Are you harboring an attraction to a woman and want those feelings to be reciprocated? In fact, there are lots of ways to communicate your interest in him without having to say anything, and even make him fall in love with you in an instant! The key is only one: positive body language. First of all, understand that body language is a form of nonverbal communication that manifests in how you look, how you smell, how you walk, and how you express yourself through your facial expressions and gestures. To attract women's attention using body language, learn the tips listed in this article!
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Part 1 of 3: Reading the Situation
Step 1. Grab his attention
Don't keep staring at him until he's scared or just wants to get away from you! Instead, make him curious and interested in getting to know you better before you even approach him. That way, when you actually approach him, he will be more open to accepting your arrival.
When you do get close to him, don't be aggressive or overly open. Instead, leave a little space to make him curious about your figure. If you want to know if she is the right woman for you, try matching the two of you. One way is to ask him a few questions or to his friends. But remember, don't ask too many questions so he doesn't get suspicious or get scared
Part 2 of 3: Preparing Yourself
Step 1. Wear neat and appropriate clothes
The clothes you wear (especially shoes) are the first things that will catch a woman's attention. In particular, the clothes you wear can indicate whether you are attractive and safe to approach. Therefore, make sure you are always prepared to present the best image when you have to meet him. After all, doing so will increase your confidence in his presence!
- Wear clothes that can not only increase your confidence, but also fit your body.
- Wear light colored clothes. It's not that you always have to wear a neon green that hurts your eyes, but at the very least, don't wear dark colors like black or gray all the time. If you want him to notice your existence, try wearing light colored clothes on a regular basis.
- Keep your tidiness. No woman wants to be approached by a man with messy makeup. If you're willing to take the time in the morning to get up early and tidy up, everyone – including the girl you like – will definitely be interested in getting to know you better. Therefore, put your smelly, holey shoes in the warehouse and take some time to tidy up your appearance. After all, women generally take quite a lot of time to make her appearance look attractive. That's why, they will appreciate men with similar efforts.
Step 2. Make sure you always smell good
Remember, women have a very sensitive sense of smell and generally like men who smell good. Make him love your scent!
- Take a shower every day. If you work as an athlete, take a shower after exercising.
- Brush your teeth regularly; Also rub your tongue to clean the buildup of bacteria that are at risk of making your breath smell bad.
- Clean between your teeth with floss every day. Do this to kill any bacteria that builds up between your teeth and behind your tongue, as well as to get rid of bad breath from your mouth.
- Always bag some menthol candies. No woman is willing to kiss you if your breath smells bad.
- Wear a little perfume because the smell of the body that is too fragrant or piercing will actually push women away. If possible, buy perfume at the mall instead of the regular supermarket to make sure it's of good quality. Although the price is not cheap, generally one bottle of perfume can be used for a year or more! A very decent decision if you really like the woman, right? After showering, make sure you always brush your teeth, floss between your teeth, and put on some perfume. If necessary, chew menthol just before chatting with him. Not only will he feel more comfortable when he has to interact with you, he will definitely appreciate your cleanliness and tidiness, and remember your scent.
Step 3. Prepare your questions, and approach him when he is sitting or walking alone
To start a conversation, try saying, "That's crazy, we've been given assignments during the holidays!" or asking, "Do you like the band that performed at the cafe last week?" Show a friendly attitude and give a short greeting like "Hello" accompanied by a smile. Believe me, even a simple greeting can bring you two closer in an instant, you know! After that, try asking questions that are relevant to both of you, such as about a class or an office project that involves you and your ideal woman. Show a positive and pleasant attitude; make sure she feels comfortable around you and only remembers positive moments even when you two are apart. Also show a manly attitude like being willing to apologize whenever you make a mistake.
- Comment on the situation that surrounds the two of you, especially if the two of you are meeting in a public place like a bar or city park. For example, try saying, “This park is really cool, isn't it! We can even come here just to relax,” or, “Ever here on the weekends? I swear, it was so much fun!” If the two of you meet at a bar, offer to buy him a drink only if the two of you have been chatting for a few minutes.
