Having trouble telling him that you like him? Nervous? Confused? Or just not sure? Well, telling a girl that you like her can be a very difficult thing to do. Especially when you really like it. Hopefully with the right action, you can let him know what's in your heart in a hidden way. But beware: every girl is different. You have to learn a lot about the girl before you actually confess your love.
Step
Step 1. Get to know him more
If you don't know anything about him, how will you know what he likes? You can start by talking to him. If you're brave enough to walk up to him and talk to him, find a casual way of saying something, like approaching him in class and complaining about homework. If you are shy, make funny expressions when you see them in class. He will laugh and ask what you are doing. When he asks, start a conversation. Ask him for help with a problem or complain about the teacher. Ask what class is next. Tell them that you can't wait until school is over because you have a baseball game or a sports game. Then, ask about it. What will he do? Anything interesting? Girls like to talk about themselves, and he'll like it if you seem interested in what he has to say.
Step 2. Look good and smell good
To make a good first impression, you have to look good and smell good. It's pretty embarrassing for a girl to go out with a guy who reeks of sweat all the time, so get cleaned up and take care of your body. Wash your hair, look good, and apply deodorant! Sweating isn't a bad thing, but don't let your body smell bad! If you want to add something, spray some perfume. Remember not to wear too much perfume because you won't smell good! Brush your teeth, wear clean clothes, and comb your hair. If you have skin that is not smooth, it never hurts to see a dermatologist (dermatologist). Most girls don't just think about how you look, but remember that looking good will increase the chances that she will like you too. If he is only focused on your appearance, he may have a problem with himself.
Step 3. Smile
If you keep looking fierce, the girls won't like it. Smile! You will be judged as friendly, approachable, and fun. Smiling is a good thing, especially if you're a shy person, because he won't be able to get mad if you smile! He'll appreciate your efforts to be a nice guy, and he'll probably smile back at you! Make sure your smile is genuine and doesn't look lewd.
Step 4. Treat him well
No girl will like you if you tell her she's ugly, annoying, etc. Most girls will be offended by those words, and they'll hate you if they hear you say things like that about them. But don't praise him too much. He'll think you're creepy or insincere. Choose the right time to compliment him, such as when he just got his hair cut. If you're going to compliment her looks, be careful. Don't come across as sarcastic, obscene, or weird. If you're going to say something, say it sincerely, even if you're saying something as simple as saying she has cool shoes or she looks pretty.
Step 5. Seduce him
This is the most important part of signaling. If you're a shy person or you know he's not very flirtatious, be careful when flirting with him. Make all the flirting sound light and witty. Make a joke! Even if it sounds “jay”, he will laugh at your efforts and will usually find you cute. If you don't know how to seduce a girl, pay attention to what she's up to and how she reacts. Make eye contact, smile, and if you dare, wink one eye. But usually this is considered scary. Make sure you know the girl if you wink. To seduce a girl, you have to be able to touch her. Make an effort to joke with him and hold his hand or arm, even if it's just a friend. This is a good way to flirt without making it obvious to other people, but he will understand what you're doing.
Step 6. Pay attention to touch restrictions:
How does he react when you touch his hand? What about when your knees rub against each other, when you accidentally bump into them, or when you give them a high five? If he smiles or looks happy, try doing this more often. Most girls will hug you back but they're too shy to even begin with. However, this is not the case. Does he hug you back awkwardly? Maybe she's not used to the attention a guy gives her, but at least she's hugging you. If you're helping him with something, find out how close you can be with him before he moves away. But don't push him because he might not understand what you're doing. Remember, don't get too close! If you're right in front of his nose, or constantly touching him, he'll think you're scary, not cute. Gently touch her arm when you are about to talk to the girl to comfort her.
Step 7. Pay attention to it
Make him feel like the only person who matters. Don't talk about the same things ("how was your day?" You have a lot of homework?" etc.). Not only had he heard it often, but he had probably heard the words from his own parents! Find interesting things to talk about. But don't focus too much on it because the girl will notice it. Don't glance at him for a few seconds, or spend a whole lot of time with him because you'll end up looking like a spoiled guy. Find the perfect balance and make her feel that her opinion matters. If you don't agree, tease him gently and make a joke about it. Make sure you're nice about it because some girls will feel that you're not paying attention to their opinions or being unfair to women.
Step 8. Give him a nickname
Girls love it when you give them nicknames based on their real names (for example, Juli - “Jul”, Ema - “Em”, Risa - “Ica”, etc.). Get creative and think of names like “Jul Juleha”. However, don't use it all the time because the name will lose its meaning. Nicknames are a key ingredient in gaining her trust when you really tell the truth but she doesn't believe you. For example: He: “I hate my life”. What is wrong with you?" He: “Everything went wrong. I can't do anything about it." You: “Don't worry. I will always be by your side, you can tell me anything.” Him: "Really?" You: "I'm not going to lie to you, Em". So, when he really needs support, you can use that special name so he knows that you really care about him. Creating a nickname will make it:
- Knowing that he is important to you,
- More comfortable,
- Closer to you as a friend who will continue to develop into lovers.
Step 9. Take the initiative
If you don't see any progress, maybe he just sees you as a friend. Most girls don't tell you right away that they like you. If you get the phone number, send a message. An easy way to do this is to ask if he has a cell phone. If he says “yes”, ask for his phone number. If he asks why, give him a nice smile and say that you'd like to be able to call and message him. Talk to the girl and be a good friend. If you become close friends, he will like you more. If he talks about you a lot, that's a good sign. That means he's thinking about you, and you can't be a big part of his life if he doesn't think about you.
