Of all the techniques to attract a girl, seducing her on the internet is the most difficult. Messages can be misunderstood, jokes can be unfunny, and the process of flirting can end up disastrous. However, with the right tools and understanding, seducing girls on the internet can go smoothly and communication can continue until dating. Having self-confidence is the best way to attract a girl, and if you realize that, you are one step ahead of achieving your goals.
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Part 1 of 3: Choosing How to Flirt on the Internet
Step 1. Seduce a girl on the internet through a dating website
There are many websites like this now, so do some research on them and choose the one that suits your needs.
- Look for matchmaking websites that focus on a specific age group, a particular religious belief, the type of relationship you're looking for, or a type of membership (free or paid). Popular dating websites include eHarmony, Plenty of Fish, OurTime, Match.com, ChristianMingle, and OkCupid.
- Sign up to become a member and create your profile. Answer questions about yourself honestly as this will help the website's algorithm to match you with girls who match your criteria.
- Upload at least one good photo of yourself so your potential partner can see your face.
Step 2. Seduce a girl through social media profiles
Social media has become commonplace these days, and it has become a common way for people to flirt and find a partner.
- Sign up to create a social media account like Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter.
- Complete your profile with basic information about yourself and upload a profile photo.
- Decide whether you want to set your profile to 'public' or 'private'. Setting it to private may block some girls from interacting with you.
- Look for hashtags or groups that talk about what you're interested in to meet girls who share your interests.
Step 3. Seduce a girl through chat
Chat is an alternative method to get to know someone better without being influenced by the profile and status being updated.
- Look for chat sites made for singles who are looking for someone to flirt or make friends with.
- Sign up, if needed, or go to the chat page to start chatting.
Part 2 of 3: Seducing a Girl on the Internet
Step 1. Be confident and friendly when you approach a girl
When communicating with a girl on the internet for the first time, point out your qualities so she can tell that you're attracted to her.
- Start by saying, “Hello!” or "Hey!"
- Introduce yourself briefly; just say your name.
- Ask about something you saw on their profile that interests you.
Step 2. Prioritize comfort
Flirting and dating on the internet can be uncomfortable and dangerous for many women, especially when they don't know who the men they are talking to are.
- Respond quickly when he replies to you. Responding too quickly may indicate that you are overly excited, while responding too long may indicate that you are not interested in him. Better to respond within a few hours, whenever possible.
- Focus on learning about his background and personality. Asking about the girl's physical appearance or asking her to send you a photo of herself will give a bad impression of your purpose in chatting with her.
- Don't ask her out right away or meet face to face. This will also give a bad impression and he will stop chatting with you. It's a good idea to get to know each other for at least a few days before asking him out.
Step 3. Continue to chat with him if you are comfortable
Your goal now is to get to know him better to determine whether or not you want to ask him out.
- Balance the conversation when you're talking about yourself. Answer the questions he asks about you, and turn the questions around to ask about him if you can.
- Be polite and witty. Don't be afraid to make a joke out of anything you find funny because chances are, he will find yours funny too.
Step 4. Have an easy conversation by asking open-ended questions about him
- "What's your job?"
- "If you could vacation anywhere, where would you go and why?"
- "What's your favorite season? Why?"
- “Do you have a brother or sister? How many people?"
- "When you relax, what do you and your family like to do?"
- "What do you and your friends like to do?"
- “Do you like school holidays or holiday holidays? Why?"
- “You like animals? What animal?”
- "Your best friend sees you as what kind of person, anyway?"
- “What memories do you like the most from high school/college?”
- "What's your favorite cellphone app?"
Step 5. Compliment him by making him realize something you like about him
- "Your sense of humor is great!"
- “I'm glad to hear you talk about sightseeing. You look like you really like traveling!”
- “The book is fun! Your taste is good.”
- "You have a good taste in music."
- "Your family means a lot to you. I salute you."
- “You're really cool because you like volunteer work. This world needs someone like you!”
- “I don't think I've ever met anyone who loves their career as much as you. Keep it up, okay!”
- "You seem to really love animals, and I like your character."
- "You are a loving person. I really like your personality."
Step 6. Start a conversation about something that you both share an interest in
Ask questions to feel the similarities between the two of you.
- “What is your favorite genre of music?”
- "Have you been to a concert yet? Which concert do you like the most?"
- “What is your favorite book genre?”
