Kissing your crush for the first time can be a lot of fun, but you might be nervous. But don't worry -- if you're going to kiss someone for the first time then all you have to do is relax, feel good about your body, and follow some basic guidelines. If you want to kiss someone for the first time, just follow these easy steps.
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Method 1 of 3: Getting Ready to Kiss
Step 1. Freshen your breath
With fresh breath and can be kissed is the main component to make a memorable first kiss. Make sure you've brushed your teeth and used mouthwash just before kissing, or that you chewed some minty gum or inhaled breath freshener before kissing. You can do this an hour or so in advance – you don't want your breath to be too minty because that will show you're trying too hard to get ready for the kiss.
If you are having dinner or eating before kissing, you should avoid ordering any food that has a strong smell of garlic, onions, or spices
Step 2. Set the mood
It's important to share your first kiss in an intimate and romantic setting. Your first kiss can be something you will remember for a lifetime, so make it special. You don't have to carry 1000 candles or seduce the person with music, but you do have to choose the ideal time and place to kiss.
- Kissing in the afternoon. Kissing at sunset or after sunset will be more romantic than kissing during the day. You'll also feel less embarrassed about your first kiss if you're kissing in a dark place.
- Kissing in private. Choose a private location free from distractions or bystanders so you can really focus on kissing. Choose a bench in a secluded park, a nice spot near a beach or lake, or even your balcony.
- Looks good. Dress up a little to indicate that you are about to start a special moment. You wouldn't want to have your first kiss in a gym outfit.
Step 3. Make sure your partner is ready
This is an important point. You can set the mood and prepare for the breath you want, but nothing really works if your partner isn't ready to kiss yet. Before you share a kiss, make sure your partner has signs that show he likes you, whether it's on a date, touching you, or even telling you how he feels.
If your partner continues to look you in the eye, gently touches you, and smiles, then you'll know he's ready to kiss
Step 4. Remember to avoid some of the traps in kissing
Before you're ready to kiss, you have to make sure to do it casually and gently. If you're too aggressive and rude, your partner will get the wrong one, and the kiss will feel like a pushover. Here are some things to avoid before you make your first kiss:
- French kissing. Do not be too quick to put your tongue in your partner's mouth and leave spit everywhere. If your partner is bold and lightly touching his tongue with yours, then you can move on to a French kiss, but don't try this in the first few seconds of your traditional kiss.
- Bite. Biting your partner's lips or even their tongue can be a naughty way to spice up your kiss. But if you do this on your first kiss, your partner will be surprised and may back off.
- Hands everywhere. You should make physical contact with your partner, move your body closer, and stroke your partner's head or shoulders with your hands. You should never grope your partner in inappropriate places during your first kiss. This is too much for the first time, and it will come across as insulting and make your first kiss feel insincere.
Method 2 of 3: Kiss
Step 1. Make physical contact
Start moving closer to the person you want to kiss, either moving closer while you're sitting down, placing your arms around the person, or brushing their hair. When you start to touch the person, hold their gaze to make your intentions clear.
- Your first kiss will feel more natural if you have touched the person and are comfortable with them. Your hands shouldn't touch inappropriate places – keep it sexual.
- Your physical contact can start with a light, gentle mockery. You can playfully hit or gently push the person, until your behavior becomes more serious.
- Try making a romantic compliment before you kiss. Just say, "Your eyes are driving me crazy" or "You look beautiful tonight."
Step 2. Move closer until your faces are only a few inches apart
When you have made physical contact, bring yourself closer so that your faces are only a few inches from your partner's face. You should maintain eye contact, and you can give a small smile to show your affection for the person.
- Move closer until your hips are almost touching and use your hand to touch his cheek, hair, or shoulder.
- One of the traditional kissing positions is where the man wraps his arms around the woman's waist, while the woman wraps her arms around the shoulders and behind the man's neck – you can think of this as a “slow dance” position.
Step 3. Once you've got the position, there's nothing else to do but kiss
Do not hesitate. If the two of you have made it this far, then it's pretty obvious that you two really enjoy kissing each other. Slowly leaning closer and closing his lips. Just remember to take it slow. Let your lips touch gently as you feel the person. Keep your lips only slightly open and continue kissing the person for 5 to 10 seconds before you let go.
Keep your hands active while you kiss. Use your hands to hold the person's face, stroke their hair, or stroke their neck. You don't have to overdo it with your hands. Just make sure your whole body is touching each other so your kiss will be sweeter
Step 4. Withdraw
Slowly move away from the person. Don't suddenly stop kissing and pull away with your whole body, and keep your distance from your partner. You should maintain physical contact when pulling away and maintain your partner's gaze. Keep stroking your partner gently with your hands to let him know how good the kiss was.
Take your time to get away from physical contact. If you are too sudden, your partner will think you are not enjoying it
Method 3 of 3: React Appropriately After Kissing
Step 1. Proceed to the next kiss if it feels right
If you can't let go of physical contact or you keep your eyes on your partner, then you need to keep the kiss going. Gently stroke your partner's hair or cheeks and move on to the next kiss. You have to keep it as slow as you feel for the other person, but you can be more manly and very bold as your kiss progresses.
If that feels right, you can slowly move on to a French kiss. Make sure your partner is also gently using his tongue so you don't catch him off guard
Step 2. Don't be disappointed if it doesn't go smoothly
If your first kiss isn't as good as you hoped it would be, fear not. First kisses are usually awkward because you two are getting to know each other and your kissing will improve with practice. You can take a break and try it another time when it feels right.
Even if it doesn't go smoothly, you should slowly pull yourself away from the person and move on. Don't dwell on what happened and imagine success for the next kiss
Tips
- Freshen your mouth before you kiss.
- Only continue as far as you are comfortable. Don't do something you don't like.
- Make sure you really know the person.
- If you have a tooth lump, that's okay, if you love the person, they'll think it's cute and you can continue kissing.
- If you have chapped lips, don't kiss. Everyone has chapped lips at some point, so find the right time to kiss.