Step 10. Invite him to go (this method can not be done by everyone because not everyone has the freedom to do it)
Even if it's just taking him with a group of friends, take him! He will appreciate your efforts and you may be able to show your feelings better. When you're out with friends, embrace her casually. If he responds well, ask him out on a date.
Step 11. Know the right time to give him space
No matter how cute you are, some girls don't want to give the hint that they like you too. Keep trying, but DON'T push. Girls don't like this at all. If this is the case, give him space. You know, he might be confused about you. He may like you, but still be afraid to admit it to you, his friends, or even himself. He may be afraid of destroying your friendship. Don't panic if this happens. Smile and let him know that you still like him. At some point, he may start to like you.
Tips
- Respect him. This will make him feel better and he will respect you too.
- Be a funny guy. Girls like guys who have a great sense of humor.
- Don't be discouraged if he doesn't respond right away. He was probably trying to think about what had just happened.
- If he's trying to show that he likes you, be careful. Girls' "signs" can seem confusing and you may misinterpret them.
- Girls are so love when they find out that the guy she has a crush on likes her! So take a chance and share your feelings.
- Be yourself.
- Have fun! This relationship should not be too serious! You have plenty of time to be cooler, but for now, enjoy the innocence of this love.
- If you want to find out if your crush likes you too, get her to tell you. For example, you could say, "[Insert name], I like you, and I want to know if you like me too or not." This way, he will be more open to expressing his feelings. If you just tell him that you like him, he will feel awkward saying, "I like you too." This may look easy, but it's really not.
- He may like you even if he doesn't say so. Some girls are very introverted when they don't know what to do.
- Be prepared for rejection. If he rejects you, respond with "Okay, that's fine. Maybe next time”, then off you go.
- Ask his friends about him! The girl's friends know her well, and they can tell you about her and tell you what she likes, her favorite foods, and more. If you ask friends about the girl, they will tell the girl that you are asking about her, and that can be a sign for the girl.
- If you're in the “close friends” stage (talk often and get to know them like the palms of your own), that's great! The next step, take the opportunity. It's up to you to get out of the friend zone and move into the partner zone. His friends will surely tell you that you two are meant to be together because you share the same interests as a married couple (but don't fight often). Make an approach. He will not approach because he feels you are already comfortable in the status of a good friend. Ask yourself: Has she ever talked about another man? Have you seen him texting other men while holding the phone? (Don't delve too much into it!) Do you notice that his views are different when he looks at you the way you look at him? If you answered "no. No. Yes”, your relationship is going well. If that doesn't work, why can't the two of you be good friends even though it's going to be awkward times? Good luck!
- Make sure he's aware that you're signaling him.
- If he doesn't understand what you're doing, don't panic. You may just have to express how you feel and say, "I really like you."
- Don't seduce other girls. This can make him jealous.
- A person is more attractive if he is funny. Make him laugh!
- Try not to make harsh jokes because not all girls find them funny.
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If you take a girl to a school function or some other place and she says "maybe," don't push her. You will look desperate and will distract him.
- Give a gift on the girl's birthday or on special days. This will indicate that you like him.
- Don't give gifts too often. Make your gift special. Make a meaningful gift and take the time to ask, “What is your favorite candy?” or “You like dolls?” This will make it look special in your eyes.
- Talk to the girl you have a crush on about her interests to show that you are interested in what she likes.
- Let it be your priority, not an option.
- Gestures are a good way to see how she responds, but remember that in the end, it's you who decides to ask her out, especially if she's shy or has no dating experience.
Warning
- If you give a nickname, be careful in choosing. Never use nicknames like sexy, flirty, or anything else.
- While you're trying to signal, don't seduce other girls! Don't let him see you flirting with other girls because his feelings will go away and he'll think you like toying with women.
- If you can trust one of his friends for advice, go for it. But remember that you won't always get the truth, so use your own understanding every now and then.
- Know the status. It would be a bad thing to give him signs that you like him and that he already has a girlfriend.
- Sometimes, if you wait too long before expressing your feelings, he will reject you because he only sees you as a friend.
- Girls love it when you play physical (not negative) with them. That means, if you don't feel awkward, hit him while joking gently and smile while doing it and be as innocent as possible. Chances are, he will hit you back. Grab his shoulder and hold on until he notices your actions. Look him in the eye while you do this! He will think about you all day. However, don't overdo it - 2 to 3 seconds is enough.
- Facebook can change things for the worse. Talk to him face to face about important matters. Posts on the " wall " can be seen by anyone.
- These methods may not work. Even if you get the girl, don't feel compelled to keep her. If you are going to leave, break up amicably. Don't hold grudges.
- If there's a difference of opinion, it's better when you're in the friend zone than when you're already in a relationship. That way, you can answer questions like, “Is this girl irritable? Am I going to continue to be careful until I make a mistake?” “Will this girl forgive me?” In addition, you can also learn to cool the tension between the two of you in the early days of friendship before entering into a romantic relationship because of the risk, your heart will hurt and break in the future and your friendship relationship will also be destroyed.
- If you ask friends about the girl, don't ask them directly whether she likes you or not. They probably won't tell you about it.
- Do not believe the rumors. Trust only what he directly says.