- "You have a sports team you support, don't you?"
- "Where have you been traveling?"
- "What is your favorite food?"
- “Do you like cooking or baking?”
- “When you were in high school/college, what extracurriculars did you take?”
Step 7. Don't complain if you can
Keep the conversation focused on knowing each other's personalities. Say what you really feel and believe in a polite way, and stay away from controversial topics. This will lead to bickering and an unpleasant experience.
- Don't complain about family or friends
- Don't complain about work
- Don't complain about your ex or the girl you used to have a crush on
- Don't discuss politics or legal matters
- Don't talk about religion if you don't know his beliefs
- Don't talk about saving the environment and animal rights
- Don't discuss about civil matters and women
Step 8. Don't ask anything too personal
Again, this could suggest that you have a bad reason to be attracted to the girl. This includes sexually explicit conversation. Here are some examples of questions you shouldn't ask when starting a conversation and getting to know a girl better online.
- "What is your annual salary?"
- "When was the last time you dated?"
- "Why did you break up?"
- "How many ex-girlfriends do you have?"
- "Have you ever been married?"
- "Where do you live?"
Step 9. Use good grammar when chatting
Girls won't be attracted to guys who can't spell well, use bad grammar, and use too many emoticons.
- Use correct spelling and grammar whenever possible. Your spelling and grammar don't have to be perfect, but appearing to be trying to do so shows maturity and a sense of responsibility.
- Use punctuation appropriately. He may say something you like or find funny, but don't use more than one exclamation point at the end of each reply.
Step 10. Keep an eye on the use of emoticons when chatting
This could indicate that you are immature or don't know how to communicate well.
- Excessive use of emoticons indicates that you don't have an important topic to talk about, or will ruin the previous conversation.
- Emoticons can send the wrong message, such as indicating something inappropriate.
- Contrary to what you might think, emoticons won't let someone understand your tone of voice or how you want your message to get across.
Step 11. Pay attention to how your message is interpreted
Tone is very difficult to convey on the internet, so don't expect the girl to understand the tone of voice you are using.
- Keep your message simple until you get to know him better.
- Don't beat around the bush, even when you're making jokes.
- Keep in mind the tips around punctuation and emoticons. For example, using excessive capitalization or exclamation points could mean that you are shouting at them.
- Stay away from sarcasm when chatting on the internet. Sarcasm can be misinterpreted when used in online communication with someone you are not very close to.
- Don't assume that he understands every topic you discuss. The safest way is to ask if he knows about it, and if he doesn't, you can explain.
Part 3 of 3: Making Follow-Up Actions After Seducing Girls on the Internet
Step 1. Talk back to him to show that you are interested in him
A girl likes to have reassurance that you're interested in her, and talking back after a chat can give her that reassurance.
- When you're busy with your daily life and can't reply within a certain time, send a text to let them know that you're still thinking about him and will reply to him more clearly when you have time.
- If you're trying to chat with the same girl again from an online forum, make sure you search for the username or username-his. When you feel comfortable with her, ask her for her email address so you can have a more personal and consistent conversation.
- Continue to flirt on the internet until you are comfortable enough to take the relationship from this to the next step.
Step 2. Ask the girl out on a public date when you're ready
If you can meet the girl in person (online chat forums connect you with people from all over the world), then choose a place to date to make her comfortable.
- Dinner dates can be "intimidating" for some girls for a first date, so she's likely to prefer an afternoon date.
- Choose activities that are relaxing and won't add pressure to the first date. For example, watching a local band or painting clay pots gives you something to focus on so you don't have to talk all the time.
- Agree on what time he proposes, and what he wants to do on a date. Show that you welcome and appreciate their input and sense of security.
Step 3. Be patient and understanding
If you ask him out and he turns it down because he's uncomfortable, give him some time if you're really interested in him.
- By getting to know him a little longer and making him feel comfortable, he will accept your offer of a date when he's ready.
- Invite to continue the conversation via private email, text message, or phone. This will give you a new way to communicate and make him feel more comfortable.
- Show that you're willing to wait for him by continuing to talk to him, seem interested in his life and story, and show your patience.
Tips
- Be yourself. It's very important that the girl knows the real you, not the guy you think she wants.
- Understand that this kind of communication takes time. He has a life and maybe a job of his own, and if he's interested in you, he'll text you back when he has time.
