Watch how he acts in front of you. Does he seem nervous, leaning toward you, fiddling with his hair, or staring at you? Try little tricks to find out how he feels, like walking in front of him. If he's trying to chase you, there's a good chance he likes you! Also, don't hesitate to ask his friends how he feels.
Step
Step 1. Be yourself
Show your confidence, don't lower your head, and look him in the eye. If you feel confident, you can take the first step.
Step 2. Ask about yourself
Generally, people like to talk about themselves. Ask him some questions and try to get to know him. If he doesn't know you or is not interested in sharing with you, don't continue the approach. Don't let him think you're terrible.
Step 3. Ask simple questions
You can ask questions, for example, “May I sit here?” If he doesn't respond quickly, there's a good chance he wants you to stay with him a little longer because he likes you. If he likes you, he'll want to talk to you more than anyone else (unless he's being a big salesman). Also, if he smiles when he talks, or answers questions uncertainly (e.g. “No, uh, Yes, uh, No!”), there's a good chance he's nervous about the look or impression you get of him.
Step 4. Notice if he often starts a conversation about anything with you
If he likes you and you don't talk to him much, he will usually try to talk to you and start small talk. If he has a question, see if he's trying to ask you directly rather than having someone else ask it.
Step 5. If he walks past you and doesn't see or notice you, there's a good chance he wants you to think he's not interested in you
Try calling his name and saying, "Hey!" There's a chance he'll just smile because he's nervous.
Step 6. Find out if he's paying attention to you
When he talks to you, does he call or say your name a lot? If so, there's a good chance he wants you to notice or know that he likes you.
Step 7. Say random things to him
Try saying the unexpected and stick with it until he notices you. There is a chance that even if he has feelings for you, he will smile and try to continue the conversation. If he gives you a disgusted look and walks away, that's fine. Follow the next step.
Step 8. Make sure you are nice to him
Make sure you don't make him think that you don't like him at all. Stay polite like a grown man.
Step 9. If his friends look at him then at you (or every time you talk to him, his friends look at you and raise their eyebrows), that can be a good sign
If someone else tells you that he likes you, there's a good chance he's telling that person because he hopes you'll find out how he feels. Don't worry if his friends don't behave differently when they're around you. It's possible he hasn't told them about his crush on you.
Step 10. If your seat is across from his seat in class, notice if his knees and shoulders are tilted toward you
If you're sitting across from him, notice if he's tilted toward you. This means that he likes you and wants to be closer to you.
Step 11. Notice if he sits cross-legged, with his feet facing you
If you sit next to him, notice if he lays his feet on it and points it at you. If so, this could be a sign that he feels comfortable with you and wants to chat with you.
Step 12. If you sit behind him, notice if he often leans back in his chair and tries to get your attention (eg imitate your habits)
He may also be looking for a way to turn around and look at you (eg turn around to hand out an assignment sheet while looking at you).
Step 13. Another sign you can notice when a girl likes you is that she smiles every time you come over and talk to her
Step 14. Ask her out on a date and wait for her reaction
Just say what you want! If he really likes you, of course you don't have to chase him anymore to date him.
Step 15. If you like it, give it a hint via Snapchat or Facebook
You can say, for example, "I'm always thinking about him," and if he asks, "Who do you like?", let him know that this person is himself. You can also mention that your crush's name starts with a letter (of course the first letter of his name) and ask him to find out for himself before you tell him his name. This can be a good way of flirting or flirting, but make sure you only do it once because most girls like guys who are less fussy and more direct.
Step 16. If he's online, try to chat with him and then tell him you have to go
If he later leaves the network after you say goodbye, that can be a big sign that he likes you.
Step 17. Watch the movement
If he plays with his bangs, tugs or fiddles with his hair, or adjusts his clothes while talking to you, there's a good chance he likes you. Girls usually get nervous when they're around a guy they like. If he can't look you in the eye, that can be a good sign. He may really like you and want to look beautiful in front of you, or he may feel very nervous around you.
Step 18. Notice if he changes his posture when you enter class
This is a clear sign that he likes you.
Step 19. This step can give you a big clue about his feelings for you
When you are talking to him, first ask your friend to greet you. If he returns the greeting and then turns back to you, there's a good chance he wants your attention or wants your friend to leave so he can talk to you again.
Step 20. Watch him when you tease him or joke with him
If he's having a hard time responding to your teasing/jokes, there's a good chance he likes you. However, maybe he doesn't want to tease or joke too much with you because he doesn't want to offend you.
Step 21. Don't chat too much with your best friend
This can indicate that you like his friend and that is not a good sign. Girls can feel very jealous.
