How To Be A Very Attractive Person: 10 Steps

2024 Author: Jason Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 10:50

If you have that special someone out there that you'd like to attract attention to, then being overly attractive can definitely help. Maybe you already know that being overly attractive is a good thing, but you just don't know how. Here's a guide, for both men and women, to becoming a highly attractive person.

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Method 1 of 2: Being Very Attractive in Front of Men

Step 1. Perfect your appearance

Attractiveness to men usually starts from appearance. But this does not mean you have to be sexy and use heavy makeup to attract the attention of all men. Pay attention to which parts of your body are attractive, and minimize the unattractive parts. Because actually, most men prefer women who have curves and natural appearance.

• Use makeup to make your eyes look bigger. Men like women with big, beautiful eyes. If you don't know how to make your eyes bigger, ask a friend or ask a makeup artist for help. Some of the ways include using mascara, curling your eyelashes upwards, and using two colors of eye shadow that match.

  

• Don't be too skinny. Most men like women with nice curves, not women who are too skinny, so don't make yourself too thin and intentionally starve yourself. Maintain a healthy diet to keep your skin looking good and keep your metabolism up, but don't force a diet just because you want to be skinny.

  

• Make your lips stand out with lipstick and lip gloss. There is a place and time for a natural appearance. But for lips, men prefer a fresh look, but not too much.

  

• Lengthen the hair and change the volume. Research shows that many men like women with long hair. If you have and prefer short hair, then ignore this advice because you may look more attractive and feel comfortable with short hair. But if you are in doubt, try to grow your hair out and see how other people especially men react to your hair. In addition, men also like women with full hair, so don't forget to add volume to your hair.

  

Step 2. Develop your sense of humor

Women like men who can make them laugh, but on the other hand men want women who can laugh when they hear their jokes. The more skilled you are at spotting when a guy is making jokes, the easier it will be for you to lure him in.

• Laugh at the jokes, even if they may not be very funny. Men sometimes get nervous when in front of women and end up trying to crack a joke at the wrong time. Learn how to tell when he's trying to be funny. By responding appropriately, you will give him confidence so he can relax more and give him the opportunity to keep trying to show his funny side.

  

• Cultivate your own sense of humor. Men also like women who have their own jokes and can make other people laugh. Sometimes being funny will have a good effect in front of people. But don't expect to get a lot of attention by being the funniest person, because it's usually the guy who wants to be thought of as the funniest. However, develop your own style and sense of humor, and see if there's something funny you can talk about when you're with one or more guys.

  

Step 3. Be diligent in reading books and news

To attract a guy's attention, you may just need good clothes and makeup, but keeping a guy interested in you takes a lot more than that. Men like to discuss things and share their points of view and opinions with someone who is intelligent and educated. If you can't be that person and only end up as a beautiful statue that's mute when you're in front of him, you certainly won't be able to hold his attention for long.

• Frequently open and read news on websites, newspapers, and also TV. You don't need to know everything very deeply, but at least you know what's been going on around you in the last few days.

  

• Spend some time reading something you love to learn, be it film, fashion, culture, or something else. Dive deep into your interests and become a well-informed person. That way, if a guy asks you what you like to do, you can come up with a good, smart answer. In addition, it can also make you a happier person, and happy people are able to attract the attention of others better than unhappy people.

  

• If in doubt, talk about exercise. Most men like sports. Many women don't really like and care about sports, and men usually don't expect women to know about sports. So if you want to wow a guy, take a look and find a sport you like (soccer is a popular sport in Indonesia, so it can be the safest option) and wait for an opportunity to show your knowledge in a conversation. Men will be amazed once he finds out that he likes to discuss sports.

  

Step 4. Be selective

While this may sound counterintuitive, this suggestion is actually quite effective. Don't just date anyone who comes your way.

Men are more attracted to women who have their own criteria when choosing a man. The reasons are: 1) Increase their ego. Men will feel more proud if the woman chooses him; 2) They will think that the woman is a "covet" because the chances of getting it are quite difficult; 3) Approaching a woman like this is more challenging, and men always like a challenge

Step 5. Praise him

We sometimes think that complimenting is just a man's job to make her happy and show interest. In fact, women also need to give compliments to men in order to attract his attention.

• Give him specific compliments. Find out what he thinks of himself as. Does he feel like a smart person? Then you should make a compliment to his brainpower. Is he the gentle and poetic type? Compliment his words or how he can listen to his emotions.
• Sometimes words can go wrong, and therefore you must choose your words wisely. In addition, nonverbal responses can also be a great way to give compliments
• As with responding nonverbally, you can also compliment a man by agreeing to his opinion or taste. If you're looking around the store and show her the clothes she likes, you can agree with her choice. It would show that he had good taste without having to say it out loud.

