Your relationship with your partner feels a little bland? Boring? Has your partner been in a relationship with a bad boy/girl before and you want to make sure you deserve to be with your partner? You can breathe a little life back into your relationship and keep it going by mastering the art of being "naughty." Surprise your partner and yourself! Get started with the first step below.
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Part 1 of 4: Be Comfortable With Yourself
Step 1. Stop apologizing
The most important thing to convince your naughty partner is to be confident and comfortable with yourself. The first step to being confident and comfortable is to stop apologizing to everyone. Stop apologizing for not being sexy, gaining weight, or wanting sex. You have wants, needs, and feelings, and those are legitimate things.
Step 2. Stop trying to look like a movie star
You don't have to look like a movie star or porn star to your partner or to make them think you're sexy. Your partner chooses you. They're with you and think you're hot. After all, sexy is mostly how you act, not how you look.
Step 3. Celebrate your strengths
Look for the best in you (your attitude, your unique qualities) and celebrate it. Whether your breast size is small or large, it's all good! You have to know what you can build on, while you can set a standard to help you remember that you are a very attractive person.
Step 4. Embrace your sensual side
You are a sensual being. That is normal and a good thing. If you spend time feeling embarrassed about sex to really enjoy it, then you're not going to be very good at this "naughty" thing. Be sensual and agree. This is an important thing.
Step 5. Find anything that can give you satisfaction
Comfortable with your sensual side now? Good. Now experiment, either with yourself or with a partner, and explore yourself. Find what will satisfy you. Look for your “on” button. You think being "naughty" is about satisfying your partner, but it's also about telling your partner (in a "naughty" way) how to really satisfy yourself.
Part 2 of 4: Getting the “Naughty” Appearance
Step 1. Add your wardrobe
Throw away your old-fashioned underwear and baggy clothes and start by making your outfit sexier, from the ground up. Sexier underwear, sexier everyday clothes, maybe even sexy dating outfits. You have to put on your best if you want to convince your partner.
Step 2. Change your hairstyle or make-up
Get a sexier haircut or (if you're a girly person) try some sexier makeup looks. Any hairdresser should be able to help with styling your hair and Youtube is a site full of good makeup tutorials.
Step 3. Do some creative shaves
You can shave or pluck all of your lower body hair, or you can get really creative by cutting it into a heart shape. This will be an interesting surprise for your partner and show that sex is on your mind.
Step 4. Practice some stage acts
Take advantage of your clothes and your surroundings to show your partner what you really think. You can try to cook naked, and set a time so that your partner comes home to coincide with the action, or you can decorate your room with candles and scattered rose petals. There are many ways to do this, so get creative.
Step 5. Exercise
We don't mean working out to be thinner and traditionally sexy. Tradition is boring. You should exercise because research shows that exercise can increase sexual pleasure and appetite. Try a light jog before your partner comes home.
Part 3 of 4: Lead to misbehave
Step 1. Take control
Take control in the bedroom. Be like a boss. Arrange your partner. It is very sexy, even if it looks bad at first. Actually, looking bad is what it meant. It's also good for you because it can help build a more satisfying sex life.
Step 2. Learn to flirt
Take it slow. Explore other areas. Don't venture straight to the exact section. Explore sensitive areas such as the ears, the back of the knees, and the inner thighs. Try not to touch your partner. Get them to a point where they beg you for freedom. Then tease again for a while before you give in.
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You can also flirt in everyday situations, not just in the bedroom. For example, if you are a woman, slip your underwear over to your partner when you are out of the house. Go to the restroom and tuck it in your partner's pocket discreetly.
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Step 3. Talk dirty.
Try saying "dirty". Use your sexiest voice and start getting really good with adjectives and verbs. Telling your partner where and what you like to do, or even telling them that you're already very aroused can be a great turn-on.
Step 4. Move out of the bedroom
Sex doesn't have to happen in the bedroom. Breaking existing norms and doing it outside of bed can add to the delinquency factor. You can surprise your partner in the bathroom, make an evening on your couch something more, or you can get really bold and try it out in a public place, like on toys at the amusement park or in the cinema.
Step 5. Role play
Role playing is a classic way to spice up your relationship and choosing the right role can add to the mischief factor. The girl can play the role of a naughty schoolboy or secretary, while the man can try the role of a policeman or doctor.
Step 6. Set a record for yourself
Another trick to try is to break your own record for the number of times you have sex in a day or how many places you have it. Take notes (you can even create a scoreboard and prizes) and say your goal.
Step 7. Introduce the toys
Adult toys are another great way to get a little "naughty" in your relationship. They're not just for girls either. There are many toys that can add satisfaction to men. Surprise your partner with a gift even if it's not their birthday.
Step 8. Keep looking for something new
The goal is always to look for something new and not stick to old habits. You'll find that just by prioritizing your sex life and keeping it interesting, tricks like mischief will become unimportant.
Part 4 of 4: Recognizing Limits
Step 1. Ask first
You don't always have to ask them how they're doing at the time, but a good way to start a naughty game is to ask their imaginations before doing anything new. Ask in a sexy voice for bonus points.
Step 2. Look at your partner's reaction
While you are trying something new, see how your partner reacts. Don't just listen to what they have to say next, watch their reaction in that moment. If they look stiff or shy, they may not enjoy it as much as they say.
Step 3. Take it slow
Don't change from a quiet person to a wild one in one day. This will make your partner panic if it is not asked by your partner. Go slowly to maximize the experience of satisfaction for both of you.
Step 4. Separate your daily life and bedroom life
Just because your partner likes to be called by a certain name doesn't mean you have to call him that outside the home. Remember that your daily life and your sex life are two different things.
Step 5. Don't do something you will regret
Don't do anything you'll regret later, especially if you're a young person. Now, your photos are very easily spread over the internet and your life can be ruined before you even know it. Avoid taking nude photos (no matter how stable your relationship is), and while making sex videos is fun, it's perfect for couples who have been married for years.
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Even with a high level of trust with a partner, it is important to remember that there are other ways to leak your data, such as hackers.
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