Step 22. When you are in the hallway, try to walk a few steps ahead of it
If he likes you, he will usually run faster to catch up with you. On the other hand, if he walks in front of you at a slow pace, he may want you to go faster and walk beside him. If he slows down while walking behind you, don't immediately assume that he doesn't like you. Maybe he was just nervous.
Step 23. When you talk to him in class and he seems quiet (or talks quickly), while he seems cheerful and not nervous when you talk to him on the phone, there's a good chance he likes you
Step 24. Watch when he sits next to you in class
If he's trying to be funny in front of you, there's a good chance he has feelings for you.
Step 25. While in class, stand up and move from your seat several times
See if he notices and follows you. If so, don't move or move too much from your seat. If not, he can find out what exactly you are doing.
Step 26. If he looks at you and doesn't say anything, he may be waiting for you to say something so the conversation can start or giving some kind of signal (such as a wave or a smile) to let him know you're paying attention
If he does the same, there's a good chance he likes you.
Step 27. If you both have a Facebook account or something and he starts chatting with you about five minutes after you log into the network, and this sort of thing happens a lot, it's probably a positive sign
This means it is watching the chat list and waiting for you to join the network. However, if he doesn't do this often, don't worry. There's a good chance he doesn't want to bother you or seems "pushy" and insistent.
Step 28. If you've known him long enough and he really likes you, chances are he'll change his behavior, both consciously and subconsciously
He may become a “better” person, or start copying the things you do to impress you. It can also be a way to roughly tell how long he has liked you.
Step 29. If the two of you are close friends and he often tells you all his problems, it shows that he trusts you and wants you to be a part of his life
Listen to his problems and try to help him solve them. As with him and his problems, if you share your problems with him and he shows excessive concern or concern (like a mother) and sincerely helps you solve any of your problems, there's a good chance he likes you or sees you as a "very good" friend..
Step 30. If you play an online game and he also becomes your friend in the game, he may start sending you lots of gifts
This may indicate that he likes you, although it doesn't always mean that.
If you're sitting next to him, but not too close to him during recess, try speaking louder than usual. Maybe he looked like he was reading a book. However, if he doesn't turn or turn a new page and his head is tilted slightly toward you, there's a good chance he's trying to listen to what you have to say. Try saying something funny, and if he seems to be smiling or giggling, there's almost a 100% chance that he's listening to you (and likes you or, at least, is interested in you). On the other hand, if he opens his notebook and looks like he's writing, but doesn't really understand what he's writing, there's a good chance he's listening to you (this can be hard to notice, of course)
Step 31. If you make him laugh and he rests his head on your shoulder and puts his hand on your hand or shoulder, there's a good chance he likes you
Step 32. If he is leaning forward with his head propped up or resting on his arms, or his hair is slightly hiding his face, pay attention to which way his chair is pointing, and which way his face is pointing
Maybe he's trying to steal glances at you.
Step 33. When you're having lunch and he keeps looking at you (perhaps with an occasional smile), there's a good chance he likes you
If one of your friends is friends with him, and then you walk and chat with your friend, he may look at you with a smile and look at your friend with an angry/irritated look.
34 Notice if he often or tries to seduce you
Does he touch or play with your hair? If you sit next to him, do his knees touch yours? Does he smile at you a lot? Does he often laugh when you are with him? Have you ever caught him when he was looking at you? These things clearly show that he is trying to seduce you.
35 Remember this
If a girl has liked you for a long time, she may no longer be acting or showing the signs described earlier. He may still be watching you, but more discreetly. He'll also be able to hide his feelings better, and accept his feelings for you as a part of his life. If he doesn't openly express his feelings for you, it doesn't ALWAYS mean that he's no longer interested in you. Try to dig deeper into the information about his feelings.
36 Try flirting or joking with him, but not too often
Also, if you know his favorite animal, talk about it and give him a smile.
37 Get to know him better and take him for a walk, but don't immediately ask “Do you like me?
That can actually take him by surprise.
38 Help him and do activities with him
If he says, “I really want to see that movie!”, try saying, “Yes! Me too! Maybe we can watch it together.” Sometimes this is more effective if you've known him long enough and he's already comfortable with you.
39 Notice if he looks at you often
This can be a clue for you. Plus, if he's always talking about you with his friends, there's a good chance he has feelings for you. If you really want to know, ask him or his friends directly. If in doubt, ask one of your friends to ask his friends.
40 If you like him, but aren't sure if he likes you too, meet one of his best friends and ask his best friend to ask who he likes
If his best friend tells you he likes you, ask him out right away!
