If you want to seduce a guy and wonder if he's interested, try to find out by his body language even if he hasn't said anything. See how the position of the body. Pay attention to facial cues, such as eye contact, smile, and eyebrow movement. You can also look for clues from his hand movements when he is near you. Keep in mind that one gesture may not be an indicator, but when combined with another, you can determine if he's interested and may be open to a little flirtation.
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Method 1 of 3: Assessing His Body Position
Step 1. See if he's facing you
Signs of a man's interest can be seen from whether he is facing you or not. If interested, the guy will usually turn towards you. However, if he is not interested, he will face the other way or turn his body so that his back is facing you.
- For example, if he's standing, he's likely to point his shoulders, chest, hips, and legs at you to show interest. If he's sitting down, he'll also be facing you and may be leaning over. If he's leaning back with his arms crossed, he's probably not interested.
- If he's facing you, make sure you're facing him too.
Tip: Also pay attention to the way he sits. If he's sitting with his legs spread apart, he's probably unconsciously wanting to show his crotch.
Step 2. Pay attention to the position of the hands
Can you see it? If so, that's a sign that maybe he's interested. If you can't see his hands because they're in your pockets or because they're crossed, he probably isn't interested in you.
Another stronger sign is if you are sitting across from a guy, and he puts his hands on the table. This may indicate that he wants to be closer. Try putting your hands on the table. He will probably understand and take your hand
Step 3. See if he is twitching or nervous
He may be nervous about being attracted to you. See if he changes positions frequently, isn't sure what to do with his hands, is tapping his feet, or some other sign of nervousness.
Maybe he will also play with the bottle or glass he is holding. This indicates that he is nervous and subconsciously thinks he wants to touch you
Step 4. Pay attention to Superman's pose, namely hands on hips
If he's very confident or wants to sound confident, he may choose a strong pose to show interest. For example, stand with your feet shoulder-width apart and your hands on your hips.
Placing your hands on your hips is a subtle gesture meant to direct your attention to the asset. This may be an unconscious pose, but your eyes will naturally focus on his hand and the area his finger is pointing at
Method 2 of 3: Interpreting His Facial Signs
Step 1. Look into her eyes and see if she stares back
Eye contact is a classic flirting move and an indicator of romantic attraction. Try locking his gaze for 2 or 3 seconds, and see if he stares or looks away too. If he stares back, he may be interested in you. If he looked the other way, he might not be interested.
Some people are too shy to make eye contact. So consider other cues if he doesn't want to stare at each other for more than a second
Tip: If you stare at a man from afar for 2 to 3 seconds, he will be encouraged to come closer. If he doesn't come over right away, but often steals glances, try walking over and introducing yourself. Maybe he's just shy to approach you.
Step 2. See if he's smiling sincerely
You can tell the difference between a fake smile and a genuine smile because a genuine smile makes your face brighter. If his smile reaches his eyes, it means he is smiling sincerely and may be interested in you. However, if his smile seems forced, then he probably isn't interested.
- Try smiling when he makes eye contact, and see if he smiles back. If so, that's a good sign. If he's not smiling or only half smiling, he probably isn't interested.
- You can draw attention to her smile by saying, "You have a nice smile."
Step 3. See if he raises his eyebrows or expands his nose
This is a subtle seduction gesture that men often show when they see a person they are attracted to. See if he raises his eyebrows or develops nostrils. It may only last a second, but it's a good sign.
- If he smiles and raises an eyebrow, the sign of his interest is doubled.
- Try raising an eyebrow too and smiling to send a signal that you're interested in him too.
Step 4. Notice which direction he is looking
When you first meet, a man may observe your body subtly. If he continued to observe while chatting, it was an indication of a very strong interest. In fact, maybe he did it on purpose to send a signal.
- For example, if while chatting his eyes look at your face and then down to his hips, that's a sign that he's interested.
- If he stares at you unabashedly, you can teasely comment, “Like what you see?”
Step 5. See if his lips part when he looks at you
If a guy opens his lips slightly when looking at you, it indicates sexual attraction. If he shows this sign, great.
- Maybe he's also licking his lips a little, and that's an even more intense sign of attraction.
- Try to reply by opening your lips slightly or biting your lower lip.
Method 3 of 3: Watching for Signs of Interest in His Hands
Step 1. See if he plays with a tie, sock, or button
This small act of grooming is an indicator that he may be interested and wants to look good in front of you. Maybe he'll tidy up his socks, smooth out the collar of a jacket or tie, button and unbutton his coat, or play with other parts of his outfit. If he can't stop playing with clothes, consider that a good sign.
Times like that are right for praise. Try saying, "I like the color of your tie, it makes your eyes brighter."
Tip: Maybe you are also not aware of playing with your own clothes. Do not worry. It is a sign that you also want to look beautiful in front of him.
Step 2. See if she's brushing her hair, face, or hair on her face
In addition to touching clothes, he may also brush his hair, ruffle his hair, stroke his beard or mustache, or touch his own face. Maybe it's a sign of sobriety, but it's an indication of interest.
If you see him like that, try to compliment him. For example, “I like your hairstyle. Neat!" or “Your beard is cool, can I hold it?”
Step 3. Watch his hand movements when he speaks
Talking by moving your hands is usually seen as a sign of confidence, and also an indication of interest in the person you are talking to. If the hand gesture is clear, it's a sign to say, "Look at me!" In fact, he may even be trying to get your attention.
Try to imitate moving your hands when you speak, but only if you normally would. Don't try hand gestures if that's not your thing
Step 4. Notice the subtle touch
If he touches you casually, it's an indication of a very strong attraction. It was almost impossible for him to touch if he wasn't interested. So, pay attention to any contact he makes. Here's an example of a subtle touch from a man harboring an attraction:
- Stand close enough for his body to be in contact with yours.
- Lightly touch your back or arm
- Get rid of hair from your eyes
- Grabbing your hand
