
- When you've got him don't cling to him too much because he'll find it scary.
- Be casual, like with your friends, talk about things you did at school or work and meet up a lot.
- Have dinner when you're an adult, or go to a fast food restaurant when you're younger.