Tips
- When you ask how he's doing, and he doesn't answer, there's a good chance he wants you to give him more attention. This attention can be shown by questions such as “Come on! You are not what you usually are today. There must be something." If he responds to your question, keep asking until he's willing to open up to you. If he can tell you his problems and you can keep a secret, surely his trust in you will be built even more. Make sure you don't upset him by asking what's wrong with him. Also listen for changes in the tone of his voice.
- Girls always like a guy who is interested in what he likes. Ask him about things he likes, such as sports, activities, colors, and more. If you ask, “What is your favorite color?” and he answers “Blue”, try giving a response like “Cool! It's also one of my favorite colors!" However, don't mention colors that are exactly the same unless their favorite color is yours too. Otherwise, he'll think you're lying if you mention his favorite color too many times. Girls also like guys with similar interests or experiences so try to connect with them more and do what they are interested in. Don't hesitate and try your best to make him more attracted to you.
- The right thing to do before the first lesson starts is to walk past him when he is in front of his locker or relaxing with his friends. If he greets you as you walk by, this can be a sign that he likes you. In addition, it also keeps you on his mind if he has only seen you in class a lot. You can do it every day. If he asks why you walk past him so often, simply say that you did take the usual route to get to class. In addition, when he greets you, pay attention to his body language.
- If he sees you often, he may have feelings for you. He may be too shy to approach you and say, for example, “Hey! How are you?" or simply "How are you?"
- Show him you care if he seems lonely or sad. Make sure he's not upset and ask what happened. Otherwise, his mood will not improve.
- Jokes or a sense of humor that can make girls laugh can help, but some girls aren't just looking for a funny guy; they are looking for a man who makes her feel comfortable and “fits in”. If you like him and he's sitting with one of his friends, then he looks at you, try to approach him. Say hello and introduce yourself. He may start asking random questions to get to know you. After that, you can leave and get back to work. When you walk past him, maybe he will call your name. If he calls your name, approach him and ask for his number. After a few days, try to contact him.
- Don't look at him too much. He may feel that you are a terrible and strange person. Instead, just glance at it every now and then. If you really like him, make sure he can tell how you feel when you look at him.
- If you want to tell him how you feel, do it in a quiet, comfortable place, like a park.
- If you want to ask her out on a date or watch a movie, ask her parents for permission first.
- Make sure you are always brave and confident. Girls like confident men. If the guy is embarrassed, the girl will feel uncomfortable and nervous.
- If the two of you show eye contact for more than three seconds, there's a good chance he likes you.
- Try talking to him if you don't talk to him much. He'll appreciate it because sometimes it's hard for girls to start a conversation.
Warning
- If he's being shy, let him open up. Don't make him feel rushed.
- If you don't like him but talk to him often, there's a good chance he's misinterpreting your attitude.
- Don't always tell hurtful jokes or be sarcastic. This can make girls less attracted to you. Sometimes a joke or sarcastic attitude can bring him to tears.
- While the signs described earlier seem reasonable, remember that every girl is different. Therefore, do not be discouraged if he does not show the signs described above.
- If you like him, you need to tell him how you feel. If you do, he will feel that you trust him. Gaining his trust is certainly a good thing. He will probably believe you if you trust him. Therefore, if you like him, try to sit near him as much as possible when in class.
- If you've been friends with him for a long time, be careful when you tell him how you feel. It can ruin your friendship if things don't go smoothly.
- If he wants a hug and you like it, be the first to get up and give him a hug. This shows him that you care and are not lazy.
- When you are sitting alone and he is by your side, don't make you look tired, tired, or depressed. This will discourage him from approaching and talking to you. Smile at him. If you're really feeling tired or depressed, that's okay because he could still come to you and try to cheer you up, or ask how you're doing. If he does, there's a good chance he likes you. However, if you seem emotional and depressed, there will be a lot of people asking how you're doing and comforting you like that.
- If you like it, don't leave it in the first 10 minutes of chatting. Otherwise, he will feel that you are not interested, then stop chasing you.
- Don't stalk him. This will only frighten him and lose his interest in you.
- Does he seem restless? If the girl you like seems restless around you and can't calm down, it's probably a sign that she likes you. In addition, if he plays with his hair, bites his lips, and turns his feet towards you, these things also have the potential to signal his love for you.
- If you show a bad mood when he's around, he may feel that you don't like him and so he will stay away from you.
- If you accidentally bump into or bump into him and he smiles and says he's fine, don't apologize afterward. He has forgiven you.
