So, you've found a girl who's sweet, beautiful, and you're compatible… is it time for a kiss? If you've never kissed him before (or haven't kissed at all), you might be a little scared. But don't worry! A little preparation and practice will make you a kissing master in no time! Fear not: when the mood is right… just approach and kiss him!
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Part 1 of 3: Getting Ready
Step 1. Practice
The best way to feel more comfortable and kiss better is to practice beforehand. You may be familiar with this advice, but practice really helps! You can practice kissing your hand or something else, or even kissing someone else.
Remember that it's best not to kiss other people, because if you're already in a close relationship with the girl you want to kiss, or kiss her after kissing someone else, and she finds out, she might get mad
Step 2. Watch your bad breath
No girl likes her mouth to taste like garlic or some other disgusting taste after a kiss, and this can lead her to shy away. Before dating or meeting him, brush your teeth and tongue, and rinse your mouth with mouthwash! To keep your breath fresh, try drinking only water during a date, rather than soft drinks. You can also suck on mint candy, or chew mint gum for a few minutes in the middle of your date.
If you go to a restaurant, bring your favorite breath freshener too. Go to the bathroom after dinner. Refresh your breath, after that, to be sure, place your palm in front of your mouth, exhale, and smell it
Step 3. Tease him a little
This step will help you build the mood. Say that the dress she is wearing looks beautiful; he definitely appreciates your compliment. If he frequently pats or teases you in a friendly manner, this means he wants you to touch him. Touch her body politely, such as holding her hand quickly when she wants to show something; she would feel more comfortable not having to spend time looking at each other strangely and coyly.
- If you're brave enough, put your hands around her waist as you both laugh, saying something sweet like "You're so pretty!"
- Offer to carry her on your back, or tickle her a bit if she seems to like it. But don't tickle him all the time, and do it politely. Do not touch her breasts or buttocks.
- Teasing each other will make him more open to kissing you. Think of this kiss as climbing a mountain. You have to walk slowly to reach the top.
Step 4. Choose the right time
Kissing at the right time will make things easier. A good time to kiss is at the end of a date, when you're leaving, while you're out for a walk, or after watching a movie together. You'll notice that times like these are very intimate and it's usually just the two of you there. This is very important! You should choose an intimate time for the first kiss.
Your kiss is best kept secret too. Don't show off your kisses to other people, because it's rude
Step 5. Ask for permission
This suggestion may sound odd, since we're used to watching kissing scenes in movies, but asking a girl's permission before kissing her shows that you respect and value her feelings. He will certainly appreciate it!
You can ask her permission by saying: "I really want to kiss you right now. Can I?" or "Do you want me to kiss you now?"
Part 2 of 3: Mastering the Kissing Technique
Step 1. Slowly bring your face closer to his
This gesture is a common sign that you are about to kiss him. That way, he can signal when he's feeling uncomfortable, thus preventing you from slapping you. Don't close your eyes until it's time to kiss him.
Step 2. Give a simple kiss with your mouth closed
Don't use your tongue on the first kiss. Make sure to close your eyes before you start kissing.
Step 3. Tilt your head
Slide your head slightly to the side. If your head is at the same level as his head, your noses will bump, resulting in your lips not being able to touch his.
Step 4. Approach him slowly and follow his movements
If he kisses you passionately, he will hold your lips against his for a long time; so you don't have to move your lips much.
Step 5. Use your hands
If you want, hold her face in your hand, and gently stroke her cheek with your thumb. Be sure to place one of your hands on his waist or lower back.
Step 6. Give a soft and loving kiss
A kiss is like a silent conversation: do it gently, with love and with all your feelings, so he will want to kiss again, again, and again!
Step 7. Take a breath
You might be surprised how many people forget to breathe when they're not used to kissing! If you want to keep kissing her but are having trouble catching her breath, try switching to kissing her cheek or forehead for a bit.
Step 8. Stop kissing when you are ready
Back away slowly after a few seconds (or minutes!) and open your eyes. Safe! You managed to climb all the way to the top of the mountain. Your next kiss will be much easier than your first kiss.
Part 3 of 3: Mastering Other Kissing Techniques
Step 1. Learn how to French kiss
This is the next kissing technique that is important for you to master. French kissing isn't as difficult as you might think, and with practice, it can be a very useful kissing technique for you.
Step 2. Learn how to make out
Making out may be difficult for you at first, but over time it will get easier. Just make sure not to overdo it, and keep it interesting.
Step 3. Learn to kiss passionately
Once you've mastered the basics of kissing, you'll probably want to get better at it, and this will largely depend on your passion. It's easy, just take it easy and let your feelings flow.
Step 4. Learn to kiss around other people
Chances are, the longer you're with your boyfriend, the more likely you are to kiss him in front of other people (such as on a double date or traveling together). It's okay to kiss in front of other people, but be sure to be polite!
Step 5. Learn to kiss with braces
If this is your first kiss, chances are you're wearing braces too. Do not worry! Despite all the jokes in movies and TV, braces aren't going to stop you from kissing.
Tips
- Treat your lips not chapped, rub your lips with a little sugar to remove dead skin cells.
- Just before your lips touch each other, swallow the saliva in your mouth and lick your lips to make them moist. Do this step secretly, or he'll think you're weird.
- Don't force it. Even if you want to keep kissing him, if he wants you to stop, respect his feelings and try again another time.
- He may not always want to kiss you, so it's okay if he refuses your kiss. However, if he wants to kiss, kiss him immediately!
- A kiss means a lot to a relationship, so be careful. Don't kiss someone if you're not serious.
- Don't be upset if he doesn't want to kiss you--he may be feeling depressed and not ready to kiss yet.
- To deepen your kiss, try placing one of your hands on the nape of his neck, on his waist, or on his cheek. After placing your hand there, try to pull his body closer to yours.
Warning
Don't be mad if he doesn't want to kiss, there's still another chance
- If he doesn't want to be kissed, try waiting when he wants to be kissed
- Don't force yourself to kiss him if you don't want to be slapped