Method 2 of 2: Being Very Attractive in Front of Women

Step 1. Maintain appearance

You don't have to be like the guy in the women's magazine. But maintaining the appearance, shape, and health of the body is still a must. Women do prefer men who are more tolerant of their own appearance (and that of other men), but you should still take care of your appearance.

• Start by keeping yourself clean. Shaving your beard and taking a shower are the most basic things you should do. Using perfume in moderation is also necessary, because the more fragrant you are, the more women you can attract. Again, women like men who can take care of themselves and have a nice, clean, and tidy appearance.

  

• Take care and improve your body shape. You don't have to be a big muscle guy, but at least get regular exercise. Most women prefer a slightly more athletic man. So, start exercising and watch your diet. That way, you will become attractive in front of women and feel more confident.

  

Step 2. Develop your sense of humor

Women often say that a sense of humor is important to a man. So knowing when to crack a joke and grab attention at a funny moment is a very useful skill.

• Experiment with your friends. If you have a joke you just made, try it out in front of your friends. From there, figure out which jokes are funny and which aren't. A good joke should not offend or vilify other people. So make jokes about life or yourself.

  

• Some guys have a hard time being funny, even though he's trying. Does that mean a man like this won't be able to attract women? Not really. If you have trouble making other people laugh, then be the one to laugh. Having a good sense of humor means knowing how to appreciate anything funny. Don't be afraid to laugh at people's jokes. You will not be considered less "man" for doing so. Wanting to laugh instead shows that you are a person who is willing to show your emotions and knows when to appreciate others.

  

• Be a person who likes to play. One of the most important aspects of a man's personality is his playing mentality. Recent research shows that the desire to play is one of the most sought after male characters by women. So, don't be afraid to try adventures or joke with your friends. If you can also play with the kids, that's even better. Women like men who are enthusiastic and enjoy being around children because it signals that you can be a good father.

  

Step 3. Praise him

All women want to be praised and want to be recognized by others. So don't be afraid to give the woman you like the compliments she deserves.

• Praise sincerely. Don't praise because you heard it from someone else or because it sounds good. Find out what you really like about the woman and find the right words to say it.
• Praise her feminine side. Compliment him for his upbringing of young children (when he is around children), or how kind he is in front of strangers.
• Focus on the skill. Every woman wants to feel beautiful. But beyond that, women also want to feel they are loved for who they are, and not just for their appearance. Find out what the skill is, and praise it. If you often compliment something that isn't physical, he'll know that you're attracted to him as a whole, not just physically.

Step 4. Find a decent paying job

It's a bit of a cliché, but either way, asking your parents for money isn't cool. A woman wants to find a man who can support her family, and that means you need a job. Having a decent paying job will make you appear more credible to women and make you happier.

• Having money is a good thing, but showing off wealth is not a good thing. The definition of showing off here may vary from person to person, but we can all agree that at the very least we should remain polite, humble, and understanding. Sure, a luxury car will allow you to attract attention, but you need other qualities in yourself to maintain that appeal.

  

• Don't be afraid to pay/treat food. If you're on a date, feel free to pay for movie tickets, popcorn, drinks and more for the two of you. Every time you ask a woman out, you have to be prepared to pay your partner too. Don't be stingy when you go out with him, because even if you don't mean to, it could give the impression that he's not worth fighting for, and you certainly don't want him to think that.

  

• Buying your own house or residence. A house is a sign of financial independence. So, someone who has his own place to live (be it an apartment or a house) certainly looks more attractive. However, be careful when making this decision, because you have to make sure that you can manage and finance it, and choose a house with a good location and resale value.

  

Step 5. Be faithful

Being faithful is a very important thing that should not be underestimated. Staying true to your partner, if you have one, shows that you are a trustworthy, honest, and most importantly, nice guy. Women value this aspect of loyalty more than men. So, remember that you have to stay true to your partner and not cheat or do anything bad like that.

• You can date anyone if you haven't dated anyone. But don't date too many people or you'll come across as a playboy. Being a playboy does not mean being an attractive man and vice versa. Most of the women you want to attract usually don't like that type of guy.
• But on the other hand, this doesn't mean you shouldn't hang out with other women anymore. You still need female friends to show that you have credibility and really prefer the woman you are after or your partner.
• Be blunt. If you can't make a commitment to a woman yet but say that you want to be in a more serious relationship, you'll be leaving both parties feeling disappointed. Be honest with your intentions and your current situation. That way, the woman will know what to expect if you date you, and will stay on good terms if something happens. If you express a wish but can't make it come true, he will tell his friends about it, which will be bad for both parties.