- Show your enthusiasm for whatever topic is being discussed. A flat personality and monotonous voice will only make him lazy to respond or even turn away from you. Want to approach her on the dance floor? Do it with great care! Most likely, her friends had a natural instinct to protect her from strangers. After all, he came there to have fun with his friends, didn't he? If you want to choose the “safe” path, just approach him with a smile, hold out your hand, and say your name. After that, greet his friends by saying, “Hello! Introduce me (say your name).” Trust me, his friends will surely appreciate your courage and confidence!
- After talking for a few minutes, offer to join him for a dance or buy him a drink. Always keep a genuine and warm smile on your lips! Most likely, she's used to being approached by strangers in public and will therefore put up a shield to protect herself before you even greet her. Therefore, always display friendly and friendly body language such as smiling warmly or dressing up neatly, so that he feels safe when interacting with you.
Part 3 of 3: Capturing His Interests
Step 1. Be confident
In fact, a confident man is able to attract a woman's attention in an instant! After all, self-confidence is a body language that will be immediately apparent from a distance, and women tend to feel more comfortable interacting with men who seem confident in their abilities and qualities. Remember, being confident is not the same as being arrogant. Instead, increase self-awareness of your qualities and strengths.
- Keep your shoulders up and don't be shy about showing your true self.
- Take your hands out of your pants pockets and stand up straight.
- Instead of chasing him relentlessly, approach him when the time is right.
- Make eye contact and try to maintain it. Of course you can look away from him a few times, but make sure he knows you're still listening. Also, take the initiative to take the first step in any case. For example, don't hesitate to contact her first after the date!
Step 2. Be yourself in his presence
If you are a silly person, make him laugh. If your intelligence is above average, share new and interesting knowledge with him. If you are a musician, tell us about your experience playing the instrument. At the beginning of the conversation, focus on the things that also interest him and don't try too hard to impress him. Believe me, a man who likes to show off will not be able to attract the attention of any woman!
Step 3. Be a good listener
Listen to everything he has to say about his best friend or any other story he finds ridiculous. You may disagree with him, but don't try to tutor him. Periodically repeat the words in your own language to show that you listen to them well, and don't get too busy talking about yourself. Smile as warmly as possible to show your interest and that you're comfortable spending time with him, make eye contact with him, and don't talk about or observe other women while he's with him. Emphasize that she is the only woman who occupies your heart and mind. Keep your phone away when you're with him too!
Step 4. Don't be late
Never cancel a date or arrive late for a date. Show that he is a priority for you! If you are planning to pick him up, be patient and be prepared to wait for him. Remember, most women need a fair amount of time to dress up. Therefore, be patient with him so he doesn't feel rushed or uncomfortable on a date.
Step 5. Show your manhood
Open the door for him and let him walk ahead of you if space doesn't allow the two of you to walk side by side. Trust me, most women will appreciate the manly attitude! Also lend him your jacket if he looks cold because women generally like to wear men's jackets they like.
Step 6. Break down personal boundaries between the two of you
After spending a few hours together, and if he seems to be enjoying your company, try breaking personal boundaries by making simple physical contact. Believe me, making physical contact is effective in making your interactions feel more intimate and meaningful.
- For example, give a light hug before the two of you part. Make sure the cuddle time is no more than 6 seconds if you don't want to make him feel uncomfortable. If he hugs you back, don't hesitate to move on to the next step.
- Hold her hand. If your grips reciprocate, or if he even intertwines his fingers with yours, chances are he shares the same interest and wants to be your boyfriend!
Tips
- Don't criticize him or treat him like your male friends. More than likely, he'll think that you don't like him romantically.
- Be careful when teasing him. Make sure your jokes sound fun but not hurtful! Remember, women have more sensitive feelings and tend to joke differently than men. Therefore, make sure you only joke about the aspects that don't make him feel inferior.
- Keep your positivity! Everyone likes someone who is positive and fun. Therefore, try to always draw on the positive side of all situations and events before starting to speak.
- Women always appreciate genuine compliments like, "I really like your hair." In all situations, try not to compliment her body! You shouldn't even compliment her lips or eyes if you don't really know her well. feel uncomfortable, such a compliment sounds less sincere because it smells sexual.
- Read relevant wikiHow articles to read his body language. By understanding her body language, you'll know if she's worth it or not, as well as what you need to know before you decide to grab her attention.
